Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Advice on a first date? (this isnt a pathetic guy here, just an interesting situation)?

normally, i wouldnt even ask about what to do on a 1st date, but here goes:





i have talked to this girl on the phone for about 3 hours in the last couple days combined, and only 5 minutes in person. she is in a comfort zone when talking to me, and i was just wondering what a good first date would be?





movie? dinner? coffee? chill at my house?Advice on a first date? (this isnt a pathetic guy here, just an interesting situation)?
Well first dates are always important, because girls base a lot of their decisions on them.





Im not sure this girl is comfortable talking to you in real life, but she certainly IS comfortable talking to you on the phone.If you feel like you want to have a fun date and get her to talk in real life then i'd suggest going to play pool or bowling with a group of people. That gives oppurtunity for more conversation.





If you want it to be just the tow of you and you want to get her to open up then i'd suggest coffee or diner (not too formal or anything).





If you want to have a relaxed first date with not much talking then i'd recommend the movies. And of course you can try your luck there if you think its the right moment for that sort of thing.





For a first date i WOULDNT suggest taking her to your house because that might be too awkward for her and not as interesting.





I hope this helps :]

Any tips to get a date???!!!!!! Need advice from a guy...?

I'm a girl - duh.


But i have a formal dance coming up at my school. I have a cute dress and all - only one problem - no cute GUY!!! I need to know how to get one, 'cause I'm way too shy to ask face to face. TIPS PLEASE!Any tips to get a date???!!!!!! Need advice from a guy...?
toughen up and just ask someone - u got to take chances - if they say no - well then thats their lossAny tips to get a date???!!!!!! Need advice from a guy...?
allright i had the same proboblem eccept im a guy but i would say start talking to someone and you need to ask them cuz some guys are sissys and cant ask a girl somewhere but if you run out of time ask a friend good luck
start stareing smileing and intrested.
It,s easy just talk to guysand act like you are out of reach.I guess in a week you might have the whole football team lining up for you
Just try to be friendly and outgoing. We are attracted to girls who are happy with themselves and love life. Even if you're not right at the moment, putting on that front will make guys notice you and will help you have more confidence in yourself. If there is someone in particular, you may try and drop little hints. He may be just as nervous as you are so let him no that if he were to ask, he has a chance.
i would love to date u
know go to guys that's r close to u first den u can say what u like to him, i want to go to that party but need someone less shy than me to come with me. or u ask one of ur neighbor that u fancy to come with u it's better that way.
Just ask. All they can say is no thanks, and you move on. No big deal.
Some ideas:


1. Run a contest at school. It goes like this:


We will have a race from one end of school to the other this afternoon starting at 4:00 p.m.. The third place winner gets a hardy handshake. The second place winner gets a hug. The first place winner gets to go to the dance with me.





2. Run a poetry contest. Whichever of the guys writes the best poem for you, will get to go to the dance with you.





3. Put an ad on school bulletin: ';If you go to the dance with me, I will do your math homework for you';.





Good luck :)
call me
start flirting BIG time , i think its cool when a girl grabs my butt , its like the opposite and it attracts me, so try that haha
Ask your female friends to flush out some guys for you.

Can anyone offer me some advice for dating an older man?

I am 26, he is 35. I am just getting my life together and he has everything figured out. I have always dated men my age who were in similar situations. I am concerned that I wont be able to offer him anything (that I'm not good enough) and we wont be able to relate to one another.Can anyone offer me some advice for dating an older man?
Stock up on viagraCan anyone offer me some advice for dating an older man?
Actually, you'll probably be just as emotionally mature as you so that'll be ok.


The best advice I can give you is to be yourself.
it will all better if your start will better.

First date tomorrow. Advice?

I'm going out on my first date with a guy tomorrow to the cinema. I'm not a teenager, I'm divorced and have a kid but have never really dated, just got with people I had got to know through work or friends. I'm not sure what to expect really. Should I let him kiss me if he tries? Or not at all? Is just a peck acceptable? How about touching (I mean hands, arms legs etc)? Do I try and make sure he keeps his hands to himself? We've been chatting a lot over the past couple of weeks but haven't been out yet. Bit nervous really. Don't want to wreck stuff by sleeping with him, but I do like him. How many dates until it becomes acceptable to sleep together? I want to feel comfortable with him before I do but don't want him to get bored before that happens! Is it a bit of a fine line?First date tomorrow. Advice?
The first thing that you have to realise is that - unacceptable and unfair though it is - a divorcee with a child is considered fair game and a sure thing by many many men!





Reading your question I feel that what you have said, says a lot about you. All good! Dont be the Ice Maiden but do not let yourself be a pushover. You are not one of the 14 year old drama queens that seem to make up half the people on this site, so keep your respect and your standards. The very LAST thing you want is for your date to think you easy and a push over! Definately no sex on the first date. definately no heavy petting either. A kiss or two never hurt anyone.





You obviously have your child to think of as well as yourself so you need to be a little more picky than someone without. Just be yourself, take it as it comes. If you think it is not likely to go anywhere, follow your instinct and cut loose. despite what many ladies in your position may think, there are actually a lot of decent and still available guys out there. If he is not prepared to wait for sex until you are comfortable with the idea then that says it all about what he is really like !





Good luck, i hope that it works out well for you.First date tomorrow. Advice?
IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE U TOO TENSE NUMBER 1 THING...DONT EVER LET A GUY KNOW U TOO TENSE OR NERVOUS..CUZ THEN THEY THINK THEY GOTCHU....2ND U NEED TO LIVE UR LIFE...THERE HAS TO BE SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR U AND MAYBE THIS COULD BE THE ONE...ULL HAVE FUN AND IF WHAT EVER HAPPENS HAPPENS THEN JUST REMEMBER EVERYTHING HAPPENS 4 AREASON!! GOOD LUCK JUST LOOSEN UP! ULL HAVE FUN!!
I think you should just be yourselve. If you feel really nice with him why not a kiss but if you don't feel it, do not force yourselve. Every situation is different... just follow your feelings.
just be yourself. personally i wouldnt kiss on the first date - but thats me. dont be too touchy feely after all its only the 1st date...
i believe a kiss is acceptable!BUTTT


do not give the guy to much at once as he maybe after one thing, if you keep dating this guy and you really do like him, you should still wait a while before you sleep with him, as this will help you find out whether he likes you for you! and whether he wants a fool around playtime or a fulltime relationship!!





i know one thing for sure!!if the guy your dating puts his hands near the area he shouldnt be near straight away, then thats sums him up!!





just remember love is not sex :)





hope that helps

Blind date need advice?

I am going on a date with an older guy he asked me out i have never met him before we have been talking and know each other through a mutual friend. I am really excited and looking forward to it but have some worries just cause we haven't met i feel like i am going to be super nervous i need some advice on how to be calm when i meet him and go on this date.





thanksBlind date need advice?
JUst go with the flow really, dont try to rush things

First date, need advice girls?

I am takin this girl out on a date 2moro. Its our first date. She asked me where we were going I said I was gunna surprise her. I was gunna take her bowling but then I thought bowling with two people would be kinda boring. The games would go by really quick because there would only be two people.





I wanna take her somewhere fun. What do you suggest?





ThanxFirst date, need advice girls?
Bowling is cute with just two people.


Especially if she doesn't know how to bowl, then you can get close to her and show her how to do it. =p


But there is the movies.. kind of cliche, but you can go see ';P.S. I Love You'; haha I hear its a good date movie.


Then of course you can go to dinner after the movies.





I don't really know what kind of a town you live in, but if you live out in the middle of no where like me, bowling and movies are about your only choices. haha.First date, need advice girls?
Hawaii.





