Monday, August 23, 2010

I am planning to quite smoking and have picked a date. Can somone give me some advice? Thanks in advance?

you'll get over the physical problems soon enough. Its the wanting that makes the problem. You should have some family members or friends close to you. They can help to distract you from thinking about smoking. When you feel the wanting feeling, do something like take a walk, go to the library and read an interesting book. If I were you, I'd go and pick out a few right now. The main thing is to think of at least 10 ways to distract yourself and do them. In order. and then repeat them.





Here's some pep talk for you XD :





You're a strong guy. Something a simple as a cigarrete can't control your life. You can fight it!I am planning to quite smoking and have picked a date. Can somone give me some advice? Thanks in advance?
It takes 21 days to make or break a habit-if you can get past the 21 days(which I know you will!!!!) you will be fine:)





Also, it's more the habit of hand to mouth so keep low calorie snacks like twizzlers and suckers handy for those times you are tempted -like driving or after a meal chew on toothpicks and brush your teeth right after eating so your mouth feels clean and fresh which will help too:)





Good luck!!!I am planning to quite smoking and have picked a date. Can somone give me some advice? Thanks in advance?
Have a strong enough will power to say to yourself that you won't have another one.

I need advice for a first date?

I am going on a date with a great man 2morow and i need advice, what should i not say that will not be rude and what is the success for a second date to happen?I need advice for a first date?
hi,hey don't worry your self you will do just fine ,ok now just start by talking with each other as way to break the ice ,an get to know what you both like to do ,like movies out doors like walks, caping,thinks like that an other thinks that u feel like saying to hima s far as asking what foods he like an can he cook ,you know just relax an be yourself ,i know u will do good just don't put your foot in your mouth an say something dum like so how big is it an things like that not that you would say that but its just an exsample ok ,so just stay cool you will be fine ,also just get to know each other an things will fall into place for u an by all means don't try to be someone you are not ok ,don't lie but also don't give to much of yourself cause then u will not have things to talk about later on ,well good luck an e-mail me as to how it went for u ok bye 4 now ,take care my friendI need advice for a first date?
be your self.


he apparently allready likes you if your going on a date


so you got that far already.


the second date will be based on


how much he finds he has interest with you


how honest you are.

Wedding Save The Date Magnets Advice?

Can you send out just the magnet itself or does it need a card also? What is the proper way to send them?





I have the magnets and the cream envelopes to place them in but that is it.





Help...Ideas...Help...Ideas...





THANKS!Wedding Save The Date Magnets Advice?
You have the envelopes for the magnets and the information is on them, no need to send something else.





Congratulations and best wishes!Wedding Save The Date Magnets Advice?
Just send the magnets, no card. The magnets already have all the information on them, and people will know what they are without any kind of extra explanation. Sending a card too would be an extra expense you don't need to incur. The next thing you will mail is the formal invite.
No need to send anything else, you'll be sending a card later in the form of a wedding invitation.





Good luck!
As long as the magnet says what it is for then you do not need a card to.
Save the date cards are usually informal and they are a new tradition, so you can make it what you want. If the magnets have all the important info then, just send them. You may want to add a note that says that formal invitations will follow.





I only sent save the date cards to people that lived far away who would have to arrange special plans in order to make it, and people who I wanted to make sure came to the wedding like close family members.
since it is just a save the date, and you still are going to be sending out the wedding invite, then yes you can just send the magnet

Dating advice when writing an ad and it sounds some thing like this what does it sound like?

a girl who loves to have fun and enjoys life. loves to do almost any thing out doors and isn't afraid to try new things at least once. is looking for some friends to have fun with.





what does that say about what some is looking for, when they write that? would a guy assume she is looking for sex/Dating advice when writing an ad and it sounds some thing like this what does it sound like?
definitely not unless you tell them. sounds like your an outgoing


person who loves to meet new friendsDating advice when writing an ad and it sounds some thing like this what does it sound like?
no, it doesn't at all seem like you want to have sex. it just seems like a girl most guys would want.

My first date, any advice for me?

OMG I'm going on my first date, I'm so excited, it's with my brother. Yeah my bro is taking me bowling tonight, I'm nervous. Do you have any advice for first timers like me? I hope I do good so my brother will take me out on another date.My first date, any advice for me?
WTF.





you're going out with your brother?! you're nervous?! is this the first time going out? i mean, it's just your bro.





or are you having relations? mm... DON'T! your child will be HIDEOUS!My first date, any advice for me?
Um, Don't be such a tard.


Thats not a date.


Thats bonding time between bro and sis


and if it is...


Thats freakin incest


How old are you?


What do you think you are going to kiss or something?


THEN BRING THE BREATH MINTS!!!
wear comfortable pants...why do i tell ya that? when i went to a bowling party i wore a jean and when it was my turn to play and the f**** jean torned!
Definitely a Kentucky native.
WTF INCEST.
lmfaooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo





if i wasn't in college id be on the floor laughing.
Why nervous? Just be yourself and have a good time.
Keep that nickle between your knees like your momma told you to. ;)
Ummm, just make sure he doesn't ';get lucky'; at the end of the night. lol
My advice to you is don't ever procreate. That level of dumb would be unfair to pass on to your mutant babies.
Just be yourself.


Have fun.
My advice is stop being such a retard.
OMG you're so gross! eek!
wtf? that's not a date..





ew
tell him to wear a condom


or two
kneel and breath
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  • Advice for choosing a date for our wedding help!?

    My fiancee and I are finally engaged! We have contacted the hotel we wish to get married at, and they have given us the following dates and we need help choosing. Please put which date you would prefer, thanks!


    May 1 2010


    May 22 2010


    July 3 2010


    August 7 2010Advice for choosing a date for our wedding help!?
    Typically if you don't choose a date for its significance to you or your relationship (birthday, special date in your relationship, parents/grandparents anniversary, etc.) then you choose a date that is:





    1. available at your location (both wedding and reception venue)


    2. most likely not a holiday since that is a time that a lot of people will travel and not be able to come to your wedding


    3. going to give you ample time to plan and not feel rushed or conflict with any other major life changes (for example school or work)





    Personally, I would choose some time in May. It is a year away and will give you plenty of time to plan but also isn't so far out that you are planning for so long that it becomes your life and after you get married you feel like you have nothing to do.





    Good luck and congratulations!!Advice for choosing a date for our wedding help!?
    If most everyone is local than go with May 1 for a beautiful spring wedding. Early May is usually comfortable and gorgeous time of year, and the date falls between easter 4/4 and mother's day 5/9. Travel airfare rates and venues might be lower cost during this timeframe, and your wedding service providers likely won't be in their huge time crunch for the June weddings. if you have relatives who would like to travel to the wedding or those who have school age children, summer is usually the best time. A wedding over the July 4th holiday is not advisable - too many other things going on, so that leaves August 7th as the best date for a summer wedding.
    for sure AUGUST. may is when you can never really predict the weather and july is way to hot. august is perfect because it is way after rain season and it is at the end of summer so it is starting to cool down but the whole month is always sunny days. plus, may is graduations and proms, july is graduation open houses. august is usually pretty open for people





    im getting married too and i chose august for these exact reason.
    do any of the dates have any meaning to you?


    either that you would want to share your anniversary with or wouldn't?


    my e-mail address has ended in 5210 since i was 18 (8 years) so when i saw that 5/2/10 was a sunday i just had to take it!


    other than that it really depends on where you are but i'd stick with may - the weather is a bit less predictable but at least it's not crazy hot like in jul %26amp; aug - even if the ceremony and reception are both inside you will still have to go outside occasionally and you don't want to melt :)
    well. july 3rd is one day before the 4th of july and most people are with their family or on vacation.


    august 7th i think is tooo hott.


    may usually has rain,








    i would go with either,


    the day you met. the day you starting dating.


    a year after the proposal date. those are just


    some ideas. you and your fiance should choose.
    5/1/10 has a nice ring to it and would be easy to remember! Isn't May 1st also know as May Day? It's really cool. The weather should be fairly nice but not too hot like in July or August.
    The world economy is about to go bust thanks to Obama. I assure you, you will not have a wedding after the hyperinflation starts.
    5/22- july 3rd is a bad date. also end of summer every one is finishing vacations and getting ready for back to school. plus it's too hot then.
    May 22-- reason being the weather will probably be nice yet mild (depending on where you live of course)... the others I feel you risk rain/extreme heat

    Advice for my 16 yr old son-taking out his girlfriend on their first ';car date';?

    Looking for the best piece of advice to give him on dating.Advice for my 16 yr old son-taking out his girlfriend on their first ';car date';?
    just be a gentlemen and nice thing will happen.Advice for my 16 yr old son-taking out his girlfriend on their first ';car date';?
    My advice is to you. Think about the huge risk in allowing your son to fornicate with a girl with the outcome of having a child born to a single parent out of wedlock. How many stories we heard of young single mothers trying to raise their children on their own. Or children who's mother and father both are caring for their child but are unable to financially or mentally care for their UNWANTEDT/UNPLANNED for child.





    Even if your son does not really get into it with this girl, both of them will be getting ready to so so pretty soon, and you will not even know it.





    So start caring for your future unwanted grandchildren now and do not allow your child to get his hopes up and feeling comfortable about haveing illicit sex.
    tell him to drive safe. tell him to think about how he would feel if the girl ended up injured because he was driving crazy. I know that's not totally girl advice but it needs to be said nonetheless.





