Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Advice on a first date? (this isnt a pathetic guy here, just an interesting situation)?

normally, i wouldnt even ask about what to do on a 1st date, but here goes:





i have talked to this girl on the phone for about 3 hours in the last couple days combined, and only 5 minutes in person. she is in a comfort zone when talking to me, and i was just wondering what a good first date would be?





movie? dinner? coffee? chill at my house?Advice on a first date? (this isnt a pathetic guy here, just an interesting situation)?
Well first dates are always important, because girls base a lot of their decisions on them.





Im not sure this girl is comfortable talking to you in real life, but she certainly IS comfortable talking to you on the phone.If you feel like you want to have a fun date and get her to talk in real life then i'd suggest going to play pool or bowling with a group of people. That gives oppurtunity for more conversation.





If you want it to be just the tow of you and you want to get her to open up then i'd suggest coffee or diner (not too formal or anything).





If you want to have a relaxed first date with not much talking then i'd recommend the movies. And of course you can try your luck there if you think its the right moment for that sort of thing.





For a first date i WOULDNT suggest taking her to your house because that might be too awkward for her and not as interesting.





I hope this helps :]

Any tips to get a date???!!!!!! Need advice from a guy...?

I'm a girl - duh.


But i have a formal dance coming up at my school. I have a cute dress and all - only one problem - no cute GUY!!! I need to know how to get one, 'cause I'm way too shy to ask face to face. TIPS PLEASE!Any tips to get a date???!!!!!! Need advice from a guy...?
toughen up and just ask someone - u got to take chances - if they say no - well then thats their lossAny tips to get a date???!!!!!! Need advice from a guy...?
allright i had the same proboblem eccept im a guy but i would say start talking to someone and you need to ask them cuz some guys are sissys and cant ask a girl somewhere but if you run out of time ask a friend good luck
start stareing smileing and intrested.
It,s easy just talk to guysand act like you are out of reach.I guess in a week you might have the whole football team lining up for you
Just try to be friendly and outgoing. We are attracted to girls who are happy with themselves and love life. Even if you're not right at the moment, putting on that front will make guys notice you and will help you have more confidence in yourself. If there is someone in particular, you may try and drop little hints. He may be just as nervous as you are so let him no that if he were to ask, he has a chance.
i would love to date u
know go to guys that's r close to u first den u can say what u like to him, i want to go to that party but need someone less shy than me to come with me. or u ask one of ur neighbor that u fancy to come with u it's better that way.
Just ask. All they can say is no thanks, and you move on. No big deal.
Some ideas:


1. Run a contest at school. It goes like this:


We will have a race from one end of school to the other this afternoon starting at 4:00 p.m.. The third place winner gets a hardy handshake. The second place winner gets a hug. The first place winner gets to go to the dance with me.





2. Run a poetry contest. Whichever of the guys writes the best poem for you, will get to go to the dance with you.





3. Put an ad on school bulletin: ';If you go to the dance with me, I will do your math homework for you';.





Good luck :)
call me
start flirting BIG time , i think its cool when a girl grabs my butt , its like the opposite and it attracts me, so try that haha
Ask your female friends to flush out some guys for you.

Can anyone offer me some advice for dating an older man?

I am 26, he is 35. I am just getting my life together and he has everything figured out. I have always dated men my age who were in similar situations. I am concerned that I wont be able to offer him anything (that I'm not good enough) and we wont be able to relate to one another.Can anyone offer me some advice for dating an older man?
Stock up on viagraCan anyone offer me some advice for dating an older man?
Actually, you'll probably be just as emotionally mature as you so that'll be ok.


The best advice I can give you is to be yourself.
it will all better if your start will better.

First date tomorrow. Advice?