Eat Funyuns.
carnival? you know.. the ferris wheel, fairy floss etc... or a waterpark... hell, i dunno.
After long drive a dinner at a NICE restaurant is always a winner.
wow a first date is always specail and nerve racking.


what you need to do, is first call her on the phone and find out some stuff she likes to do, like maybe dancing, shopping you know wat she likes.


because if you do sometheing she likes then shell totally be into you.





just some advise, girls dont like OBSESSED guys so try to play a lil hard to get, but not to much.





good luck =]
since you guys sound rather young, i got an idea. i thought mini golf sounded fun. like mini golf/glow in the dark mini golf first and then you can go to some fun, young restaurant for dinner after. i tried to help. i was thinking of things that i would think would be fun.
go to a carnival or a theme park..that's the best first date..she'll surely expect a second one
go to a complex where they have cinemas, bowling and restaurants! then do all three or take your pick :)
bowling then movies....this way you learn more about her while bowling and than at the movie, she might be more open/accepting if you start holding her hand.
Take her to Olive garden then back to ur house and watch a nice movie
i would go to dinner and then lazer quest!! it's fun and it breaks the ice cause you'll show her you know how to have fun. if that sounds boring then try sled riding or bumber cars something to just get her to laugh cause that always breaks the ice on a first date!!! if you can't find anything here then ask one of her friends were she would luv to go they should be able to help you better then us!!! good luck and i hope i helped a lil
ice skating!
take her to an arcade!! I'm not sure if they have this everywhere but where I live there is this arcade called Gameworks and another one called Dave %26amp; Busters which is also a really nice restuarant! hope I helped!
Movies or umm... Mini Golf





Eva's idea is good too....ice skating
Wherever you go, make sure its somewhere shes never been before.





She will then forever associate that place with you, and will recount the story of the 'time she went on a date here' to her future boyfriends, much to their annoyance.
movies, mall (shopping) some sort of show, mini golf, there are plenty fo things to do just look around youll find something. as kher what she wants to do. it doesn't have to b a surprise.
ice skating is pretty cool





barbeques...





or just invite her to your house so you cna talk and listen to music and stuff. or





take her good restuarant





or walk at the beahc. i would be like wow! if a guy took me for a stroll on the beach. specially at night...





hahah





if you have a car, just drive around talking and stuff..





and buy her some flowers or something!





and pay for everything okay!!





be a gentlemen and listen to her dont talk about yourself throughout the converstaion. girls like it when they think boys care about what theyre saying...








:P::P hope it helps and yeah ur right, bowling would be akward with just the two of u...





take her out for a mela





or a concert or somehting





her fave band





or a partyy!!








the park is also good, just thought of that now..
take her to the movies if there is any good ones.


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hell yeah!





Lasor Tag


Bowling


Dinner and a movie


Minature Golfing


Shopping (that's generic tho)


Go to the lake (in the evening)


Go to the ocean (in the evening)


Take a drive


Go swiming


Go to arcade


Go to the musuem


Go to the zoo


Go to a carnivale


Squeeze a turtle


Go eat sandwhiches up on a rooftop





Good luck!!! Hope you find something orginal and fun to do!
No Sweat! If she is girly take her to the movies and just sit there and look at her with Googley eyes! :) LOL and if she is a Tomboy then I would try taking her to a restraunt and then maybe getting tickets to a sports even close by. But the most important thing is ur time with her and being together!
ice skating would be fun...the movies are not good for a first date because you don't have a chance to talk and get to know each other. Take her some fresh flowers as well!
well first of all find out wat she likes if she likes itailian food bring her to olive garden its a really great romantic restraunt or maybe the movies. or yall can just go outlike to the mall if she doesnt have the money to buy a lkittle somthin pitch in it will make her fill speacial.
personally, I always loved to go ice skating with him, it's fun and romantic. However, another great idea is the movies even though it's not very original, it's still nice, but let her pick the movie! Good luck!! Be nice, let her know you care, curdious, and polite, make sure you have some humor, and Have fun!
Do you have any idea what sports she like most? I think if you will going to take her in a game why not the one that she like most so that she will appreciate really good and you will going to have a good time.
I agree with the dinner at a resturat one; Don't go somewhere where you can't have a laugh, and get to know each other properly; like the cinema, what do you learn about each other from sitting with them? Ice-skating is a good one, so you can relax and have fun, without having to be constantly trying to impress each other.
I suggest Lazer Tag, or Mini Golf... Hope this helps
It might sound old hat, but dinner at a NICE restaurant is always a winner.
maybe you should take her to the movies or bowling it would be fun!!
Well before you pick her up get her some Flowers(roses).Then taking to a fancy romantic restaurant then take her ice skating.If you go ice skating and she does not know how to ice skate you can help her.GOOD LUCK!
i think ice skating. That way you can help her and stuff. and its so much fun for a date. trust me
Ask her the type of place she loves for first date and take her to such a place.
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  • Going on first date any advice?

    be cool. make her laugh but not to much you dont want to seem like a friend more then a dating partner. be curtious if you are eating at a resturaunt pull out her chair. unless its a booth. hold her hand dont be afraid your on a date. make her feel special dont check out any other girls while your out. and at the end of the date if it went really good dont be afraid to kiss her..girls like to see that u are the one to make a first move not them. i hope this helps. Going on first date any advice?
    Dont show up late.


    Pay for it.


    Never look at the girls boobs.


    Definetly dont ask about sex.


    Kiss, strictly kissing no making out unless your both comfortable and she doesnt stop.


    Compliment her.


    Keep conversation going.


    Only talk about your life if she asks.


    Keep asking stuff like, where do u want to go to college?


    even if its boring, shell think you want a longterm relationship


    including if u both planb on going to the same college


    ask where she wants to live when she gets older


    ask if she has any pets


    her birthday


    etc


    [but those are only conversation starters and when things get boring]





    Open the doors for her[corny but definetly worth it]


    Going on first date any advice?
    compliment her when you see her.


    Like say ';Wow! You look great!';


    Dont stare at her boobs.


    Get her some flowers. Flowers Not roses.


    Like Daisys or something.


    Dont talk about your ex gf.


    Dont talk about your mom. or Just a little.


    My Boyfriend sais:


    Let her talk. Ask questions about her.


    Women are shallow and self centered.


    ';She really doesnt care about what you say. She really doesnt.';


    Thats not true. I care. But thats what he sais but hes a man... What does he know.


    Ok so anyway. Like when your eating or whatever.


    Compliment her again. Like if her hands on the table. Tell her what tiny hands she has. Say it like you love tiny hands more than anything. But dont be creepy.


    Or tell her, her hair is pretty. Or eyes.





    When asking her about herself. Ask her stuff that will let her talk about herself. Hobbies. family. favorite color. pets.





    Now not all women are like this. Its not that bad. We dont know we do this by the way. Who knew. Im a woman.


    Anyway. Just be yourself.


    Have fun and kiss her in the end.


    Call her the next day. Unless shes a super *****.






    If your on your first date you must


    - Have a plan


    - Know what you are doing


    - Ask yourself? do you actually love her?


    - Know her interest


    - Most importantly be yourself





    Most relationships end so quickly because they don't be themselves
    Any more details...is this a blind date..someone you've liked for years...are you in charge of planning it?...Other than that all I can offer you is the advice to be yourself.
    Compliment her. Don't embarrass you or her. Be yourself. And Have Fun. Then you will have a perfect date.
    be sweet and don't make fun of the girl or make her feel insecure





    dont make her feel like you think what she does is weird





    act natural... =]
    Pay the bill.


    Don't be too quiet yet don't be too loud.



    find something common and don't never have a quite moment
    be yourself and just remember respect and u will do fine
    Don't throw up.
    Be sober and have patience.do what ever she wants
    be yourself and nice.
    be yourself and have fun
    just be urself,, njoi
    be ur self


    make her laugh

    What do I do before the date? Any advice?

    I've been seeing an attractive and polite woman for a few months now. She works as a cocktail waitress at a nightclub and doesn't live from where I'm at.





    She's into Asian men and it seems I fit her type of guy. I'm considered very soft-spoken, well-groomed and dressed, and sexy when I smile to her. When we see each other, we talk for a short period, sometimes buy her a drink, and hug each other when saying goodbye or saying ';Hi';. She's always happy and says ';I miss you'; when we talk.





    Recently, she gave me her # incase I have birthday plans and so far, I've only called her twice. We spoke shortly on my 1st call and said she's busy driving. When she called back, she left a VM for me to call back because I missed her call.





    A week later, we saw each other and spoke again and she decided to take me out for dinner on my B-Day week. I'm surprised when she asked me out for my B-Day.