    Anyways, about dating itself... tell him to be sweet and a gentleman :) he should attempt to open doors for her, etc.
    Baby's in the front seat cause accidents, accidents in the backseat cause baby's.





    :)
    Be a real gentlemen and open the car door for her.
    ';drive safe and have fun';...anything more and it'll sound like he's going to have problems and it'll only make him more nervous..
    USE PROTECTION!
    Drive safe and don't have sex cause sex leads to a baby and baby leads to a long life!! lol i dont know!
    Just be sweeeeeeet :D
    dont go over the speed limit

    I just need advice for my first date to a ball?

    This guy asked my to go to our military ball about 2 months ago. I said no because i wasnt into having a date or boyfriend then. but now i really like him and want to give 'us' a try. i think i may ask him to be my date (and not as just friends).





    ive never been to a dance or on a date with a guy. i have no idea what to do or how to act.... i just want to be less awkward than i know i will be...





    plz helpI just need advice for my first date to a ball?
    just be yourself.. pretend like if hes one of your friends just having a good time

    Okay I am going on my first real date. Any advice for me?

    Thanks in advance! :)Okay I am going on my first real date. Any advice for me?
    Good LordOkay I am going on my first real date. Any advice for me?
    Don't listen to the others about loosing weight, etc. The one who asked you out obviously sees something special in you :) Keep conversation going, so it doesn't become that ';awkward silence'; and make sure you have good hygiene :) Just continue to be yourself and have confidence...that's the most important thing.
    relax, have fun, and dont rush yourself along with anything your not comfortable with. dont be afraid to say that youre not ready for anything, even if you think everyone else will think your an idiot, they wont. people respect you more when you have the confidence to stand up for yourself :)


    good luck x
    Aww, :D





    Wear deodorant, brush your teeth for like 2 minutes :)


    Floss, wash your face, shower and stuff like that,


    be clean :)


    %26amp; totally be yourself.


    Smile a lot too :D


    It works! :)





    DON'T KISS!


    Okayy good luck!


    %26amp; Ignore all the jerks that say ';loose weight'; , etc.


    They're just jerks :)
    Those breathing exercises always seem to do the trick.





    But really, just relax, pay no attention to that lovesick feeling you get (or you might want to so that it's part of the excitement), and just hope for the best. This is a special time.
    be clean smell good and act like yourself talk a lot but not too much act normal and like you would around your friends :)





    GOOD LUCK! IM SOO EXCITED FOR YOU!


    AND YOU DONT NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT! DONT LISTEN TO THOSE LOSERS YOUR NOT FAT! I BET THERE FAT AND NEED TO TAKE THEIR ANGER ON SOMEONES WHOS NERVEUOUS!


    ANYWAYS GOOD LUCK AGAIN!
    lol have nice breath, smile, be yourself is a big one. Its nerve racking but its going to be fine just breath and have a nice time... good luck =]
    remember he is probably as nervous as you are. Don't expect too much and take it slow.
    be ur total self! 'Cause if u try to be cool, he'll be like wtf?! I don't like THIS girl! So be urself, wear clean clothes, and FLOSS!
    Wear Deodorant and Brush your Teeth!








    Wait how old ARE you?





    Don;t forget to Fart in the car before you get out
    be yourself


    have your self confidence


    dont be nervous


    act normal


    talk to your date alot
    beeee yourself and have standards
    just be yourself! dont try to be nervous


    good luck! :)
    be yourself =)
    Have fun %26amp; keep a distance.
    Dont fart
    you freakin look like your 12! how is this a real date? oh god!
    be yourself and just have fun
    lose some weight :)
    slim fast
    wear a cute outfit, make sure your clean. have fun!
    BRUSH UR TEETH
    be yourself. thats who he likes(:
    lol


    Chill out. .. Have fun.... don't kiss him. (:

    Fashion Advice!! Date At Cinema?

    what would you wear to a date at the cinema?Fashion Advice!! Date At Cinema?
    Depends on the weather, but, since theaters are usually colder because of air conditioning and to keep the films fresh, I'd go with jeans and some sort of cute sweater/long sleeved shirt. I usually pull out my Hollister sweaters for the theater. Cute, comfy, but warm.Fashion Advice!! Date At Cinema?
    I'd wear a tank with a cute drapy cardigan.


    Destroyed jeans.


    Uggs.


    Necklace, bracelets, earrings and a ring.


    I'd put my hair up tpp.


    I love drapy tops with a cute messy bun or something.





    Good luck.


    And have fun on your date.
    dark wash skinny jeans


    flats


    bouse+cardigan?
    just be who u r..


    wear what u like %26amp; comfy


    a scarf is a must (i bring em to cover myself, really cozy!)


    and maybe a cute dress and flats!
    Guys will SOOO totally stare at U!


    i suggest something aWesome...


    like..


    %26gt;cute skinny jeans (dark color)


    %26gt;totally cute grey top (with short sleeves) with pink text printed on it


    %26gt;converse/flats (dark blue/hotpink/purple/grey/black)


    %26gt;cute dark colored jacket wrapped around waist (for style)


    %26gt;hair with no hairband!


    %26gt;NO lipgloss, lip balm, or worse, LIPSTICK! (popcorn might ruin your lips)


    %26gt;super-cute silver bracelet (ALWAYS at cinemas!)


    %26gt;neon-colored earrings!!!!!!!!





    have fuN.. =)
    a cute dress that is flirty but not desperate. Also if you feel self concious about your legs or stomach when you sit down then make sure its a bit longer because otherwise- flaaab!


    But yeh, just look hot before you leave the house and you'll do fine x
    Jeans





    Shirt





    Jewellery ( Necklace / Bracelet / Ring etc )





    White Trainers





    Do Something with your hair ( she will see you have made an effort if you do things like this )





    Fragrances ( Deodrant / Aftershave ) A Female never likes a smelly man )





    Hope this helps
    hey, regardless of your gender. dont wear too much cloths.. and if u feel cold inside, dude, thats the point when you can use your move.


    hold her hand, n get warm and ask her to comfy you!......


    think over it... ;)

    Researching history of specific date!!! NEED ADVICE?

    I am working on a research paper, topic: the history of my birthday--- i need to know good places online to research specific dates. just anything in general- what was going on in the world, latest news, etc....


    it has to be specific though- month/day/year.Researching history of specific date!!! NEED ADVICE?
    Try these links:





    http://www.history.com/tdih.do





    http://www.scopesys.com/today/





    http://www.datesinhistory.com/





    Good luckResearching history of specific date!!! NEED ADVICE?
    have you tried Google?


    if it doesn't Google, it doesn't exist
    I think that The New York Times has that service - enter your birthday and see the front page of the Times.





    The Times has cut back a lot recently, though. You might have to go old tech and ask your library if they have newspapers on microfiche.





    (Does anyone under 30 know what means ';microfiche';?...)
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  • I need some advice on what i should do for my first date like where i should take her, and other tips.?

    So its my first date and i really like this girl in school and i just asked her out but i have no idea on what i should where, where i should take her, etc.I need some advice on what i should do for my first date like where i should take her, and other tips.?
    take her bowling or to a movie, you know if you really like the girl from the first date. so try and make it special and have a good time, don't be nervous just have a good time and if it is meant to be it will all fall in to place.I need some advice on what i should do for my first date like where i should take her, and other tips.?
    I think the typical dinner and a movie is what every girl expects and would enjoy for a first date! Just make sure you pay for everything because that shows that you're a gentlemen and knows how to treat a girl! Good luck and hope everything goes well!

    I am challenged vertically , but would like to date tall girls advice please.?

    haha ur a leprichaun!!!! lol








    well can't help ya there.I am challenged vertically , but would like to date tall girls advice please.?
    All you can count on is your personality. You don't want to attract the ones who care about how tall you are anyway. A great girl will come along and see you for who you are inside. Please don't consider what I say as lame, because I have seen plenty of relationships where the woman is taller than the guy. I really don't think this is going to be a problem for you.





    PS. My mother in law is so much taller than her husband. Love is going to win over height.I am challenged vertically , but would like to date tall girls advice please.?
    Sound like a nice person except for the dressing in all green. Kinda worries me a bit there buddy lol I'm taller than most of my friends. I'm 5'7'; which isn't really all to tall but to me it is. lol What advice do you need?
    Sure and begorra I'm a tall girl, and my one wish is to date a wee leprechaun, but only if he always dresses in green. I will carry you on my shoulder and bejaysus the times we will have!
    Firstly how tall are you and if a girl is really interested in you then height or clothes shouldn't matter.
    Perhaps you are just the right height for a wee bit of fun!!


    You can always hide under her skirts and make others wonder what she is *smiling* about.
    Why don't you just find a female leprechaun.
    Just hang around outside of pubs at around closing time..as long as you're not to fussy you'll have no bother...x
    Yes,,,stop dreaming,lol
    Rofl.
    why should it matter if there tall or not?
    Yea uh huh b....no.....uh......no help sorry

    I need good/free websites where I can find up to date fashion advice/trends, etc..?

    http://www.style.comI need good/free websites where I can find up to date fashion advice/trends, etc..?
    www.seventeen.com


    www.ellegirl.com


    www.elle.com


    www.fashion.com


    www.glam.com


    www.glamour.com


    www.style.comI need good/free websites where I can find up to date fashion advice/trends, etc..?
    www.bananarepublic.com.


    You don't have to buy a thing. The clothing are grouped in suggestive ways that items can be worn as full outfits. You can get inspiration from those examples.