I'm going out on my first date with a guy tomorrow to the cinema. I'm not a teenager, I'm divorced and have a kid but have never really dated, just got with people I had got to know through work or friends. I'm not sure what to expect really. Should I let him kiss me if he tries? Or not at all? Is just a peck acceptable? How about touching (I mean hands, arms legs etc)? Do I try and make sure he keeps his hands to himself? We've been chatting a lot over the past couple of weeks but haven't been out yet. Bit nervous really. Don't want to wreck stuff by sleeping with him, but I do like him. How many dates until it becomes acceptable to sleep together? I want to feel comfortable with him before I do but don't want him to get bored before that happens! Is it a bit of a fine line?First date tomorrow. Advice?
The first thing that you have to realise is that - unacceptable and unfair though it is - a divorcee with a child is considered fair game and a sure thing by many many men!





Reading your question I feel that what you have said, says a lot about you. All good! Dont be the Ice Maiden but do not let yourself be a pushover. You are not one of the 14 year old drama queens that seem to make up half the people on this site, so keep your respect and your standards. The very LAST thing you want is for your date to think you easy and a push over! Definately no sex on the first date. definately no heavy petting either. A kiss or two never hurt anyone.





You obviously have your child to think of as well as yourself so you need to be a little more picky than someone without. Just be yourself, take it as it comes. If you think it is not likely to go anywhere, follow your instinct and cut loose. despite what many ladies in your position may think, there are actually a lot of decent and still available guys out there. If he is not prepared to wait for sex until you are comfortable with the idea then that says it all about what he is really like !





Good luck, i hope that it works out well for you.First date tomorrow. Advice?
IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE U TOO TENSE NUMBER 1 THING...DONT EVER LET A GUY KNOW U TOO TENSE OR NERVOUS..CUZ THEN THEY THINK THEY GOTCHU....2ND U NEED TO LIVE UR LIFE...THERE HAS TO BE SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR U AND MAYBE THIS COULD BE THE ONE...ULL HAVE FUN AND IF WHAT EVER HAPPENS HAPPENS THEN JUST REMEMBER EVERYTHING HAPPENS 4 AREASON!! GOOD LUCK JUST LOOSEN UP! ULL HAVE FUN!!
I think you should just be yourselve. If you feel really nice with him why not a kiss but if you don't feel it, do not force yourselve. Every situation is different... just follow your feelings.
just be yourself. personally i wouldnt kiss on the first date - but thats me. dont be too touchy feely after all its only the 1st date...
i believe a kiss is acceptable!BUTTT


do not give the guy to much at once as he maybe after one thing, if you keep dating this guy and you really do like him, you should still wait a while before you sleep with him, as this will help you find out whether he likes you for you! and whether he wants a fool around playtime or a fulltime relationship!!





i know one thing for sure!!if the guy your dating puts his hands near the area he shouldnt be near straight away, then thats sums him up!!





just remember love is not sex :)





hope that helps

Blind date need advice?

I am going on a date with an older guy he asked me out i have never met him before we have been talking and know each other through a mutual friend. I am really excited and looking forward to it but have some worries just cause we haven't met i feel like i am going to be super nervous i need some advice on how to be calm when i meet him and go on this date.





thanksBlind date need advice?
JUst go with the flow really, dont try to rush things

First date, need advice girls?

I am takin this girl out on a date 2moro. Its our first date. She asked me where we were going I said I was gunna surprise her. I was gunna take her bowling but then I thought bowling with two people would be kinda boring. The games would go by really quick because there would only be two people.





I wanna take her somewhere fun. What do you suggest?





ThanxFirst date, need advice girls?
Bowling is cute with just two people.


Especially if she doesn't know how to bowl, then you can get close to her and show her how to do it. =p


But there is the movies.. kind of cliche, but you can go see ';P.S. I Love You'; haha I hear its a good date movie.


Then of course you can go to dinner after the movies.





I don't really know what kind of a town you live in, but if you live out in the middle of no where like me, bowling and movies are about your only choices. haha.First date, need advice girls?
Hawaii.