    What do I do for her to like me? What should I prevent when I'm with her? Do I kiss her after the date?What do I do before the date? Any advice?
    Shower before your date. Be polite. Treat her well. the rest will just fall into place.What do I do before the date? Any advice?
    don't pretend...don't play the macho dude she will see right through it! be polite to her and let her speak...try to capture her interest...talk about subjects that interest her not you! you can try a lil flirt see how she reacts to it.be very careful...the expressions on her face express more than her words. the smile...the smile is very important...if you see her smiling just a lil bit to attract your attention looking in your eyes (sometimes they bite their lower lip) then you got it made it's the perfect time for another flirt and if that goes well don't wait...girls hate that, they get nervous (if you want to play her you could tease her some more but some don't like that so tread carefully) kiss her she won't say no guaranteed!!! just be carefull how she acts how she talks and pay attention to her face. good luck mate!

    What advice would you give to a young person just beginning to date?

    dont look for anything too deep. just have fun and keep relationships light hearted. dont get clingy but dont ignore them either. most importantly you need to BE YOURSELF. being considerate is also greatly apriciated : ) good luck out there buckoWhat advice would you give to a young person just beginning to date?
    BOYs aint ****. Theyll tell you anything to get in your pants. (if its a girl).

    Blind-ish date, any advice?

    I am 14 %26amp; the guy im going on a blind date with is 15, I havn't seen his photo but he is the brother of another classmate %26amp; she is very pretty. what should i expect? what should i do?





    any advice you can give would be great :)Blind-ish date, any advice?
    Yes, Just relax. It is not a marriage proposal. Go and just have fun with the time. For all you know he is in a wheelchair. That does not mean you cannot meet someone who is interesting and fun.

    Blind date, any advice?

    I am 14 %26amp; the guy im going on a blind date with is 15, I havn't seen his photo but he is the brother of another classmate %26amp; she is very pretty. what should i expect? what should i do?





    any advice you can give would be great :)Blind date, any advice?
    Relax and be yourself. One of the best ways to get over the initial discomfort is to find out more about him and let him know more about you. Don't be a chatter box but just think of it as getting to know a new friend. EnjoyBlind date, any advice?
    The biggest advantage of blind dating is that you may have no idea about the person who you are going to meet. You do know how the other person looks like, what does he/she likes, sometimes you do not even know the name. You just need to be at exact time at the particular place. Isn't it romantic?





    There are also a chance, that you will know nothing about the person you are going out on a blind date. It can be somebody you have never spoke to or even met before. It is normal to be nervous about going on a blind date, so do not worry about that. The main reason it is mainly, because you do not know anything about the person you going to meet- and that shocks you.





    You do not know how you should act, what should you say, you do not know if you will like the person or the person will like you. But this is the main advantage of the blind dating, it gives you this passion and risk!





    Just be YOURSELF and get the MOST of it :)





    Good luck!!!
    Smile, be yourself and flirt till you drop dead. Thats great advise there.
    prepare for the worse, but expect the best. have fun, and be yourself. dont be nervous!

    3rd date need advice? girls only please ?

    Ok so there is this girl that i like we went out twice and on our second date we made out and i told her i had a good time and that i can't wait to see her again and she said she had fun too and if i play my cards right there would be a 3rd date. now to all you women and girls out there what does that mean??????????????????????????3rd date need advice? girls only please ?
    haha cute,, she wants to play a little game, try to play it sly, dont seem to desperate or anything





    she likes you, no worries





    have fun with it3rd date need advice? girls only please ?
    lol she's just flirting, it's her way of saying there will be a third date.


    but it's also kind of a subliminal warning i guess, to not over-do it. in other words, don't be clingy and don't try to go further then you and her got.
    Don't go too much farther than you already have--- not on just the 3rd date
    You will having a thrid date!
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  • What is the relationship video website, where girls offer their advice on dating?

    What is the relationship video website, where girls offer their advice to guys on dating?





    ThanksWhat is the relationship video website, where girls offer their advice on dating?
    Well there are plenty of them and the bad thing is that most of the time that kind of stuff is paid. If you really want advice on dating you can check out David DeAngelo's stuff, really useful. I've tried it and I can honestly say that his stuff just rocks.What is the relationship video website, where girls offer their advice on dating?
    girlsteachguys.com
    oh stop it dad

    I am 40 weeks pregnant, my due date was yesterday. does anyone have advice for me?

    i just would like to know if anyone knows good ways to encourage the baby to want to come out.I am 40 weeks pregnant, my due date was yesterday. does anyone have advice for me?
    sex, walking, sex, walking


    also try this...it is from another answer i sound on Yahoo Answers entitled ';SURE fire was to induce labor';:





    I rubbed castroil on my belly and keep my belly warm with a blow drier the contractions started within 20 minutes you will have to keep applying the oil as it soaks in the oil helps get the uterus contracting the heat helps pull the oil in ,keep doing this until they are started very will good luck here is more info in labor inductions This has been a favorite remedy for birthing moms and midwives for a very long time. It is used internally and externally to stimulate the uterus, soften the cervix, and help initiate labor.


    Rubbing castor oil on the belly and covering with a warm towel will help initiate labor if the cervix is right





    Ripening Up of an Unripe Cervix








    Before labor can begin, the cervix must ';ripen';. It can be checked with the fingers by a feeling method. The unripe cervix will feel like the tip of the nose. As the cervix ripens, it will soften up. A ripe cervix will feel softer and more pliable, like the lips or the tongue.





    If it is necessary to initiate labor and the cervix is not ripe, these two herbs and other suggestions which may help to hasten the ripening.





    CAUTION: Do not put your fingers or anything else in the vagina if the membranes are not intact!








    Evening Primrose Oil (EPO):





    Taking three capsules daily for up to a week, may ripen the cervix.





    Opening up capsules of EPO, squeezing oil out onto fingers and gently massage oil directly onto, around and into the cervical os (opening). This is helpful for after contractions have started and a rigid os is a problem. If this is the case, then the fingers should hold the os open through two or three contractions.








    Red Raspberry Leaf and Evening Primrose





    NOTE: Evening Primrose should NOT be used throughout pregnancy.





    Red raspberry leaf tea has been used for thousands of years as a uterine tonic. Its use strengthens and tones the reproductive organs but does not stimulate uterine contractions, making it safe for use throughout pregnancy. Evening primrose, however, definitely plays a role in labor induction, as I have seen with women who use it as a vaginal suppository to soften the cervix and ';get things going'; during the last days of their pregnancies (do not insert anything into your vagina if your membranes have already ruptured, though!) Both herbs are safe and gentle to women when used with wisdom during pregnancy - red raspberry throughout, and primrose oil at the very end when both mother and baby are prepared for birth.





    After 38 weeks of pregnancy, a recommended dosage of 2,500 mg tablets per day of evening primrose oil is taken orally to systemically soften all tissues (including cervix and perineum, especially if cervical scarring or previous perineal injury exists) along with 1 cup of red raspberry leaf tea from 28 weeks, increasing red raspberry leaf tea to 2 cups from 32 weeks and then increasing the dosage of red raspberry leaf tea to 3 cups from 36 weeks gestation, then as needed in labor to strengthen and tone the uterus.





    Reprinted from Midwifery Today E-News (Vol 2 Issue 4, Jan 28, 2000)


    To subscribe to the E-News write: enews@midwiferytoday.com


    For all other matters contact Midwifery Today:


    P.O. Box 2672-940, Eugene OR 97402


    541-344-7438, midwifery@aol.com, Midwifery Today








    Black Cohosh Tincture:





    Take 10 drops of tincture under the tongue hourly. This will have noticeable effect on the cervix in three or four hours. Continue until the cervix is fully soft and ripe.








    Nipple Stimulation:





    Stimulation of the nipples is a very effective way for ripening the cervix and initiating labor. Have someone else suck continuously on the nipple, or roll the nipple between the thumb and finger. This may need to be continued for many hours to establish regular labor. It is fine to rest during a contraction and resume stimulation as it fades.