    What do you think of men that are too shy to date? What advice do you have for those that are nervous to talk?

    to women?What do you think of men that are too shy to date? What advice do you have for those that are nervous to talk?
    LOVE the shy men .. and as far as advice ...





    Just remember this ... all it takes is a bit of LISTENING Skills ... listen to the conversation around her (that she is participating in), learn from this ... and then just introduce yourself and ask about what you HEARD ... share an opinion (not too political though! May turn her off).





    After a bit of general conversation, ASK if she would like to sit down and have coffee, herbal tea, or a snack ... that should break the ice. Say you enjoyed your conversation and want to continue it through the snack!





    and remember this ...





    Just because one says 'no' does not mean that all will say 'no'. When a woman sees through to the kind, gentle, caring heart of the man approaching her (and just wanting to share coffee/tea for instance), a little conversation, SHE may CHOOSE to respond .. and you can now find other things to talk about.





    Plus, there is always the Museums, the Library, the Galleries, and other places (that are not bars) where there are women looking for the QUALITY men out there ... and I mean it! A little theater date (live theater that is) is far, far a better way to meet an interesting and intelligent woman (who may enjoy your presence) than anything else!What do you think of men that are too shy to date? What advice do you have for those that are nervous to talk?
    Some shy guys are very nice. They just need a little self confidence. If You are interested in one, just go up to him and say hi, and start a conversation. He will probably appreciate it.
    Study the Word of God and you will receive confidence from the Lord.
    lifes too short....
    Don't change.It leaves more for me.
    Just go ahead and do it...what's the worst that could happen? :)
    get over your fear
    I think they re adorable.. My advice is just do it and who cares what happens...

    I want to date a 37+ woman and I'm 21, any advice?

    Preferably, if you are a woman and want to give advice, that would be appreciated, because I'm figuring that you would know best. I'm not looking for a fling or just sex, but a real relationship. Do you think a 37+ woman would go for that, considering I'm 21? I'm in college. I have average looks I suppose, though I am physically fit.I want to date a 37+ woman and I'm 21, any advice?
    Well I'm about that old and I would never ever even consider seeing someone that young. That's just wrong.


    My theory is this: if she's willing to see you, it's for sex only. There is no way you can mentally match someone her own age. I'm not saying that all men her age are mature, just that they have alot more 'life experience'.I want to date a 37+ woman and I'm 21, any advice?
    Ask her. If she agrees, go for it.
    Any 37 yr old that dates a 21 yr old is a case of arrested development and needs a rubber room.
    I'm 40-something and I must say that young guys looking to live in an older woman's Cougar-dom seems to be on the rise. I've gotten ';hit on'; quite a bit in these past few years by guys up to 10-15 years my junior, and though it may be hard to take a younger guy seriously, I do see some women going for the younger guys and are THOROUGHLY enjoying themselves if you know what I mean!





    A word of caution. Older women can teach you alot, love you to death, cook their butts off to make you want to slap your mama, but if you are intent on doing this, make sure it's for the right reasons...





    ...make sure it's not just for your own financial security that you're seeking an older, established woman and look out for her too....make sure she's not getting with you to get her Cougar on and just want you for sex.





    Good luck on your search, have fun.
    its not going to be a real relationship but if you are looking to be a sex toy, we would be very happy to have you. our husbands are on the couch and have grown a tummy or two along with ingrown nails and balding patches. they might want to watch us - if thats ok with you.





    im not available and im too young for your age group but you should see the movie - just sex.
    you never know till you try
    I have no desire to date someone who would be the same age as my son.
    Don't go for a real relationship with a MILF. These things never work out.
    That's hot! You should have no problems finding an older woman. Rawwr!
    Well, some say that age is just a number. I am 39 myself. I guess you would really need to think about your future with an older woman. When you're 31 she'll be in her mid 50's. The other side of this is that two people can truly fall in love no matter what age. It all depends on the person and their inner opinions and acceptance of their lives. That really sounds technical doesn't it? lol! Well good luck either way :o)
    That's disgusting! It's like a 37 year old man dating a 21 years old girl.





    What would you think if you saw that?
    Dude no 37+ woman is going to want a kid. You may be in college, and could be really smart.. But you are not mature enough to be with a woman that old. When you do grow up you will know exactly what I am talking about.
    If you are looking for a long term relationship(marriage minded) then no, otherwise yes she will teach you things in bed and make you more mature.
    better go to hospital and check how terrible is yr mental problem.
    I've been with older women, but not with that huge age gap...


    however I'd say go for it and enjoy it! it is every young man's fantasy!!





    Remember, be confident, be a Man not a needy kid, don't Act and be urself...u never never mention age difference or how ppl used to dress back in her days! u treat her like ur out with a woman ur age..and remember it is ur manly traits that u need to work on and develop..mature,responsible,cool,care taker.. because these are what attracts her to u no matter how old u r she is still woman and responds to her instinct attraction mechanisms..
    trust me ,the only thing she want from you is a good pounding, dont look for anything else !
    Some women might think thats totally wrong


    but there are a lot of women who prefer to date a younger man. You just have to find the right one.
    If you just looking to screw her go for it. But if your looking for a longterm relationship do the math college boy. She is just about past her prime and is going to start going down hill very fast very soon.
    I am a 33-year-old woman and I think that is gross. Although I find a lot...A LOT, of younger men attractive, I know that it is ONLY me missing being young again. This is probably what it is for her too.





    Plus, if you are not just looking for a fling, you might really want to reconsider that...don't you want kids one day? She probably can't have kids anymore, or if she can, it will be a high-risk pregnancy which means she could die or the baby could have health complications. Also, if she has kids already, her kids are not going to respect you because you are so young. You would be more like a sibling rather than a step-father.





    Good luck!
    She is just using you, find someone your own age. Besides many people say that the man should be older than the woman
    no. they just want sex from young guys.

    Any advice for me to date Asian girls that speak Asian languages?

    Young male that surely likes them! I live in Southern California if that helps.Any advice for me to date Asian girls that speak Asian languages?
    Learn the language or date bilingual girls...
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  • Im going on a first date and i need advice from males and females!?

    what creeps guys out? what should i do? not do? HELP!Im going on a first date and i need advice from males and females!?
    be yourself,


    go with the flow,


    and don't try too hard.


    have fun! :)Im going on a first date and i need advice from males and females!?
    Don't be clingy or needy or pushy and overbearing. Just be yourself, be calm, confident and interesting. He obviously chose to ask you out so that's one battle over with. Listen more than you talk at first so you can pick up on some clues about him and go with the flow....and remember, he's probably just as nervous as you.





    And don't have sex on a first date!!! if you're too easy he won't respect you enough to ask you out on a second date!
    Just be yourself...and don't talk about your previuos relantionships, religion, and money...





    Relax and let it flow...ask him what kind of music he listens to and stuff that is interesting to both of you
    Have something to talk about. A long silence (10 min), makes guys want to cry, beacuse he can't think of anything to say, it drives us crazy. Other than that be yourself!
    be your self. the guys sometimes didn't enjoy girl talkative type, and they like girl gave intention to what they said. good luck. p/s: no kiss at first date. lol.
    put pumpkin spice behind your ears,lavender,heels,lipgloss,Good luck i wish you all the luck in my good luck charm tonight!
    Just be yourself. Try not to impress. And don't dress like a slut. Dress sexy but tasteful. Have a good time.
    dump the guy your probaly to ugly for him anyway lol
    just be yourself and have some fun!

    Would you ask a exboyfriend/exgirlfriend advice on someone you want to date?

    im at school right now and this girl is asking her exboyfriend advice on some dude she wants to date. do you or do u not agree with her actions???Would you ask a exboyfriend/exgirlfriend advice on someone you want to date?
    No not at all. Its your business not theirs.Would you ask a exboyfriend/exgirlfriend advice on someone you want to date?
    depends on there relationship, if they are really close I see no problem in it but I wouldn't ask any of my ex's advice on another relationship, that is what your friends are for, lol
    I would especially if they were together for a long time. they would know you better than alot of people know you. And they would know if that person was good for you or not.
    if her exboyfriend is ok with it. why not? they're not in a relationship anymore.
    That sounds crazy to me! For some reason the girl doesn't want to cut all ties with the guy.
    That probably won't be the best idea.
    i already do lol
    it is ok but i wont do it cause i dont want to become a complete loser!
    if they are still close friends then yes go right ahead
    i don't think my ex would want to hear about me dating another man.

    First Date: Please help me and give some advice?

    Im going out on a date with someone on Saturday afternoon and I want everything to be perfect. What do we do where do we go and what do we talk about?First Date: Please help me and give some advice?
    Hi sally,


    I know how you feel, been there done that. Most important is to be yourself and enjoy your time with him. Dress comfortable. I found a website that gave me some great help on most of the questions you have.





    www.shellsdatingtips.comFirst Date: Please help me and give some advice?
    talk about life school if in school go out to a dinner or the movies or both have fun when you say good bye let yourself make the first move for a first kiss or even a hug ask what they like don't like find out as much as you can.
    Just talk about whatever comes into your mind. Talk about a movie, talk about something in school, talk about what you want to do in life. Just don't talk about or get into sex.
    Be yourself :-)

    Advice on date tomorrow night?

