First date tomorrow. Advice?

I'm going out on my first date with a guy tomorrow to the cinema. I'm not a teenager, I'm divorced and have a kid but have never really dated, just got with people I had got to know through work or friends. I'm not sure what to expect really. Should I let him kiss me if he tries? Or not at all? Is just a peck acceptable? How about touching (I mean hands, arms legs etc)? Do I try and make sure he keeps his hands to himself? We've been chatting a lot over the past couple of weeks but haven't been out yet. Bit nervous really. Don't want to wreck stuff by sleeping with him, but I do like him. How many dates until it becomes acceptable to sleep together? I want to feel comfortable with him before I do but don't want him to get bored before that happens! Is it a bit of a fine line?First date tomorrow. Advice?
The first thing that you have to realise is that - unacceptable and unfair though it is - a divorcee with a child is considered fair game and a sure thing by many many men!





Reading your question I feel that what you have said, says a lot about you. All good! Dont be the Ice Maiden but do not let yourself be a pushover. You are not one of the 14 year old drama queens that seem to make up half the people on this site, so keep your respect and your standards. The very LAST thing you want is for your date to think you easy and a push over! Definately no sex on the first date. definately no heavy petting either. A kiss or two never hurt anyone.





You obviously have your child to think of as well as yourself so you need to be a little more picky than someone without. Just be yourself, take it as it comes. If you think it is not likely to go anywhere, follow your instinct and cut loose. despite what many ladies in your position may think, there are actually a lot of decent and still available guys out there. If he is not prepared to wait for sex until you are comfortable with the idea then that says it all about what he is really like !





Good luck, i hope that it works out well for you.First date tomorrow. Advice?
IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE U TOO TENSE NUMBER 1 THING...DONT EVER LET A GUY KNOW U TOO TENSE OR NERVOUS..CUZ THEN THEY THINK THEY GOTCHU....2ND U NEED TO LIVE UR LIFE...THERE HAS TO BE SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR U AND MAYBE THIS COULD BE THE ONE...ULL HAVE FUN AND IF WHAT EVER HAPPENS HAPPENS THEN JUST REMEMBER EVERYTHING HAPPENS 4 AREASON!! GOOD LUCK JUST LOOSEN UP! ULL HAVE FUN!!
I think you should just be yourselve. If you feel really nice with him why not a kiss but if you don't feel it, do not force yourselve. Every situation is different... just follow your feelings.
just be yourself. personally i wouldnt kiss on the first date - but thats me. dont be too touchy feely after all its only the 1st date...
i believe a kiss is acceptable!BUTTT


do not give the guy to much at once as he maybe after one thing, if you keep dating this guy and you really do like him, you should still wait a while before you sleep with him, as this will help you find out whether he likes you for you! and whether he wants a fool around playtime or a fulltime relationship!!





i know one thing for sure!!if the guy your dating puts his hands near the area he shouldnt be near straight away, then thats sums him up!!





just remember love is not sex :)





hope that helps