    Sexual Activity %26amp; Intercourse:





    Sexual activity acts in the same fashion as stimulation of the nipples, if not more intense. If sexual orgasm is achieved, this may actually initiate labor contractions through the release of hormones that cause uterine and pelvic contractions found in orgasm. If the woman's partner is male, the semen contains a natural prostaglandin that will often soften the cervix and help with labor initiation. This semen may be applied directly to the cervical os. Some midwives have actually suggested that oral ingestion of seminal fluid may act just as well (not to mention relaxing the tense father-to-be!). Many a time a midwife has stepped out of the bedroom to allow the couple some ';loving time'; together in a slow or stalled labor and the wonderful acts of loving often end up producing a baby not too soon afterwards. It is wise to keep in mind that the act of loving put the baby there to begin with and it may be the remedy to helping the baby to be born as well.











    Initiating LI am 40 weeks pregnant, my due date was yesterday. does anyone have advice for me?
    Well, many women, especially 1st time moms have their babies at or around 41 weeks - that's normal (not at 38 weeks or before). Sure the due date passed you by, but there is no such thing as a due date, there is only a period of waiting starting at 38 weeks and ending at 42 weeks if you haven't delivered by then.





    I delivered at 41.5 and 41.7 weeks, it's a long time to wait - mostly terrible when you are faced with a c-section at 42 weeks if labor doesn't start on it's own (for me anyway). But the baby comes when the baby is ready.





    Of course, you can place evening primrose oil caplets near your cervix at bedtime or before a nap - 2-3 caplets. It contains prostoglandin precursors that will help ripen your cervix, it helped with my last delivery.
    Walking and things are the best way. Having sex they say, but you have to be careful seeing if the baby has already dropped, you can't be to rough. My mother told me she did 100 squats with me and i came a few hours later, it's like she was helping me come. So that might help. They say rocking your hips helps the baby ease down. So really if nothing helps then that means the baby isn't ready right now.
    No,


    I know you don't wanna hear it. I tried it all and then some, from the start of 30 weeks! The only thing that finally worked for me was my dr stripping my membranes. I was in labor in less than 24 hrs. Still not dilating! Contractions weren't even regular but were very intense and all over the place, like 2 minutes apart for awhile and then not another until 10 minutes or longer, it was crazy.
    the baby will come when he/she is ready, mine didn't wanna come out lol, he was 9 days late. it must of been warm and cosy in there, he probably heard me saying how cold it was with all the Snow outside.





    I tried sex, lots of walking, and a few things nothing worked for me.
    walk do a lot of walking around it helps my mom and my friend was past due and they walked around and soon enough they water broke

    Friends don't like any girl i date? any advice?

    ok every time i am dating a girl they don't like her . they say i can do Better and i prob could but i like what i like .





    none of my friends have GF so i don't know if there just hating or what.





    should i tell them to knock it off ? find new friends? what should i do?Friends don't like any girl i date? any advice?
    When it comes to relationships, don't mind your friends. Maybe they just want your attention back. Good luck to your love life and balance your time.Friends don't like any girl i date? any advice?
    Tell them to eff off, unless they have something really important to say aout her.
    it sounds to me like your friends are jealous because these girls you date are taking time away from them
    well i would tell em goodbye, they don't have gf's? they are jealous and don't want you to have one.
    ur true friends will stick by you no matter wat. but like i have tht problem w my bfs thts how i know who a true friend is. those who say u can do better jus wish they had wat u do, those who say she is ugly secretly like her, theyll never admit tht but they can b jealous they can b ignorant but wat matters most is ur happiness n of course hers
    well they might be hating or doing whats best for you because the girlis in it for something or in it for you
    My ';best'; mate was kindof like that, exept she'd flirt her *** off with them, and shes a hell of alot prettyer than me and has this fake innocent girl act, theyd end up breaking up with me and going for her and she'd play them along abit then pretty much tell them to **** off. With my current boyfriend he sees straight through her, and she tried flirting with him and he wasent intrested atall, so now she hates him.. and its really annoying because max, my boyfriend doesnt care if vicky hates him and vise versa, the only person it affects is me cause it puts me in the middle wich is ****, try explaining that last little bit to your friends, and tell them that if she makes you happy then whats the problem
    My friends don't like any guy I date. They hate them all... they say they're ugly, not funny, pathedic and fake. Three of my four friends have a boyfriend and whenever I tell them I'm off on a date they have to meet the guy just to tell me that he's no good. I hate it and I know how it feels. They even praise me when I say a guy is ugly...





    Tell them that if they are your friends that they have to respect your decisions. They aren't obliged to liking the girls you like, but are obliged to respecting her because you are their friends. They have to accept that your interest in girls isn't the same as theirs and that you are dating girls for yourself and not for them. If they are your real friends, give them some time and if they still don't respect your decisions, fins some new friends because these guys aren't your real friends. For the mean time, just give them some time to think it through and talk to them about how you want support from them insead of being put down.





    Good luck!
    your ';friends'; are immature and insecure


    either ditch them or ignore their advise since they cant get a gf
    it might not be them hating, they might genuinely not like her.





    you need to make them realize that you like her and, at least for now, she is the girl you see yourself with. they are going to have to accept her because she would be around a lot.





    also, tell your girlfriend to be careful with the things she says/does around them. she does not want to give them more resaon to not like her. she might not be the best looking girl, but her personality counts a lot too.





    and you should be careful with what you say/do around borth groups so as not to aggravate the hate they already have.





    you are a good boyfriend!
    If they haven't liked all of your girlfriends then it's their issue. If they had a valid reason for disliking one girl you had dated, sure I'd probably listen to their concerns. It sounds to me like they are jealous and afraid of losing you as a friend.
    who cares


    u liek them and thats all that matters
    I had the same issues with my friends in highschool...your friends are just jealous because you have someone and they don't...just do your thing.
    they be hating and they aren't true friends if they keep dissing every girl you get. they should be happy for you. so they probably just hating, so get new ones
    they are either jealous on you, nor they don't want to lose one of their ';mates';, because they probably think you won't have any time left to hang out with them:)
    They are probably just jealous that you can get a girl and they can't. Just ignore it or tell them to knock it off because it is immature and really stupid.
    They r probably hating u . Just flinch from dating 4 two months and donot let them know when u r going to date. :)
    see what i think is it dont matter how much they dont like her it matters if you like her so tell them if they want to be your friend to leave you alone about her and tell them your the one dating her not them so they have no say so. Do what you want to do.
    They're probably jealous... If they persist, it could mean that they aren't true friends... On the other hand, it could be because they either fancy her themselves, or rather that they may just have your best interests in mind. Although, you like what u like, and if they can't respect that, then i think it will probably be time to find new friends...

    Girls i need some dating advice please ?

    i meet this girls at work and i know she likes me. we have hung out only once but we was around a lot of our friends. we have a upcoming date this week and man i need some tips advice something. we kissed already but I'm still nervous to try to hold her hand or anything but i like this girl a lot. .


    were supposed to go look at some overlooks.


    thanks for the help.Girls i need some dating advice please ?
    Don't be worried,everything will be fine!My advice is that u take a shower,put some nice colone on but not too much,a tuxedo and remember to use your manners.Good luck! beach_baby_xoxoGirls i need some dating advice please ?
    smell nice for her girls love it when there boys smell nice. the new fragrance from Lynx Sharp Focus is the nicest smell around at the moment. Superstar Keeley is helping promote the smell im sure if she loves it your date will too. Its also will help you stay focussed to pulling her.





    dont be nervous thats the worst thing to do casually bump your hand into hers she will get the message and you will end up holding hands!!


    she is probably nervous to and going through the same emotions.





    Try Lynx you never know it may bring you luck.

    I Need Advice On Date Stuff?

    My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for 4 months already. We been on tons of dates, but they were all casual. Today I'm taking her out on a real formal date. Girls what kind of things do you expect guys to do on a formal date?





    Today its dinner at a good restaurant and slow dancing.I Need Advice On Date Stuff?
    Aw, how sweet! Anyways, open doors for her... pull out her chair.. smile look into her eyes while eating.. just that kind of stuff! :)


    Have fun!

    When is a good time for GIRLS to date? Any advice on dating?

    about 19 or when their mind is set on the right trackWhen is a good time for GIRLS to date? Any advice on dating?
    dont date till your 28 or something. that is when guys finally start to grow up and stop acting like jerks. im kind of kidding but not really.When is a good time for GIRLS to date? Any advice on dating?
    I say that as soon as her mindset is mature, then she should be allowed to.
    I say 16.
    I say about 18 bacause I know when girls are 16, and younger they date but I just want them to be safe from all those assholes who do crazy **** that invovles young girls, that really pisses me off, so I say 18, and again if you date at 16, or 17, and below be careful.
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  • Need advice fast for a date - should I wear my shirt's cuffs out over my sweater or the sweater over ?

    black sweater and black shirt with a few different colored stripes.