    Met this girl online and we're meeting for a movie and dinner tomorrow night. We've emailed each other about 5 or 6 times, just exchanged phone #'s, she said what she liked about my profile was that I seemed ';boyfriend oriented'; in that I'm not just looking for imtimacy, but I want the same thing as her, a relattionship. She said she has a belly button ring, I said those are cute, she asked where I'm planning on getting mine...I said nipple and ';um one other place...'; she said, ';your choice of piercings sound interesting wink wink. nipple rings are hot!'; she said she's glad how she describes herself interests me ';especially the affectionate part (when im with someone)'; she said shes likes im driven with becoming a teacher...she said yes she would like to meet up for dinner and a movie. arranged the time, she gave me her cell first.


    soo my question is...should i just watch the movie with her n chat before it starts....or chat before it starts etc and then put my arm around her duringAdvice on date tomorrow night?
    Hmmm...you might just want to start chattin with her first. You dont want her to think you were just puttin up a front. You just have to feel out the evening...and how akward or comfortable it is...just go with the flow..if you hit it off, yeah put your arm around her, but if it still seems akward...just wait it out.Advice on date tomorrow night?
    just really do what she and u r comfortable with. dont go forcing the issue coz u might get undesired results. good luck.
    I have been on a few internet dates.I can only tell you what I would from an internet date. I too was looking for a relationship and not just sex, so if I went out for dinner and a movie, I would like for the guy to chat before the movie, but I would think it was very corny for him to put his arm around me. When I say corny, I mean it seems young, high school like. I wouldn't want a guy to get too touchy, feely on the first date. Maybe a kiss on the cheek after the night is over if it goes well. You need to leave her wanting more. If you enjoyed the date, then tell her you really enjoyed the evening and would like to do it again soon. But again, I would hold out on the physical stuff if you really want to persue a relationship.


    Rent the movie ';Hitch'; and buy, ';Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.'; Both give great dating advice!


    Good luck. And relax!

    Can anyone help me with dating advice?

    I am 15 years old and i am not very ';open'; when it comes dating.


    any advice in actually getting a man? I want to be myself and not act differently but i just want to know what to do to start a good relationship i really want to be in a relationship with someone right now (not a friendship i mean like dating).








    Best answer 10 points!





    please and thanks and if you need me to put more information please tell me that.Can anyone help me with dating advice?
    Youre only 15 you dont need a man you need a boy. Just be yourself dont act different if someone doesnt want to date you for who you are you dont need them in your life! =]

    I want to date a 37+ woman and I'm 21, any advice?

    Preferably, if you are a woman and want to give advice, that would be appreciated, because I'm figuring that you would know best. I'm not looking for a fling or just sex, but a real relationship. Do you think a 37+ woman would go for that, considering I'm 21? I'm in college. I have average looks I suppose, though I am physically fit.I want to date a 37+ woman and I'm 21, any advice?
    Age has nothing to do with it. Some people are capable of relationships and others are not.





    It may be tricky to find an older woman because of societal injustices in which men can date young women, but women who date young men are frowned upon. But it is not impossible.





    The thing you have to look out for is baggage. By that I mean, because you are younger, older people have a tendency to try to control or parent you.





    The biggest issue is that these women may have children. Now I am not a fan of children at all, but I can imagine having to put up with someone else's children daily would be awful.I want to date a 37+ woman and I'm 21, any advice?
    i think you should ask yourself why you want to date woman this age, what is that you are really looking for ?.. did you have a mother figure when you was growing up?


    you have to consider other facts that when you 25+ maybe you want to start goin out for clubs friends maybe youll meet a younger girl and realize that this is not what you wanted


    women37+ in some cases they tent to like different activities than younger woman.. remember 16 years older than you.


    in my opinion i think you are too young ... to really know what you really want...sometimes we think that we know what we want but later we realize that .. that wanst what we wanted. been there done that. im much older than you so im sayin it by own experience.


    go out, have fun, meet ppl, finish college, and when you are done with all that ,,, i guess you will have a clear though .. i gues you will see things differently of how you see it know
    I'd say give it some time %26amp; start noticing ';girls'; more your own age... I don't know of any relationships that are reversed like that that have worked... with the guy being older, yes, but usually not with the female... I'm just looking at celeb stuff %26amp; I haven't seen it anywhere else, either, where the woman was considerably older %26amp; the man stayed faithful %26amp; devoted to her as she got older than him before him... women are more nurturing %26amp; that type of caregivers, so if we were to marry a considerably older man we would care for him but unfortunately men are more proned to stray (?) %26amp; that will even make it harder for them as they get older. Some usually want to still feel younger; hence, probably why they start dating younger gals, to feel younger. I'm not saying that that's right, it just seems to be the way it goes for some...
    If you are willing to step father her children, then I think she will be interested. However, some of her kids might be your age. So if she happens to have beautiful, sexy, daughters your age; remember they are off limits.
    dont knock her up
    Go for it. It will be the best sex you ever have in your life.
    don't call her mom
    I knew a woman who married a 20 year old she was 38 , they went on to have 4 kids she already had a teenager from a previous relationship, a lot of people thought it was deplorable because her husband was only 4 years older than her son. When they went out people thought the husband was her older son so her son felt disgusted and left to be with his father. I also know a couple that is mixed race only one child has dark skin, people don't seem happy with this either, but its their life they can do what they like but as i said don't be surprised at what people think.
    There is nothing wrong with this. If anything good for you! :P
    YOUR DUMM A 37 OLD TO DATE AFTER 20 YEARS YOU WILL BE 41 AND SHE 57
    I'm an older woman and have kids your age. Don't do it. Most likely it will go nowhere. You probably have some issues and so does she and therefore it currently meets some need that the two of you have. You both would benefit from someone closer to your own age. Especially you. It would break my heart if my sons got romantically involved with someone that age. I want them with a youthful contemporary that can share the stages of life that they are going through. (college, graduation, job search, extreme sports, young friends, parties, freedom from responsibility to a degree...etc....and the list goes on). It's ok to be attracted, but move on, there's girls your age out there.
    Unless you dislike having sexual relationships with Grandmothers, go for it.
    yeah, don't do it. Women age harder than men so when you are 34, you will be screwing a 50 year old. I am 31 and I find that sick.
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  • Too many to chose from, hot 3rd date need advice?

    i like the tokyo from figleaves














    http://www.easyshopdirect.co.uk/results.php?compare-prices=SF-7/BEFID-96667/keyword-/dnatrs-fantasie_of_england-lingerie_type_bras-price_range_30_40Too many to chose from, hot 3rd date need advice?
    oh for gosh sakes its just gonna end up on the floor anyways, so why does it matter?

    Ive been haveing trouble asking girls on a date. Does anyone have any advice that might help me?

    i was like you afraid of rejection.but you know what if they say no,who cares.but if you dont ask,you might lose out on something good.so its worth the risk,take it.if they do say no,then all that means is your not right for them and not that your ugly or a bad person.Ive been haveing trouble asking girls on a date. Does anyone have any advice that might help me?
    =] alot of guys have issues with this. haha. but i can honestly say that if your shy it will make things alot more awkward. you just have to relax and be yourself. be hapy, smile. let her know that she can be open with you, whether she wants to be with you or not. annd if you are rejected its ohkay to be disappointed but dont try to make the girl feel bad, because then after that it may be awkward for you both. =] good luck!Ive been haveing trouble asking girls on a date. Does anyone have any advice that might help me?
    Yes, and I'm a girl, so I should know.


    Obviously, you want to play it safe, you are afraid of rejection and so on. So the best thing to do - for you and for the girl in question - is not to ask her on a date. Instead, ask her to go see a movie with you. Or go to this great show that is coming to town for just a couple of nights. Or teach her surfing, or ride your bikes in the woods one afternoon. Basically, you want to invite her to have some fun with you. Have an activity, so that you don't have to sit in awkward silence. Movie is a safe choice, because you just get to sit in the dark and maybe secretly hold hands for a couple of hours, and then you can start talking... about how you liked the movie. If you want to feel like a real gentleman, offer to buy the tickets, but a) that's not obligatory; b) don't pick anything too expensive (like a fancy restaurant) so that your girl doesn't feel like you're trying to ';buy'; her. Try to make it all as casual as possible, because both you and your girl will just be testing the waters, seeing how much you like each other, and there has to be an easy way out in case thing don't seem to work. And don't forget that a good friend-girl is also a treasure, not just a girlfriend, so be open to all possibilities. Good luck!

    Advice for dating a woman way too fine to be dating you?

    I've been seeing this ridiculously good looking gal lately, normally I wouldn't do it because it just doesn't make sense. But She's got a great personality and all. Can a relationship work when one of you is way the hell too good looking to be with the other?Advice for dating a woman way too fine to be dating you?
    I'm way hotter than my boyfriend, but I don't care!





    just kidding.





    Honestly though, it's perfectly understandable to feel that way. I actually felt that I wasn't attractive enough for my boyfriend, so we had a chat about it. Turns out, he was feeling the same way.





    So what's the deal? It's a combination of being attracted and feeling insecure.





    Why do you feel you're not good enough for this person?





    Maybe she's just as attracted to you, or maybe she's more interested in your personality, or maybe a combination of the two!





    The point is, this relationship should start off being built on trust and that means you'll just have to trust her to be attracted to you if she's still seeing you.