Eat Funyuns.
carnival? you know.. the ferris wheel, fairy floss etc... or a waterpark... hell, i dunno.
After long drive a dinner at a NICE restaurant is always a winner.
wow a first date is always specail and nerve racking.


what you need to do, is first call her on the phone and find out some stuff she likes to do, like maybe dancing, shopping you know wat she likes.


because if you do sometheing she likes then shell totally be into you.





just some advise, girls dont like OBSESSED guys so try to play a lil hard to get, but not to much.





good luck =]
since you guys sound rather young, i got an idea. i thought mini golf sounded fun. like mini golf/glow in the dark mini golf first and then you can go to some fun, young restaurant for dinner after. i tried to help. i was thinking of things that i would think would be fun.
go to a carnival or a theme park..that's the best first date..she'll surely expect a second one
go to a complex where they have cinemas, bowling and restaurants! then do all three or take your pick :)
bowling then movies....this way you learn more about her while bowling and than at the movie, she might be more open/accepting if you start holding her hand.
Take her to Olive garden then back to ur house and watch a nice movie
i would go to dinner and then lazer quest!! it's fun and it breaks the ice cause you'll show her you know how to have fun. if that sounds boring then try sled riding or bumber cars something to just get her to laugh cause that always breaks the ice on a first date!!! if you can't find anything here then ask one of her friends were she would luv to go they should be able to help you better then us!!! good luck and i hope i helped a lil
ice skating!
take her to an arcade!! I'm not sure if they have this everywhere but where I live there is this arcade called Gameworks and another one called Dave %26amp; Busters which is also a really nice restuarant! hope I helped!
Movies or umm... Mini Golf





Eva's idea is good too....ice skating
Wherever you go, make sure its somewhere shes never been before.





She will then forever associate that place with you, and will recount the story of the 'time she went on a date here' to her future boyfriends, much to their annoyance.
movies, mall (shopping) some sort of show, mini golf, there are plenty fo things to do just look around youll find something. as kher what she wants to do. it doesn't have to b a surprise.
ice skating is pretty cool





barbeques...





or just invite her to your house so you cna talk and listen to music and stuff. or





take her good restuarant





or walk at the beahc. i would be like wow! if a guy took me for a stroll on the beach. specially at night...





hahah





if you have a car, just drive around talking and stuff..





and buy her some flowers or something!





and pay for everything okay!!





be a gentlemen and listen to her dont talk about yourself throughout the converstaion. girls like it when they think boys care about what theyre saying...








:P::P hope it helps and yeah ur right, bowling would be akward with just the two of u...





take her out for a mela





or a concert or somehting





her fave band





or a partyy!!








the park is also good, just thought of that now..
take her to the movies if there is any good ones.


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hell yeah!





Lasor Tag


Bowling


Dinner and a movie


Minature Golfing


Shopping (that's generic tho)


Go to the lake (in the evening)


Go to the ocean (in the evening)


Take a drive


Go swiming


Go to arcade


Go to the musuem


Go to the zoo


Go to a carnivale


Squeeze a turtle


Go eat sandwhiches up on a rooftop





Good luck!!! Hope you find something orginal and fun to do!
No Sweat! If she is girly take her to the movies and just sit there and look at her with Googley eyes! :) LOL and if she is a Tomboy then I would try taking her to a restraunt and then maybe getting tickets to a sports even close by. But the most important thing is ur time with her and being together!
ice skating would be fun...the movies are not good for a first date because you don't have a chance to talk and get to know each other. Take her some fresh flowers as well!
well first of all find out wat she likes if she likes itailian food bring her to olive garden its a really great romantic restraunt or maybe the movies. or yall can just go outlike to the mall if she doesnt have the money to buy a lkittle somthin pitch in it will make her fill speacial.
personally, I always loved to go ice skating with him, it's fun and romantic. However, another great idea is the movies even though it's not very original, it's still nice, but let her pick the movie! Good luck!! Be nice, let her know you care, curdious, and polite, make sure you have some humor, and Have fun!
Do you have any idea what sports she like most? I think if you will going to take her in a game why not the one that she like most so that she will appreciate really good and you will going to have a good time.
I agree with the dinner at a resturat one; Don't go somewhere where you can't have a laugh, and get to know each other properly; like the cinema, what do you learn about each other from sitting with them? Ice-skating is a good one, so you can relax and have fun, without having to be constantly trying to impress each other.
I suggest Lazer Tag, or Mini Golf... Hope this helps
It might sound old hat, but dinner at a NICE restaurant is always a winner.
maybe you should take her to the movies or bowling it would be fun!!
Well before you pick her up get her some Flowers(roses).Then taking to a fancy romantic restaurant then take her ice skating.If you go ice skating and she does not know how to ice skate you can help her.GOOD LUCK!
i think ice skating. That way you can help her and stuff. and its so much fun for a date. trust me
Ask her the type of place she loves for first date and take her to such a place.
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  • Going on first date any advice?