    I'm a guy btwNeed advice fast for a date - should I wear my shirt's cuffs out over my sweater or the sweater over ?
    Cuffs over for sure. With sweater over it could look sloppy. Good luck and have fun!Need advice fast for a date - should I wear my shirt's cuffs out over my sweater or the sweater over ?
    Cuff out, unbuttoned, but both sweater and shirt pushed up half way between wrist and elbow.
    Hey. Definitley wear sweater over. Much more fashionable. I hope you have a great date. Lucky lady!
    black and black? eh. either wear a white shirt underneath, cuffs out, or just wear the black shirt.
    Cuffs out, it would give dimension to your whole outfit.
    Sweater over shirt cuffs. :p
    Cuffs out 100%! It looks better and it makes your arms look longer.

    Australia Wholesale List (up to date). Need advice.?

    I'm seeking a good up to date wholesale list in Australia and came across this site http://www.australiawholesalers.com/





    It seems genuine and for the price ($20-30) seems to have a lot to offer. I was wondering if anyone has experienced anything to do with this site or can varify it's legit and useful and not just a waste of my money.





    I own a small business, a gift shop with all sorts of variety, and I need to find better suppliers!Australia Wholesale List (up to date). Need advice.?
    Sure i would love to give you money and get nothing in return

    I'm 18 and going on my first date. Any Advice?

    Thanks!I'm 18 and going on my first date. Any Advice?
    don't give yourself away..if he likes you he will respect you!I'm 18 and going on my first date. Any Advice?
    yup take things slow and have fun girly %26lt;3





    was he checking me out?? I NEED to know help!


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    idk i havent had a date and im18. U should be nice adn just have fun


    girls please answer


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    Be yourself. Be happy. And remember to not look/ smell like some punk off the streets.
    Breathe. Be Confident. Have Fun.
    Thats really nice!! just dress kinda nice! not really really nice but nice! good luck to you!!!!!
    Just be yourself and casual. Have some fun.
    Take things slowly and have fun!

    First date tips/advice :)?

    Any tips/advice for going to see a movie on the first date? What to do and not to do? Whatever advice you have, let me know please :)





    xoxo-kayteeFirst date tips/advice :)?
    wear something comfortable, not like 5 inch heels and short short skirt.





    brush your teeth, take a shower and make sure you smell nice bfore you leave





    at the end of the date tell your date, that you had a great time





    on your first date, seriously dont say anything negative, or complain. it creates a bad impression. you can talk about all the stuff you hate later, talk about something interesting.





    If you are not comfortable let your date know.





    when he puts his arm around you, you can slowly put your head on his shoulder.





    and just enjoy yourself!





    good luck=)First date tips/advice :)?
    Slowly lean towards his shoulders, if it comes to a romantic or scary scene.


    Don't laugh too loudly when it is funny, just do a lady like laugh.


    If you are eating or drinking something, don't eat or drink loudly at all, because that might be a big turn off to you guy.


    Don't try to disturb or talk to him often while watching the movie.


    I suggest not to make out during the movie, a peck on the lips or cheek would be alright if needed.

    I need advice 4 a first date... girls advice prefered?

    im taking this girl i like to the movies shes the same age as me and i need some help to not seem like a total idiot.I need advice 4 a first date... girls advice prefered?
    ok well i would have said dont go to the movies on a first date, its unbelievably awkward since you cant really talk and get to know each other. Something like a bar (if your old enough to drink), a diner, late cafes, restaurant, seafront walk, etc.





    that aside, make sure all the obvious things on the list are checked (personal hygiene, clean ironed clothes and a definite is to have nice shoes, believe me).


    %26amp; ignore all that sh!t about smelling like a spanish porn star, just a little deodorant and maybe some aftershave will be fine.


    since its a first date, your main objective is to find out as much about each other as possible, the easiest way to get someone to talk is to get them to talk about themselves (in a good way obviously, DO NOT talk about Ex's, death, illnesses, religion, or news always turns bad, avoid the word hate too if possible).


    so make sure your asking things like what kinds of music (in this case movie) does she like, does she like flowers? whats her favourite kind, whats her motivations, what does she do for a living, how does she want to move on, is she in education, do you have similar hobbies... etc you get the point... also if the opportunity comes up, this is gunna sound so cliche with a 1950's sorta theme, but dancing can reveal SO MUCH!!! if you get the chance try to have a dance maybe a diner with music playing? they do still exist and believe me its a freakin good idea, try to be a good judge of character though if shes shy dont force her to do anything like that lol





    Have you got a back up plan? if so try to make it look spontaneous, ie if the movie sucks and you both want to go or say the movie theatre is full your gunna need another thing to do right?





    also always make sure you go 'halvies' on the price tag, fair enough its all nice and cute to buy her things and pay for her tickets but you dont want to come across as a push over so always make sure you both pay half each or things bought get returned in kind.





    are you meeting her or is she meeting you? - keeping communication before (%26amp; after) the date is massively important. dont get hold of her until shes at least 15 minutes late, or unless your gunna be late.


    if she doesn't turn up dont throw the towel in straight away either, sometimes there are insanely bizarre reasons for people not being able to turn up.





    After the date, if the occasion comes up NEVER go further than kissing, first dates that go too far never last longer than boredom.





    Try not to ask things like ';are you ok?'; ';what are you thinking about?'; ';is everything ok?'; ';do you want to go somewhere else?'; - avoid the nancy boy ';sympathetic and sensitive'; approach. it makes you seem un-confident and even worse a high maintenance nance, if she wants something she'll ask, if you want something %26amp; shes curious she'll probably ask what your doing. nuff said.





    if you want some nuggets too: when your talking and are looking at eachother if you feel you want to kiss her, keep glancing at her lips and hold the glance here n there...


    Preening, does she keep tidying her clothes or straightening her self? - its a sign shes trying to look good for you, a thumbs up.


    Pick lint off her when you see her (real or fake) it just has a strange ice breaking effect? - cant explain just always seems to allow a personal space easer.


    EYES, keeping eye contact and not looking like a psychotic rapist can be tricky, the easiest way around this is to actually listen, respond to everything she says the exact way you feel about it, and lone-behold you'll have a natural eye contact with her, if you trail off and start thinking about what you want to do with her *wink*wink* you'll develop the rather unfriendly ';stare'; lol





    and most importantly; be yourself %26amp; be confident.





    I hope this helps and good luck, and dont worry about coming across as an idiot - people think i suffer from insanity... actually i enjoy every minute of it (=I need advice 4 a first date... girls advice prefered?
    be yourself, be friendly, keep conversation going, to make her interested. Try to make her laugh, she will lovve that, ask her for a hug, as you slowly come out, give her a kiss. If she likes it, she will let you insert your tongue, then you go ahead and snog her :)


    you may not think the girl would want you to kiss her, but if she likes you she will be gaging to kiss you, and would rather you made the first move, so dont keep her waiting too long.


    xx
    Well just be yourself really, If she likes you then she likes you, if not you will know. Don't be any different. Movies is a good first date like. Don't ask about past bf/gf's just think about the now, enjoy the film and make her feel special. ;) Good luck and have fun :) xx
    How about you just play it cool, like don't bully her into coming with you. Ask her casually, like ';Hey Jen, wana see a movie with me sometime. I heard that ______ is playing.'; And don't get a friend to do it, or do it with a group of friends around you. GL
    Ask her what kind of movies she likes, and find a compromise. Just be yourself, and be sure to open the door for her. Nothing like old fashion manners.
    I say be your self and dont force it, allowing her to get to know the real you is best because you want her to like you for who you are, not who you arent... Good luck...
    Just be relaxed:) When you see her or whatever tell her how beautiful she looks, if she does, of course. Smile a lot, and be friendly, and ask her what movie she'd like to see.


    :)Good luck X
    wat kinda advice?
    advice for what??

    Hi I'm 25 and I can't decide whether to date older women or younger women. Advice, pros/cons for either side?