    If you're still feeling this way, go ahead and talk to her about it directly. It's a great way to get to know someone, ease into intimacy and allow yourself to feel that vulnerability that brings you closer to someone you're attracted to. Oh, and it makes great pillow talk.Advice for dating a woman way too fine to be dating you?
    Haven't you ever been with someone who was a knockout to look at, but had the personality of a marble? Does it matter if they are critical of everything you do, or accuse you of cheating every time you walk in the door? If they are 24/7 nags can you overlook that just because you thought they were hot? It's tempting to go for the lookers, but really, it's the least important of things that truly matter.
    Be careful of getting yourself hurt in many ways. If this girl is good for you and she really likes you go for it but be careful of past hurts in her life that might make her jealous or controlling. Also, it could just be that she likes you and isn't looking at looks as much as you do because some women do that. My husband is good looking but has just gained weight and I hear people tell him he is so lucky to be with me. He changed but my love for him has not. Good Luck!
    Well my advice for you is to look past her looks and get to know her as a person. Like for example what her interests are, her views of political manners, and her life. I would also say if you think she is hot than you should tell her because sometimes women can be insecure about their looks even though she might not show it.
    First of all, you can have whoever you want if you are confident in yourself. People say it all the time but it is completely true! Women are very turned off by guys who always wonder if they are good enough, it makes them rethink their decision. That being said, it can definitely work if you know you are good enough.
    Of course it can. Seriously, I don't know why guys get so hung up about this. A lot of people who know my boyfriend and I say that I'm way out of his league, but I don't see it that way. I love (and am extremely turned on by) him, and he loves me right back. It works, and there's no reason it shouldn't. Just try to be secure in yourself, and realize that you're worthy of this woman and her affection.
    Oh totally. It just shows she's attracted to you and you did everything right to attract her. So don't change your ways. Don't become a doormat or a wuss-boy. And by all means, when she gets hit on, don't become the jealous controlling type or you'll lose her.








    Like I said...just keep doing what you've been doing because it worked on her. Welcome to the world of attracting beautiful women. A skill so few have but those who do reap the benefits. ;-)
    I think that women like the fact that when they wake up in the morning that they still look better than you! It boost their well needed self-esteem.





    When the shoe is on the other foot---they have major insecurity issues and accuse you of things that you haven't done yet---trust me!
    Thats funny as hell. I'm the guy who walks down the street with my wife and people go ';how did he get her?'; She said the best part about me when we met is that I didn't treat her different. Now I'm ';That Guy'; and you can be too!
    You Should always be confident in who your with if she is seeing you...she see's something in you that she really likes





    Warning: DONT NOT TELL HER THAT SHE IS TO GOOD LOOKING FOR YOU ! ! ! ! ! ! (cuz you will make her realize that)





    but of course it could work out like i said just be confident
    it seems like shes perfect.


    you could have a relationship is shes not shallow. just causaly approach her and ask her a quetion you allready know the answer 2 like.


    ';do you know how to get to the starbucks...?'; or something.
    There is a blog on dating and relationship advices. You might be interested. Its updated daily thus i think you will find it very useful. They also have a store for gift ideas!
    it definitely can... it doesn't matter on looks, its just how compatible you two are together, and from what it seems like, you two are great for each other. good luck buddy
    Men are attracted to what they see, women are attracted to what they hear. Think about that.
    aww hunny i am sure shes super hot and you are even super hotter ! think positive woman like that. good luck and don't worry she will say yes ! %26lt;3 xoxo :] !
    yeah I think it can work! I've heard that relationships where the girl is better looking than the guy have a better chance of working out than if it's the other way around. good luck!
    just be nice too

    I want to date a 37+ woman and I'm 21, any advice?

    Preferably, if you are a woman and want to give advice, that would be appreciated, because I'm figuring that you would know best. I'm not looking for a fling or just sex, but a real relationship. Do you think a 37+ woman would go for that, considering I'm 21? I'm in college. I have average looks I suppose, though I am physically fit.I want to date a 37+ woman and I'm 21, any advice?
    Just go for it! Cougars are awesome! :D





    There' not going to be any one piece of advice that is going to work. Every situation is different.I want to date a 37+ woman and I'm 21, any advice?
    ICK
    DONT GO OUT WITH THE LADY ITS JUST WRONG GO FOR THE HOTTER CHICKS IN COLLEGE








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    I need advice on a rent to own agreement, house damaged before move-in date?

    I signed a rent to own agreement for 3 houses on one property. The owner conveyed that rental income potential is $1500 per month. My move-in date is 3-1-07. The main house had a fire %26amp; must be gutted %26amp; completely rebuilt. I must stay in little house which was to be one of the rentals,thereby no income from that. Owner has offered to discount price another $11,600 but that does not cover cost of rebuilding or lost income from rental. The attraction to the property was the rental income covering most of mtg.pymnts.$2200 per mnth. All is up in the air now. Anyone with similar experience? I would sure appreciate any thoughts/advice.I need advice on a rent to own agreement, house damaged before move-in date?
    In my rent to own agreements, there is a paragraph that details exactly what you are talking about. If the property becomes uninhabitable due to fire or other unforeseen circumstance; or if for some reason the owner can not let you occupy the property, then the agreement can be either renogotiated or terminated.





    Rather than taking a reduced price, I would want a reduced rent until the other unit is able to be lived in. If that scenario isn't going to fit your needs, then you should be able to get your money back.I need advice on a rent to own agreement, house damaged before move-in date?
    Your contract has materially changed due to the fire and is therefore, no longer valid. You will need a new contract if you intend to go through with this.





    The owner needs to reduce the price by whatever the value of the house that burned is. If he doesn't, then I would walk away. It's a crappy deal.





    I'm not a fan of ';rent to own'; to start with. The only one that makes money on them is the owner. The poor sucker that is trying to buy the property ends up in the hole.





    I would strongly suggest you talk to a real estate attorney.
    Here's your big question. If you are doing rent to own PLEASE make sure that in the contract there is a stipulation that the seller is required to sell to you upon completion.





    The option to sell/but extends both ways, so if you put all that money into the place and at the end of the term of applying rent to down payment or whatever your contract is, the seller can change his mind also and say that he's decided not to sell, so you are out all the costs of repair.
    you did this all on your own...





    it should be in your contract............





    get a lawyer......you would have needed one anyhow to close...





    you may have damages due to you....





    good luck........

    What are some advice when dating someone older than you and different race?

    I am 22 she's 24 and she's white and I am asian. I have never dated a white girl before and never dated someone older than me. Thanks.What are some advice when dating someone older than you and different race?
    I am white and my partner is Asian and there is no issue with it. Just dont force your culture down her throat. Yeah she should be interested in it and want to know about your country etc but you have to accept there will be differences at times. Equally she should respect your culture and not throw hers at you. A happy balance and a mix of what is best from both cultures is best. At 24 she is harldy what you would call 'older' than you as 22-24 levels of life experience and subsequent maturation are not too different.What are some advice when dating someone older than you and different race?
    I recently dated a guy 2 years younger than myself and honestly there was nothing wrong with the relationship. As for the different race i have no experience.





    but the only thing that matters is how YOU feel for the girl. No one else should contribute or encourage you to feel any differently. Love works in all communities, cultures, and all areas of life. Live it,love it, experience it.
    no difference from dating a person your age and race. although don't act immature around her. and race doesn't make a difference although u 2 may have different traditions or way of doing things. heres some advice: Don't mention 2 her that u have never dated a white girl b4. that won't help much. oh and age is but a number. if she's going out with u even though ur 2 years younger then her, then that means she doesn't care that there is an age difference. So it doesn't matter.
    Well, you know what the color of your skin is not important what matter most is how you communicate to her. As long as you know how to speak her language that would be fine unless you find it difficult to express yourself. She is not too old for you just a matter of two years only . I am an Asian too and my husband is an American. We didn't find difficulty in terms of cultural differences much more to you if you grow up in the same country. Good luck!
    The race difference and such a small age difference are really non-issues. You shouldn't even think of them. Just act the same way you would on any other date. This is the ';melting pot'; of the world. Anybody can date anybody, and only the really radical racists would care about the racial difference.
    First of all, there is not that much of an age difference. Second, for your relationship to work, you need communication..talk about your beliefs and her beliefs up front..others will see you differently because of your races. If you begin to feel strongly for her, you both have to stand up for each other. Thirdly, make sure that both of your parents agree to date, if not it will be alot harder on you as a couple.
    two years is no different at your age and there should be no difference in race unless there is a big cultural gap, sometimes that is hard
    Should not make too much of a difference, just make sure she is prepared for the culture shock when she meets the parents. Other than that, best of luck!
    if ur dating her then you guys are probably comfortable around eachother.. so there shouldnt really be a need for advice.
    it's no different than dating anyone else!
    two things bro. Here family and her knowing more then you... Just man up and dont care what people think.......
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  • Going on a blind date.Any advice?

    I know I need to be myself and just act natural, but what are some good topics to talk about that will make things comfortable and that won't be creepy. Also, what are the do's and don'ts of going on a blind date? Thanks.Going on a blind date.Any advice?
    Bring a gun, a knife, and maybe some pepper spray.Going on a blind date.Any advice?
    Dont talk about past relationships or anything else inappropriate. both my parents met on a blind date :) lol.





    Idk, talk about...both of your interests. like movies, music, hobbies. find common ground.

    I want a black girlfriend but im afraid to ask them out right for a date any advice?