    be cool. make her laugh but not to much you dont want to seem like a friend more then a dating partner. be curtious if you are eating at a resturaunt pull out her chair. unless its a booth. hold her hand dont be afraid your on a date. make her feel special dont check out any other girls while your out. and at the end of the date if it went really good dont be afraid to kiss her..girls like to see that u are the one to make a first move not them. i hope this helps. Going on first date any advice?
    Dont show up late.


    Pay for it.


    Never look at the girls boobs.


    Definetly dont ask about sex.


    Kiss, strictly kissing no making out unless your both comfortable and she doesnt stop.


    Compliment her.


    Keep conversation going.


    Only talk about your life if she asks.


    Keep asking stuff like, where do u want to go to college?


    even if its boring, shell think you want a longterm relationship


    including if u both planb on going to the same college


    ask where she wants to live when she gets older


    ask if she has any pets


    her birthday


    etc


    [but those are only conversation starters and when things get boring]





    Open the doors for her[corny but definetly worth it]


    Going on first date any advice?
    compliment her when you see her.


    Like say ';Wow! You look great!';


    Dont stare at her boobs.


    Get her some flowers. Flowers Not roses.


    Like Daisys or something.


    Dont talk about your ex gf.


    Dont talk about your mom. or Just a little.


    My Boyfriend sais:


    Let her talk. Ask questions about her.


    Women are shallow and self centered.


    ';She really doesnt care about what you say. She really doesnt.';


    Thats not true. I care. But thats what he sais but hes a man... What does he know.


    Ok so anyway. Like when your eating or whatever.


    Compliment her again. Like if her hands on the table. Tell her what tiny hands she has. Say it like you love tiny hands more than anything. But dont be creepy.


    Or tell her, her hair is pretty. Or eyes.





    When asking her about herself. Ask her stuff that will let her talk about herself. Hobbies. family. favorite color. pets.





    Now not all women are like this. Its not that bad. We dont know we do this by the way. Who knew. Im a woman.


    Anyway. Just be yourself.


    Have fun and kiss her in the end.


    Call her the next day. Unless shes a super *****.






    If your on your first date you must


    - Have a plan


    - Know what you are doing


    - Ask yourself? do you actually love her?


    - Know her interest


    - Most importantly be yourself





    Most relationships end so quickly because they don't be themselves
    Any more details...is this a blind date..someone you've liked for years...are you in charge of planning it?...Other than that all I can offer you is the advice to be yourself.
    Compliment her. Don't embarrass you or her. Be yourself. And Have Fun. Then you will have a perfect date.
    be sweet and don't make fun of the girl or make her feel insecure





    dont make her feel like you think what she does is weird





    act natural... =]
    Pay the bill.


    Don't be too quiet yet don't be too loud.



    find something common and don't never have a quite moment
    be yourself and just remember respect and u will do fine
    Don't throw up.
    Be sober and have patience.do what ever she wants
    be yourself and nice.
    be yourself and have fun
    just be urself,, njoi
    be ur self


    make her laugh