    Younger women, 18-22, seem more open-minded and generally less maintenance, but older women, 27-35, just seem overall sexier and more seductive. Opinions, Best feedback/Insight= 10 pts.!Hi I'm 25 and I can't decide whether to date older women or younger women. Advice, pros/cons for either side?
    dude, 18-22 seem like they're LESS MAINTENANCE????? Have you ever dated someone over 25??? Trust me, the younger girls are the higher maintenance and lower maturity levels (although they're a lot of fun to bring home at the end of the night).Hi I'm 25 and I can't decide whether to date older women or younger women. Advice, pros/cons for either side?
    You could start by not asking for advice on yahoo.
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  • First Date Any Advice?

    First Date Tomorrow..





    Any advice on where to take her or what not to say or w.e...





    I was thinking of the zoo (lame I know) but because there is so much to talk about i dont wanna get on the topic of ';what happened to your last boyfriend'; and that stuff








    Any suggestions?





    ThanksFirst Date Any Advice?
    take her their!


    it shows your unique style.


    not like the same thing for ages.


    going to the movies, and a dinner.


    that's pretty lame and old.


    i like your idea go for it.


    it'll be fun.


    (:














    answer mine please?








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    Some Dating Advice for an english guy in america?

    so i joined a internship in september and one of the rules was no new dating relationships, and i was totaly fine with that. One of the girls we work with and i became very great friends and i started to have feelings for her, some people have told me we are flirting with each other and we wud be great together, should i tell her this weekend how i feel??? i really like her and i dont know wht to do?Some Dating Advice for an english guy in america?
    One piece of general advice- Don't sh*t on your own doorstep. Especially if you've been told not to.Some Dating Advice for an english guy in america?
    no new dating relationships? what kind of internship are you in?? well if it is that obvious that people around you notice you hit it off well then why not ask her out? I'm pretty sure she would like it. heck its getting close to valentines day if you know how to cook make her dinner or something, if not ask her out to diner! :) good luck hun dating in America isn't too hard lol
    I say pursue it, but keep it on the down-low. They can't fire you for dating, but I wouldn't draw the attention. If it gets serious, make sure you let your HR rep know about it. It will protect both of you in the event the relationship goes south

    Seeking advice!! Date a good friend or not?

    So i have just recently moved to a new city in January and ive made a group of friends with whom im very close with. How ever this one guy and i always bug each other and have a lot of fun. That is until he met a new girl online and she moved in with him after only dating for a few days when she came up to visit for a weekend. Her and i get along great. Im always at their place hanging out with everyone. They also have 3 other roomates. SO were all friends and just chill. How him and his new gf have been fighting like crazy this past month. About everything!! and its pretty gay hanging out with them sometimes but with that said, hes started to bug me again like how he used to. you know like push you around, playfully argue about stupid ****. He bugs me about guys all the time and when i say i want a bf and i tell him my qualities he always says i can do better or he'll refer to those qualities i named.. in himself. Its a really weird situation. We went to this concert and his GF was at the front of the mosh pit against the rail and we were trying to get up there to see her and he grabbed my hand to pull me thru and then when we were in there he put his arms around me to protect me from everyone moshing around me. What does this mean??? I love his gf but i can tell their just not good together personality wise but im not ever gonna say that. Im just too chill and i respect them both. But i think i might be starting to like him... more than a friend. and i dont want to.and i get the feeling he may like me as well. but who knows. Any advice about this sticky situation?? Seeking advice!! Date a good friend or not?
    Ok first of all this guy has a girlfriend so I don't recommend going there i would just chill and wait and see what happens between him and his girlfriend but only if you feel he is really worth hanging on for. It sounds like he likes you too but without seeing the two of you together would be hard to say if its in a more than friends kind of way.





    Hope this helps it does sound like a bit of a pickle.

    Im going on a date sunday, advice?

    probably to an outside mall that has shops, restaurants, a movie theater and an ice-skating rink. im in high-schoolIm going on a date sunday, advice?
    play it cool. be nice, polite, listen and see how it goes... don't worry about it...Im going on a date sunday, advice?
    Ask her questions and talk about anything you want to know about her and talk about you too. When you walk you can start off by bumping into her on purpose and stuff and teasing her and then if you two feel more comfortable, touch her on the shoulder and slide your hand down into hers and hold hands. If it goes really well, give her a sweet kiss on the lips good bye ;) good luck!
    you should probably play it safe the first time. you know be a gentleman, open doors, hold her hand kiss her cheek etc. unless she wants to do more than go for it
    aww





    be nice guys





    i answered yours please answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081205132756AAGhSI3
    check this out.


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    i would say ice skatting rink. you guys can talk get to know each other and on top of it you can get cozzy





    good luck
    Remember to be polite and show your date some respect.

    Have any advice for dating someone whose parents are divorced?

    I love my boyfriend and want our relationship to get stronger, but sometimes I don't understand where he's coming from when we talk about a problem. His parents divorced when he was young, and he makes jokes about how I have a perfect family (yeah right) and couldn't understand because my parents are still together. How do I get him to trust me and talk about what's freaking him out? Is there any way to help him so that our relationship isn't affected so much by his parents' past?Have any advice for dating someone whose parents are divorced?
    Well my parents and my g/f parents are divorced. We talk about it all the time but it doesnt effect us.





    I think he just needs someone to talk to and someone who will listen. Maybe all u need to do is listen...be there for him! :)Have any advice for dating someone whose parents are divorced?
    He just wishes he could have really known what it was like to have both parents in the same house. Honestly, he should be happy that they are not because just think of how bad it is. I am glad my parents divorced and never wish for them to get together again. I know very well what it was like with the two of them in the same room. Just tell him that your family is not perfect and that no one is. Your parents argue like parents do.
    My parents have been divorced since i was five and i don't see how it could affect my relationships. But if his parents divorce really affected him then don't push him to hard.


    Just be patient, if he really wants to talk about it with you then eventually he will. Just tell him that you will always be there if he needs a shoulder to lean on if he ever wants to discuss it.





    As for your overall question don't treat him any different just because his parents are divorced silly!


    It almost seems as your making a problem out of something that doesn't exist.


    Good luck!
    There is no way to ';talk'; him into learning to trust you. And I'm not sure that is the issue anyway.





    Joking about your perfect family doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't trust you? I'm not understanding the leap here. You also don't say what ';the problem'; is?





    Might you be creating an issue that doesn't actually exist?
    Well imagine that your parents got a divorce


    Once you know how he feels then try to talk to him about it.
    My parents got divorced when I was 8 so I actualyl remember the whole situation. And recently my mom told me that paying for the divorce was the best thing she's ever paid for. Now I am afraid of love, I'm afraid to get to know people really because I'm afraid that it will have the same ending as it did for my parents. I've promised myself one thing in life though and that is that if I ever get married and have children NEVER will I put them through everything that I've been through. It's just not fair. Your boyfriend is probably afraid that you'll both get hurt in the long run. I know this sounds really horrible but thanks to his parents your boyfriend probably doesn't know what to expect with love and what it really means. You should talk to him about it, try to understand more. And do try to realize that by having your parents still together that you have had a lot less mental scarring. Not that divorce makes you go crazy... but now 8 years after the divorce, I still cry over it. Just remember that he's been put through something hard and doesn't want the same thing to happen to you two I bet =)

    Who has good girl dating advice?

    I really like this girl in my english class her name is josie grube. were both twelve by the way. were always tlkin and playing around with eachother as friends but everytime I tell a joke she laughs alot does she like me?Who has good girl dating advice?
    Jokes are funny m8. If it wasnt a funny joke then I would say no. But if she keeps talking about the joke and bringing it up. Then I would say yes. But its just a joke. Whats a twelve year old doing in the dating section lol.Who has good girl dating advice?
    okee dokee.


    let me thinkkkk.


    i am girl.


    yes? yes. okay i can help now lol.


    ummmmmmmmmmm


    wait


    am i a girl?


    wait im confused....


    what was the question?


    okay im a gay guy.


    i'll help anyways.


    who cares?


    you should just ask her if she


    hi im nathan.


    who are you?


    why am i on this website?


    i have to go.


    hi!


    how are you?


    im nathan!


    well bye i cant talk to strangers!


    hi im nathan!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • Advice... date a friends ex? it's really not fair.?