    Why would asking a black girl out be different from asking a white girl out?I want a black girlfriend but im afraid to ask them out right for a date any advice?
    Ha okay you have to be affectionate with some girls it depends on the girls attitude.Half of my family is black and yea i do like black people so it doesnt make a difference








    Btw I'm Biracial and girls like me like rough active guys (like soccer,Lax,ETC)I want a black girlfriend but im afraid to ask them out right for a date any advice?
    Why is it any harder to ask a black girl out than a white one, ask yourself this question. Is it because of the colour of her skin, or is it something else. To me it should not make any difference what the skin colour is, it is the girl herself that matters.
    if your yourself then you'll be fine just be sweet, compliment and dazzle her with attention it's no different from asking a white, asian or mix race girl out. i'm black i haven't met but i like you so try it good luck.
    Er, you want just a black girlfriend or one black girl in particular?


    You can't date someone just cos she's black, you need to date someone who makes you happy and whom you care about.
    just ask them out there like any othere people every one is the sme go up2 her and ask her name then get chatting to her then turn round and say u fancy going out for a meal next wkend or somethin if u dont ask u wont get good luck
    Faint heart never won fair lady.


    You'll never get a girl if you just haven't got the courage to have a go at her.
    no, you need to sit your mom down and tell her she makes you feel uncomfortable and if you dont want him around tell her your sorry you dont like her
    Just go for it! She will see you that you like her and she might say yes.


    Good luck

    Need some advice for a first date?

    So I was just gonna wear just this navy hollister shirt with collar, not one or the nice nice ones just a casualy one and jeans. Is that good, btw I have really blue eyes so I though that would be good.also what are some good dos and donts. We are hopefully going to the movies.Need some advice for a first date?
    You'd better be paying! Otherwise there won't be a second date.


    Just keep everything casual and it'll work out well.Need some advice for a first date?
    ya thats fine just dress like you normally dress and have a good time and be yourself
    Sounds good





    DO:


    Comment on what she is wearing, tell her she looks cute


    Be a gentleman, it may seem corny, but it works


    Talk to her and listen, don't stare into space, LISTEN, you may surprise her


    Don't go overboard and try to hold her hand/make-out/go crazy on her in the theater, just let things happen, if nothing does then whatever there are an unlimited supply of dates





    DON'T:


    Be a jerk/showoff/idiot for her benefit because although she may be laughing she could also be thinking of all the other...nicer guys she could be on a date with


    Ignore her, ever


    Be weird, by this I mean do off-the wall stuff that isn't classified as normal, just let things ride, ask questions, laugh, smile, and talk, and watch the movie, if something strays wildly from that lineup, avoid it





    Most of all just be yourself if you act like the popular, smart, hot person that she wants to you to be then down the road you are both going to regret it, be who you are and if it doesn't work out, there are plenty of fish in the ocean
    Don't wear jeans, go with khakis, wayy classier. you'll look more mature

    Hi Girls, what dating advice would you give to a 27 year old single guy looking to meet that special person?

    I am average-looking but intelligent with a good sense of humour, have done the whole 'bar' thing but never find the right person.......where should I look for the right girl??Hi Girls, what dating advice would you give to a 27 year old single guy looking to meet that special person?
    Maybe you should ask a friend to set you up with another friend of theirsHi Girls, what dating advice would you give to a 27 year old single guy looking to meet that special person?
    Get a puppy. Girls love puppies. Plus it shows that you can care for something without killing it.
    Let your friends and family know that you would like to meet someone special and let them know what you are looking for. It just seems that when you least expect it, that special someone just shows up in your life. It could be a chance meeting at a restaurant, store, anywhere. Always be yourself, nothing worse for a lady to think she's met Mr Right to find out that he's been putting up a false front and he's not at all what she's looking for!!

    My daughter has 30 pounds to lose before her 90 day pre-ship date to bootcamp. Any advice?

    When you are losing weight, you should exercise and diet together.


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    after 7 p.m. People achieve marvellous results with it. Depending on


    your initial weight, you can drop upwards from 20 pounds a month. If


    you don't eat wheat then you don't eat all those sticky, fatty goey


    cakes, you don't eat junk food, and you don't eat biscuits. But your


    diet is still balanced. It costs nothing, and you do not have to


    calculate points or to buy special meals or plans. For exercising,


    start with walking, and then switch to running/jogging. Running is the


    most efficient and calorie-burn exercise ever. If you are overweight a


    lot, walk first or you may have health complications (heart attack,


    disjointed bones and so on). Weight lifting is a good means to target


    your problem areas for men and women. It's not necessarily to become a


    bodybuilder or even join a gym - a couple of dumbbells will help you


    to target your problem areas (stomach, butt, legs, arms, chest).My daughter has 30 pounds to lose before her 90 day pre-ship date to bootcamp. Any advice?
    I lost 17 lbs on this diet in about 4 weeks:





    http://www.mediweightlossclinics.com/





    I highly recommend it, or something similar to it if possible.


    It isn't a good long term plan to stay on, but the Rx they give you really helps stay with the diet. I thin k it's wonderful for dropping 20-30 pretty quickly.





    Good Luck!


    Tell your daughter thank you for deciding to serve our country.My daughter has 30 pounds to lose before her 90 day pre-ship date to bootcamp. Any advice?
    aim for 10lbs a month. Walk every day for 35 minutes. Springs 200 or 400m twice a week. Light weight lifting using compound exercises. Most importantly - be consistent and use common sense.
    Gain 30 lbs instead so maybe she will get a waiver not to go.
    run 25 miles a day

    What's the worst piece of dating advice you've got?

    The worst?


    Talk about yourself constantly.


    When the other person on the date starts talking about themselves, interrupt them and then turn it back to yourself. Also, act racist and like you think you are inferior. Make up words that sound intelligent but are not.What's the worst piece of dating advice you've got?
    Don't be so paranoid.
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  • I need advice about a date I went on yesterday?

    So I went on a date and of course I am totally charmed by this guy. He seemed really interested in me. Now, Im not a pro at dating, so I need advice. He said there will be a next time that we will see each ohter, yet the calling thing is what i have a hard time wth. He hasnt called. I know its too soon...but how long shoudl i wait before I hear from him again??





    Does he not want to come on too strong??I need advice about a date I went on yesterday?
    Some guys actually like when the girl contacts them it shows they are totally dependent on the guy for communication (Because we know how well they do that =]) So text him something sweet like I was thinking about you, when can I see you again?





    Just don't come on too strong text or call once and that will show your interested but not clingy just make him know your interested but don't come on too strong





    Hope I helped =)I need advice about a date I went on yesterday?
    well, MiaMia (lol mia is also my name) you shouldn't be worried yet. Guys usually don't want to come on too strong or be clingy so they might not call right away. But sooner or later he will probably call you back if he is really interested in you. If he doesn't call back soon, maybe you can try calling him and just be casual so you don't sound too obsessed either...
    I always know when I make a big hit with a guy, cause even after he has already said good night to me, he is on his cell phone calling me within 20 minutes. By the time I get inside my apartment and kick off my shoes he's already phoning me, telling me how much he enjoyed spending the evening with me. I really like guys who don't waste any time letting me know just where I stand with them. (I always judge a guy by his actions and behavior towards me). Not by what he ';says.'; Talk is cheap.


    It is not your place to phone him, he should be the one to contact you. If and when he does, you should let him know that you are please to hear from him by your responce. Some guys actually are afraid they may appear to come on too strong. I hope you don't have that mis-fortune. He should be afraid someone else will beat him to you if he doesn't act quickly. So, get on with your life and don't hold your breath waiting for him to phone. He needs to know that you have a life outside of him. Places to go 'n things to do.
    Wait a couple of days .. then give him a call . Feel the vibe from him then . Basically if you have to ask if he is .. then he probably isn't. Its Oh so true ! If he is , you will know without a doubt ;0) Most guys if they are.. will usually call almost right away .
    idk, its to soon to to really tell whats going on.. give him a few days, if he doesnt call on the 5 day you call him, ask him how he is and that you just came across his number so you decicec to call, after the conversation, if he doesnt mention another date, then dont worry about it.. not worth it for you.
    RIGHT NOW :


    DROP WHAT YOU ' RE DOING .


    1 . Go to a movie website .


    2. Check the showtimes .


    3. Grab a couple of your girlfriends .


    4. Go and see 'He ' s Just Not That Into You . '


    5. You are an expert .





    Not even kidding .


    Hope I helped !


    :]
    The max you should wait for a call is 4 days.If it goes past that then you can either:





    A.]Call him, don't leave it all up to him


    %26lt;or%26gt;


    B.]Forget him, if he can't give you a simple call hes not worth it.





    It's up to do...do you think hes worth waiting for?
    wait about a week and a half before giving up.








    guys suck





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    Call Him First.


    Female To Female%26gt;%26gt; Go After Him.


    You Only Live Life Once Baby Girlll. :)





    GoodLuck.%26lt;33
    wait about a year


    and then call him back


    cause he'll either hate you


    or not remeber who you are
    wait a few days

    Im going on a double date. Any advice for me?

    my friend and her boyfriend set me up


    and i've never seen the guy before


    Im going on a double date. Any advice for me?
    Just be friendly, even if the guy is attractive, you don't want to come off as sluty or anything. so be friendly.Im going on a double date. Any advice for me?
    Even if he has a pizza face, remain calm and have a good time. Heck, your getting a free meal and possibly a movie out of it. What more could you ask for?
    Don't hit on the other guy





    SteveC

    Im going on a date this weekend i need some advice?

    im going on triple double date this weekend and the girl im going with i kind of like her but im not sure if she likes me. i figure that she does since she said yes but ive never ben on a date with a girl i dont go out with what do i do?Im going on a date this weekend i need some advice?
    I don't know how old you are, but you need to make sure she's very relaxed on the date. A lot of people use alcohol (or a different drug) to get relaxed and have a good time. If you dance, dancing is a great way to get to know someone better. Best of luck to you! Have fun and play safe!