    Okay i really need advice on something... i think i like this guy... we're both 20 and he is perfect for me. We're good friends and have been for a while. But lately he's been inviting me over a good bit and we've been hanging out just the two of us. Well.. only problem is that one of my really good friend used to go out with him. That was over 2 years ago though, and she has a wonderful boyfriend now that she's in love with and she said she's over the guy i'm talking about. Well me and my friend (the girl) were talking about guys the other day and she was trying to think of someone to hook me up with and randomly said ';if you ever date *the guy* i wouldn't be able to be friends with you at all anymore';. and the ONLY reason she has to say that is because he's the ONLY guy we know that's perfect for me and she knows it! isn't that a really mean thing for her to say? i mean.. i guess our friendship isn't as strong as i once thought it was. I don't know..... any advice??Advice... date a friends ex? it's really not fair.?
    well, which is more important to you? the friendship or the guy?Advice... date a friends ex? it's really not fair.?
    It is just one of those understood ';RULES';, that you don't date one of your friends boyfriends. He is not the only guy in this world. You need to find you another man to date because that one if off limits.
    This is a sticky situation. Cherri is right its just the known rule....You never date a friends ex! It also goes back to how good of friends you guys are. If you feel like you can live without her friendship then go for it, but if you feel like you want to remain friends with her then don't pursue him. Also how would you feel if the shoe were on the other foot? Would you be okay if your friend dated one of your exes? But do what you feel is right I know of a situation just like yours and they two ladies remained friends and the ex and the girl actually got married.
    follow your heart. She is happily coupled, so it should not make a difference to her. Unless he dumped her , and she is now on the rebound, it should be of no concern to her.





    Does she want him back?.
    You know what, if she's really happy, she won't care. If the breakup was amiable and she knows you guys are still friends, then it should be fine. Might be a bit rough at first, but that's to be expected.





    Now, if they had a horrible breakup, then I'm afraid you may have to get over this -- chicks before ... bros. Whatever the opposite of ';Bros over Hos'; is. As long as he didn't treat her awfully, you're fine and she'll get over it.





    Now, if she just is one of those people who likes to lay claim on everyone they've even liked, then she kind of sucks. I don't know. How long did they date? What were the circumstances surrounding the breakup? That information is key to your query.
    it may not be fair but that's how she feels. you can go for it and she may end the friendship or she may realize she doesn't care. you know the chance you would be taking, you just have to decide if it's worth it!





    and she shouldn't be mad about the camping, you guys are friends after all





    best of luck

    I'm going on a blind date tomorrow, advice?

    Well if you look at my previous post about my blind date that happened 2 weeks ago, that was a nightmare. But from reading the posts on here, I've decided that I'm gona go on a different blind date and open up again.





    Emailed her and we're gona go out to eat at a seafood place, and then we'll see where things go. She said she really think's I'm cute but she hasn't shown me any pictures of her yet, so I guess I'll take a chance. Ladies and men, advice before I go?I'm going on a blind date tomorrow, advice?
    Be open minded and don't have any expectations. Think of it as going to meet a new friend rather than a potential girlfriend. That will take some of the pressure off. Just be yourself, keep the conversation light, have fun.I'm going on a blind date tomorrow, advice?
    Make sure you wear ur sneaker for this one...lol. Maybe you should date someone that is not so good looking. Maybe her place will be clean?
    1. good luck


    2. have an escape plan, just like the movies... have a friend call u and then say ';my bro...'; ';my sis...'; even ';my mom...';


    3. for future reference... have two cellphone numbers, give her (or in the future) ur second cell number (prepaid, thus min expence) and never hear from her ever.





    Nick
    You may have made a mistake about choosing dinner for your date. You could have chosen lunch or just some drinks because if she resembles a Sherman Tank or Golum from the Lord of the Rings, you're gonna have to choke down your dinner in front of her and wish that you could get out of there quicker.





    Also, tell her you want to go Dutch for the first time out (splitting the bill). This will make her feel more comfortable about expectations afterward, and save you some dough if she has a face like a warthog.





    At times I miss the fun, terror and excitement of being single, but I guess it is always easier and nice to just go home to my wife.





    Good luck brother!
    have fun. don't expect much, then if it's better then you thought, you both win. remember the other person is feeling the sme way you are feeling. and have fun.
    my only advice is to have low expectations, why don't you just try to meet people the normal way?
    maybe she's really ugly if she didn't send some pix. but it won't hurt if she likes you. try and if she's not your type, move on.
    Always be yourself and take mace....!
    Run like heck!!!





    LOL....
    Just a comment... If for some reason u don't like your date, your night will seem eternal..... In that case, drink as much as you can so that it doesn't get to you as bad!!!

    Im 14 and i have no idea what to do on a first date need advice from a girl?

    I am a sensitive guy and my ideal first date would be take her to dinner then lay on a beach towel under the stars and talk my friends think its kind of homo but i think there just immature help me ladies cause it's a girl I'm taking on a date not a guyIm 14 and i have no idea what to do on a first date need advice from a girl?
    well i think that is a bit to much becasue you are only 14 years old and it would look like you are trying to hardIm 14 and i have no idea what to do on a first date need advice from a girl?
    thats like the perfect date.


    1) DONT BE AWKWARD. for the love of christ, talk. let her talk, too, but if there's an awkward silence, don't let it just hang in the air. SAY SOMETHING.


    2) when you first see her, try and notice something she did different. is her hair down while it's usually up? did she take off her glasses and wear contacts just for you? compliment her on it!


    3) be confident. so cliche, but true.


    =]
    I think that is so awesome but I don't know what this girl likes that you are taking!!! But I would do what you want cuz if she doesn't like you for that then she wasn't meant for you!!! So good luck on your date!!! :~)
    That sounds so sweet, but i think you're a little too young for that (i'm about your same age, fyi) Try the classic dinner and a movie! Simple, but sweet! =)

    I finally have my first Date tomorrow, Advice?

    I'm a senior in high school and finally some girl said yes! Were gonna go to this little Mexican restaurant, a really well kept secret in town. Then were going to go see ';Taken';, lol I've already seen it. Any advice? I know the basics, like just being a flatout gentlemen...but anything else?I finally have my first Date tomorrow, Advice?
    Be friendly, upbeat and charming (if it comes easiest to you). In my opinion, nothing is better than a really friendly and amusing guy on a first date. It helps take the ';jitters'; away and immediately puts one at ease.





    As you mentioned, being a gentleman is also a great thing to do. So few men are ';gentlemanly'; these days, that's its such a nice change!





    Have fun and good luck :)I finally have my first Date tomorrow, Advice?
    What are you doing here? You're supposed to be picturing how you are going to make this the date of a life time for you and her. How you are going to be a gentleman and make everything and every words as interesting as possible. You know, just make every moment as memorable as possible; Give her a lasting impression where she will want to go out with you over and over again. Try to be unique and stand out from the rest by making her feel as comfortable around you as possible. Choose your words kindly and sweetly, but not sound too fake. Mean what you say and really focus on her, paying attention to every little detail as to what she's saying and make it obvious that she's got your uninvited attention. When the night is over and if she goes home thinking about you and how well the night went then you would have done your job as leaving her with a memorable night. Good luck and just have fun and always remember that the more you can make her laugh along with you, the more you will have left a good impression on her.
    Don't panic or pretend to be someone else. If it's their first time they're most likely going through the same feelings you are. Try not to be too into her life but be interested (don't act interested, either you are or you aren't) Rolls makes very valid points too.
    Make her laugh. Tell her great stories but listen to her too. Biggest rule is don't come off desperate, take it chill because you know that you ARE the man. and that SHE knows it too. have fun man =)

    How can i get a boy that i like to date me? Any advice?

    Well i like this guy and he seems really cute and really cool,


    And i would love to get to know him better,


    And i don't know how to start a conversation with a boy well enough...


    Any advice?How can i get a boy that i like to date me? Any advice?
    First step- talk to him.


    second step- charm him


    third step, trick him but subtly


    fourth step, say yes, ever time he asks you out.How can i get a boy that i like to date me? Any advice?
    sory kid.......I'm in the exact same boat........if you get help email me quick!





    amandaco45@aim.com
    well i feel the same way!


    All thru elementary school i was shy and like energetic with the girls in my garde. then in high school when it became coed it was very strange and all. You just get used to it. it takes some time. like I had a very hard time looking boys in the eye. now I realized if Im comfortable with the person I have no trouble If im uncomfortable I do.


    Like there was this one boy who was helping my friends and I with our color war banner ( I just met him then) and we were talking and painting for hours. He was nice too. Now that I see him in school though its just kinda awkward but we still talk. You just gotta try to talk to him and maybe find out like if he does sports and talk to him bout that. good luck
    just talk to him like you would anyone else. If you're all nervous or anticipating something, you'll come off badly %26amp; maybe freak him out. Just talk to him like any other normal person.
    Well you need to start off with some weird questions.


    It will make him pay attention to you more..





    For example: hey did you hear about that pshycopath that killed 3 people in the elevator?
    hey just start with generally talk . u will find u both will start ,don,t be serious front of him. by this he will feel uncomfortable. so give him chances and opportunity to talk

    First date activity. Advice would be wonderful!?

    So, I'm sixteen and I'm having my very first date tomorrow. As of right now the plans are to go indoor rock climbing. However, I am so not feeling secure about this. I really want to be comfortable and you know... not worry about the activity we're doing. I have plenty of other things I'm stressing out about on this date. How can I suggest an alternate activity? He seemed pretty excited about it. And, I know he'll ask me for suggestions and I have none. What should I say?? Thanks so much!!First date activity. Advice would be wonderful!?
    Well just do something you both like to do. Go on a walk, to a movie, out to eat, or whatever. Just make it something you both enjoy. Don't stress, it'll be great. :)
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  • Girls, need your advice---> First date goodbye kiss ?

    If you go on a meeting with a guy you like.





    At the end, would you like him to kiss you on the CHEEK or the LIPS ?Girls, need your advice---%26gt; First date goodbye kiss ?
    Me and my girlfriend had a proper long kiss on the lips at the end of our first date :) But then, we already knew that we both liked each other a lot. If you haven't got to know them in such a way before, haven't spent time alone with them before, don't know for certain whether they like you the way you like them, then hug and give a quick kiss on the cheek.Girls, need your advice---%26gt; First date goodbye kiss ?
    I'm a guy, and I think you should go for the cheeck, it'll make her wish you even more, and she'll think about you all night, whishing that you'll invite her again, and maybe next time you'll kiss her, she'll think about it all times.


    Go slow, woman like it more, it makes the flame of passion last longer.





    Go for it and, good luck. ;)
    Definitely the cheek. It makes you seem sweet, but not pushy. Also, it gives the girl a good gauge for how much you like them. If you kiss them on the cheek, they'll know you like them, and then they might kiss you on the lips.





    Good luck!
    well usually i would kiss him on the cheek bc you never know what some guys r thinkin--i guess its just playing it safe, and if your okay with it just kiss her on the lips--it always worked on me lol
    hmm maybe at first subtlely go for the lips, and see how she reacts to it.


    you've got to know how to read her well.


    and if she doesn't go for a cheek.


    if she seems as if she wants to go for it, then go for it.





    good luck my friend
    If she acts like she had a really good time. And if you both know that you both really like each other, lips. But if your not sure if she really liked you or had a fun time then cheek.





    -Brandy
    I typically expect sex on the first date or at least a nice make out session including heavy petting.
    Cheek!


    Lips is coming on too fast


    but.... if the girl offers to kiss on the lips after the cheek,, hehe you're in luck!
    Only make a move, if it's awkward , or she bites her lips.


    Kiss on the cheek first.








    Cheers,.
    lips obviously mate im a guy but just get in there and when you do the girl will love you alot more for it
    cheek, and linger there a little
    cheek it's sooo cute!

    Younger girls women older men guys and dating advice ?

    What specific advice would a younger girl / woman ( of legal age ) offer to a forty-two year old man wanting to socialize with them.





    Cover all bases, appearance, attire, behavior, attitude, sexual practices, leisure time, etc.





    Thank you for sharing your thoughts.Younger girls women older men guys and dating advice ?
    Give this site a try http://www.datingtips247.com They have lots of great advice and they should have tips on this subject too.

    I give out advice for dating and other problems my friends have but i don't take it. How can i take my advice?

    I give my friends advice about dating and other problems but i give out the just ask the girl you like out the worst she can say is no. But i don't take the advice.I give out advice for dating and other problems my friends have but i don't take it. How can i take my advice?
    hey ,


    for your advice you can visit there on http://tringuladating.com/ a free dating website and a social networking website for singles . visit there and you will find a lot of singles there.I give out advice for dating and other problems my friends have but i don't take it. How can i take my advice?
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090922000630AAf5qxd%26amp;r=w

    I got a traffic ticket for a passing a red light. When it was yellow. Tonight is my court date. any advice?

    So I have to appear at Floral Park Court, I never recieved a ticket before can you please give me advice on how to beat the ticket. There was no camera in sight a police officer pulled me over.I got a traffic ticket for a passing a red light. When it was yellow. Tonight is my court date. any advice?
    You must be going very fast otherwise you could have stop in time and the police would not have bothered you. But if you think that you were sticking to a decent speed limit while passing the traffic lights and could not stop straight away and it was yellow not red then you can take actions against the police officer who stopped you but you will need strong evidence otherwise your case will be in favor of the police.





    I have to admit that sometimes police officers do stop you for even little mistakes but im not sure what happened in your case.





    Now pay the penalty and move along as you cant do anything else if you have made a mistake or fight against the court till you are proven innocent, innocent i tell ya.





    next time be careful and stick to the speed limits and you will never break the law and the traffic lights again for sure.


    I got a traffic ticket for a passing a red light. When it was yellow. Tonight is my court date. any advice?
    Withouth a camera its basically your word against the cop. Guess who's going to win there? You can try to fight it and you will get another court date, but it is more than likely that you're going to end up losing your case. Just pay the fine, as to go to traffic school so that you don't get a point on your driving record and forget about fighting the ticket.
    You can plead guilty with an explanation and hope to get your fine reduced. Tell them this is your first ticket, etc.Depending on how long you have been driving this sometimes helps. Chances are you will not beat the ticket without a lawyer representing you. Even then it's a crap-shoot and would cost you more then the ticket.Good luck
    pay the fine. they need the money. thats why u got the ticket on a ''so so''


    Maybe you can go to traffic school and not get a mark on your liscense. check it out.
    As long as your front tires were pass the white ';stop'; line before the light turned red, you did not run a red light. Will be hard to prove unless there is a traffic camera at the stoplight. Good Luck!
    Pay your fine and next time stop. Yellow means stop if you can, not if you want to.

    Kinda 2nd date or real first date! need advice?

    HEY i asked out this girl to the movies that was was my other question and all went well but now i ask her out as a girlfriend and were goin to the movies watching adventureland.... can i have advice!Kinda 2nd date or real first date! need advice?
    Make a move on her on the first date.


    Life is short. Go for the gusto

    Freshman College Student looking to start serious dating. Any advice on how to meet girls?

    Hello, I haven't had much experience, don't have many friends, and suffers from mild anxiety. My main question is if i see a girl in class I'm attracted to, how do I get her to notice me and/or ask her out w/o coming off as a creepFreshman College Student looking to start serious dating. Any advice on how to meet girls?
    well from what I've learned is girls like confident guys. so if you approach her, do it with confidence and she will find that attractive no matter how you look. now where's my 10 pts?
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  • What are some first date ideas/advice?

    i have been with my boyfriend for 7 weeks... and we've never had a date! i want one so bad. but for some reason i'm nervous about bringing it up? any ideas? advice? if we see a movie what movie should we see??





    (we're 14)What are some first date ideas/advice?
    Awww how cute! Tell him you have never been minature golfing befor and would love to go.. If he doesn't catch on then say know any places? Then say oh okay we should go sometime! Its fun and ur outside and it gives you time to talk and really get to know each other! Good luck!What are some first date ideas/advice?
    movies are good. something funny maybe or romantic comedy.


    maybe to go the beach and watch the sunset.


    have a movie night at one of your houses.


    dinner is always good too.