    I really like this hot new guy in my class I'm not sure he likes me plus my rents won't let me date.Any Advice?

    we are different he is a jock I am the brains..I really like this hot new guy in my class I'm not sure he likes me plus my rents won't let me date.Any Advice?
    I cant date either so what you should do is talk to him


    STARTER to notice his grades and see if he need a study buddy and you can help out al ways start off with little moves.

    I had an awful date with a guy and now I don't know what to do around him. Any advice?

    I asked a good guy friend to a formal at my school. He's really shy, but he didn't talk at all! He didn't even tell me I looked nice and acted like he didn't want to be there. I've been avoiding him. I'm not mad anymore I just don't know what to say to him because i know for a fact that he likes me and that's why he was so nervous. What do I say to him?I had an awful date with a guy and now I don't know what to do around him. Any advice?
    it sounds like he has a bit of inexperience going on dates, let alone how to act on a date. and being shy can really hamper a person's progress in having a relationship cos if you are unable to eally be your true self it will be made harder to show how you feel and act.





    what the other chick just said about going bowling, that sounds like a great idea. cos at a formal youre on your best behaviour and being that he's a guy friend and the first date is at your formal the atmosphere of it doesnt let you really be yourself and have a chance to show your fun side. and bcos he's at a formal he probably felt like he felt out of place and doesnt know how to act around you and the whole formal thing.





    maybe you could give him another go, only this time go somewhere that both of you will be comfortable with, somewhere that you and him can agree on and be yourselves around one another. definetaly bowling :) either that or just go to a cafe or to the beach if there is one nearby where you live. i feel that anywhere that he can be comfortable around you in he will be at ease and really show you what kinda nice guy he could be.





    enjoy your date, and good luck getting a strike :)I had an awful date with a guy and now I don't know what to do around him. Any advice?
    Your choice on what to say. If you really know he likes you, you may unlock all the great personality and things he wants to say to you by just going up and breaking the ice. This is 2009, the time of independent, confident women! If you want to see what he has to offer in a relationship, go up and ask if he would like to go out sometime in a less formal situation. It multiplies any nervousness in theses situations when it's not only you two together, but being around all your other friends. If you approach him and he turns you down, it's his loss, and you know you've done what you can.
    He is likely feeling intimidated by you. Guys mature inside slower, and even adult males frequently have trouble expressing emotions. That is just how men are raised. He is wearing a mask for you now, because he is afraid of revealing too much of his emotions and feelings because society dictates that men should be strong and unemotional. They find it difficult to make the first move if they are any less than super-self-confident. Are you really attractive? Maybe he is just stunned by your beauty.


    Just be friendly and nice. You said you were friends before, right? He just seems to have clammed-up... just shy? Don't force him: you have all the power here, my dear - be kind.
    If he's not crazy: Honesty. Tell him what you just said. Guy's can be intimidated too. Just becuase he lacked confidence that night doesn't mean is a 100% dud. You never know he might be a diamond in the rough. Some guys were never tought how to treat a lady. (And a guy should tell you girls you look beautiful , not nice or hot). And he might catch on soon, maybe not. If you are a girl who needs that from a guy, he aint' the one! Don't waist you or his time. If there is nothing there, he'll get over it. Trust me, Honesty.





    If he is crazy: Keep doing what your doing LOL. Avoid him.
    The question is do you like him? If you do then you talk to him. Tell him a little bit about how you feel. Maybe he will open up a little bit if he knows you like him. And try to be patient with him if he is shy. It is really hard when you are suffering from shyness.
    tell him how you feel, maybe next time you bring him out maybe get him involved in the conversation, i know if a girl gets me involved my interest goes up so does my confidence, maybe because you took him to your formal he felt uncomfortable in his surroundings because he doesnt know anybody
    Ask him to go bowling with you because the dance was not a good place to get to know each other. You can also have a light snack and chat. The rest of the convo is done between throws of the bowling balls. It's a very low pressure date.
    Hon, just tell him you're sorry if you made him uncomfortable. I know it's not your fault, but it will help with the tension. Ask him on another, more casual date, maybe for lunch or something. Good luck!
    Just avoid him, but if he says ';hi'; don't be rude and not answer. If he asks you out again just say, ';Thanks, but i am not interested.'; He will get the point and will leave you alone.
    don't avoid him anymore! and unless u like him back, don't bring up him liking you. just say hey and talk like you used to talk before the formal.
    Be causal. let everything fall in its place. just start out witha ';Hi';or just with a simple ';hello'; and just ask questions like ';how are you?'; or ';whats up?'; or just talk about school.
    well i mean, you cant just never say nothing! there are ways to talk to him, just be honest, say whats on your mind.

    Advice on whether it would be considered wrong to date my older cousins daughter even though I was adopted?

    Yes it would, even if your adopted they have took you in and raised you ! Advice on whether it would be considered wrong to date my older cousins daughter even though I was adopted?
    Probably would be weird for the


    rest of the family but since it's not


    really there Business i guess


    you could.But keep in mind


    you'd be dating your niece.


    And she'd be dating her Uncle.Advice on whether it would be considered wrong to date my older cousins daughter even though I was adopted?
    legally it would be incest unless your state allows uncles and nieces to be together. Adoption makes them your true family even if its not by blood.
    yes because they brought you in as family, raised you as family, loved you like family and family don't dat family.
    your not blood related so there shouldnt be a problem.. but i really wouldnt get involved with family its just weird!
    How does the rest of the family feel about it? If your cousin or most of the family is uncomfortable with it then I would say that it would be wrong to have a relationship with her.
    Go for it. Obama is giving us a new change. That would be a new change. People in California are having same sex marriages. So I don't see why you can't date your cousin or niece. Or who ever you want to.
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  • I am a woman and I need women advice. Would you date a guy who was dumped by your cousin for being weird

    he was suspected of having sex with a sixteen year old when he was twenty five,and he is still working for her father in heating and air. I saw the sixteen year old grab his *** and private part and all he did was smile at her, and he states that he likes me and wants to go out with me, but he doesn't talk and even act like I exist he almost seems weird. Whats your advice would you date him or not?I am a woman and I need women advice. Would you date a guy who was dumped by your cousin for being weird
    well it really is up to you, but from how this sounds i wouldn't.


    i mean really, if she grabbed all over him and he smiled, doesn't that sorta say something right there? its not like he told her not to.


    plus, if your gunna date some one you guys should have a connection, i mean he should talk to you, you know? I am a woman and I need women advice. Would you date a guy who was dumped by your cousin for being weird
    he isnt the right person for u ...beware live makes u go blind ..
    date your cousin
    hun don't do it. he seems like a child molester that needs to be put on how to catch a predator. and you never no what else he could be into. such as rape kidnapping or what ever. what if you broke up wit him and ended up wit some fatal attraction stalker on your hands. sweetie save yourself the trouble now and stay away from him. i hope that i have help you in your quest for an answer. take care of yourself.
    Okay first off that is really weird. Secondly, it sounds to me like he is only using woman to gain him recognition and satisfy his needs at the sacrifice of others. I believe your cousin was on the right track for dumping him. Any man that would say one thing and act another is no man in my eyes. My advice would be NOT to date him.
    NO. You're already a woman and you should know it.


    Whatever you see/hear try to 50%believe in it but if u like him be very EXTRA CAREFUL.





    Try to prove it to yourself if you like. BUT FOR ME A BIG No. :)


    Things you hear may also happen to you.





    How can you say that he likes you where he acts as if you're not around?


    Maybe he's trying to say that:





    I LIKE YOU because:


    - I LIKE TO HAVE *** with you


    - I LIKE TO TOUCH your ******** whatever it is.


    - I SIMPLY LIKE TO fantasize you. or something more sexual than that.





    You know people can be very indirect. Just be more careful. :)


    HEARSAYS can be true most of the time.



    please dont date a petafile
    this guy is a creep stay away from him
    coming from a guy. NO. this guy is not just wierd hes a preditor. dont get yourself involved



    i can see why....
    It probably can't hurt to try it. Just don't get in too deep.
    omg run, run away fast and dont look back!


    hes trouble babe!! lots of trouble!
    The fact that you don't know what to do bothers me. He is crazy and you are crazy for thinking about dating him. My answer is no I would never date and man like that.


    My question to you and the rest of the women of the world...


    Is it that much of a man shortage that we settle for anything?
    25 and 16? CREEP... letting a kid grab his private? And your cousin dumped him... never date a family's ex.... that's messy... and this whole situation is gross... if you care about yourself at all, end all contact with this guy. you may see him on america's most wanted one day.
    talk to him...seriously.
    Me personally wouldn't date my cousin's ex boyfriend because the would be wrong its just like dating your sister's ex boyfriend because your keeping it in the family and by dating him she may get jealous
    no way. you'd be stupid to go out with someone like that. he's not trustworthy. he could sleep with anyone the way he's acting (smiling when someone is groping you??!!!???)
    DO NOT DO iT!


    YOU'LL REGRET iT!


    I CAN TELL CAUSE ALL THAT CRAP ITS FU++D UP
    You don't even sound like you like him, so why are you even considering dating this weirdo?

    In Islamic view, please advice a good date for marriage this october and november 2009?

    In Islamic view, please advice a good date for marriage this october and november 2009In Islamic view, please advice a good date for marriage this october and november 2009?
    what exactly do u man by islamic view? wouldn't any date be fine. i don't think islam says anything about the date u get married. i'm not sure though.

    Sunday, August 22, 2010

    When is it okay to ask dad for dating advice?

    So I want to ask a girl out and im in high school. And who better to ask than dear-old dad? but how does one broach a subject so...awkward?When is it okay to ask dad for dating advice?
    You should always be able to talk to your dad. I have a son that is a high school Freshman. I have made it clear that he can talk to me about anything at anytime. Just be honest with your dad. Tell him you have a date with a girl that you really like and you want to make sure that things go well. He should be happy that you approached him for his advice. Good Luck!When is it okay to ask dad for dating advice?
    I always had questions that I wanted to ask someone, but they were too awkward to find anyone that I could ask. When I got older I started asking my dad a few of them. Sure, it was awkward and he certainly didn't help by making jokes when he got the chance. But he really helped me with some stuff. I say it's never too early to talk to your dad about anything.

    Re-thinking the marriage date... any advice?

    Summer of '09: my senior year of college, his junior year... living in a small apartment, what are some pros and cons to getting married earlier while we're still in college? Is it harder or easier? Do you recommend waiting after graduation? What are some special considerations (i.e. insurance, income, etc.) that I may not have thought of? We're thinking about setting the date earlier. Re-thinking the marriage date... any advice?
    Summer of '09 is less than a year away... you could even wait until the summer of '10 when you've graduated, or beyond. No need to rush - the future will always be there!





    In addition to insurance, your marital status could affect financial aid, housing, and will absolutely change your study habits...





    Being newly married (even not newly married) is a lot of work.


    Since you're so close, I'd suggest waiting until you're out of college.








    Just a couple things to consider. Whichever you decide, congratulations. Re-thinking the marriage date... any advice?
    If either of you are still on parents health insurance policies, that will end the second you're married, since you will no longer be considered a dependent. So, you'll have to provide your own health insurance--something that is rather scary to do if you don't have a job and an employer who provides it as part of your salary compensation. That's definitely something you'll have to look into. You might qualify for student insurance or not, I'm not sure.





    I would wait until you're both out of college, and supporting yourselves 100%. Good luck!
    Hi





    If you're asking the question, then maybe that's a sign?


    Get your education out of the way first, that's my opinion.





    Cya


    :)
    Graduate first! Your education can help you make it being married with a better job!

    Any advice for a blind date?

    I'm going ice skating with my friend and her boyfriend,another couple, and this other boy. My friend thinks that we would be perfect for eachother but I'm really shy at first and want to make a goodfirst impression! What are some good convo starters or questions to ask him? Any other tips? Thanks in advance! Any advice for a blind date?
    Make a conscious decision not to be self conscious! Be yourself. If you two hit it off, he'll want to know the real you anyway.





    Instead of focusing on wearing, doing and saying the right things, focus on him and making him comfortable. He's naturally going to feel a little awkward, so if you relax it'll help you both feel more at ease. You can even address the fact that blind dates are awkward! You two already have that in common.





    Ask him what he does when he's not in school. Does he have any brothers and sisters? Pets? If so, what kind? What's the pet's name? How did you arrive at name? Is he into sports, computers or what? Follow up with... ';Really, what is it that you like so much about that?'; When you ask a question, really listen to his answer. That will prompt other questions if you're genuinely interested in him. Again, that's the key: focus on his comfort, not your own.Any advice for a blind date?
    just be yourself. smile at him. and let things just happen at first.


    then, if nothing happens you can ask him if he likes the song playing or what he likes to do. hopefully after that you will click a little and it will get easier


    but DON'T be awkward, especially since its a couple thing
    Just wing it, be yourself and just treat him like a person not a ';guy.'; That's all you really can do.

    Would you buy a book on dating advice?

    If you were having a hard time dating the right men would you buy a book that helped you understand the right way to date?Would you buy a book on dating advice?
    Nope. Its your own life. You should run your life, the way you want to.Would you buy a book on dating advice?
    no way, keep dating and learn from your own experience, no book can teach that.
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  • Can someone give me middle school dating advice?

    Im in middle school and I guess Im not that pretty but I really like a guy and I think he may like me back but i cant tell...... So how do I tell if he likes me back? Also how do i get him to really notice me and maybe ask me out...... (im in 8th grade if that matters)Can someone give me middle school dating advice?
    Dont do it. I dont want to be mean at all. :) so i swear im just giving you good advice. If you are not really that pretty, dating in eighth grade is not an option. Every guy is really shallow, nice but shallow. He may have been nice to you but dont confuse that as liking you. You may see him flirt with other girls . Its different.Being Nice and Being flirty are different. You gotta recognize it.Can someone give me middle school dating advice?
    straighten your hair NO make up!!!! I'm in the 7th grade and I play soccer and all my guy friends are athletic well most of them but be funny and give yourself some angs guys like girls bangs on her hair some reason and I have long relashonships all the time cause of it!!

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    im in 7th and i would say to just ask him then and there when ever and then if he says no then there r many other fish in the sea





    or option 2 if he says no then say i think of u as a friend but there were rumors saying u liked me





    or if hes taken when his gf kisses or hugs him then say how dare u and walk away lol
    sure. here's some middle school dating advice. are you ready?








    DON'T.





    there will be plenty of time for boys in high school and college. worry about school and your childhood for another year or two.
    idk????? ask him out??


    that might work or try 2 be his friend


    at first then ask him out or something??


    im also in the 8th grade =]]
    You really are too young to date. Work on your self esteem that ';I'm not that pretty'; isn't going to get you very far in life.
    hey i'm in 8th grade too! well anyway, show interest, smile, talk with him :) Good luck

    Court date drug testing need some advice?

    i have a court date coming up on december 4 for shoplifting, i am 18 and it is my first offense.





    do you think they will drug test me on my court date? could they do that?Court date drug testing need some advice?
    they wont at the hearing, but if you are found guilty and placed on probation, you can bet your *** you PO will have you tested weekly....guess what?? its time to get your life on the right track and fly right....try to make a good impression on the judge.Court date drug testing need some advice?
    They probably could make you take a drug test, whether or not they will is a different question.
    They could, but they won't unless they have some reason to believe that your crime had something to do with drugs. If you are given probation, though, you could be drug tested every week.

    I have a date and I need make up advice!?

    I've got a date next week and even though thankfully my skin is clear anyway are there any tips on how I could get it glowing healthily by then?


    Also I have big eyes, should I play them up and how? I need make up advice on how to look natural but nice rather than obviously overdone.I have a date and I need make up advice!?
    If u think u r pretty then u don't need than much makeup. Just use it a bit. The most important thing is the kiss. If u r really good at kiss then u will get him. He will not care about ur face next time.I have a date and I need make up advice!?
    Just be urself, how u always put makeup :) and everything will be fine.. bye
    Want to look natural?





    Don't wear make-up.





    If you have good clear skin, then you really don't need it. Best way to get a healthy glow is good diet, plenty of water (to drink), and some fresh air.





    If you really want to wear make-up then speak to someone in a salon - a lot will depend on your colouring, face shape etc





    But less (or none) is always best.


    .
    scrub ur skin with besan,turmuric,dahi and after it dries take it out wid cold water.And wash ur face with glicyrine and cold water atleast 3 times a day.and very important is if ur date is at day time then wear ligt colours like yelow and if it is at night then wear red .


    and the make up u do depends wid ur dress color.


    and just be HAPPY
    Try a mix of yogurt and honey for your skin. It'll make it real soft, and shiny. If you do it for like three days it gives a real nice flawless, glamourous but natural look. It's the best. For your eyes, dont do much because big eyes are nice so the most would be a lil soft color eyeshadow, depending on your skin shade. It you're light then try baby pink, mediem try soft bronze, dark try a mix of white. and Have fun!
    if your date likes simple kinda girls, don't wear make up... or you can have some on but with very light colors. and with your eyes? you could use an eyeliner to make it look a little smaller.

    What is the best dating advice you can give to someone, that you have learned yourself?

    We took things nice and slowly. It was better not to talk about our past relationships but to move forward one day at a time. He had been married once before and I had never been married so both of us had to learn to trust again. My advice on dating would be:





    Never take each other for granted, don't try to change a person into someone they aren't, talk things through as calmly and rationally as possible, don't rush into intimacy, be supportive of each other, never fight in public, learn to trust and support each other, never be too proud to admit you've made a mistake or to say ';I'm sorry,'; treat the other person with respect, remember to praise the other person, don't give the other person any reason to doubt you, let that person know how much they mean to you, don't be a jealous person, make sure you both agree on what you want before you take any big leaps, and always try to take a united stand in front of parents or children.





    So far, the above things have worked for us. We dated a little over two years before we got married and we're two months shy of celebrating 27 years of marriage. We have raised my husband's two children who are now grown, we have two grandchildren, and we have one son together who is about to turn 17 and is a Jr. in high school. A relationship is what two people put into it and it's hard work. But it's totally worth all the effort if you are meant to be together.What is the best dating advice you can give to someone, that you have learned yourself?
    have an open mind, pay attention, trust, and have faith, no matter what happens or the out come of any situation in a relationship, and stay on the bright side, by that i mean if the person hurts you emotionally or physically, talk about it, or it will scar you emotionally for life. and most importantly, be yourself, because they should like you for you, no matter who you are, what you do, or what you look like. dont go any further than what you are wanting or is comfertable, or it may result in a bad way.What is the best dating advice you can give to someone, that you have learned yourself?
    I think you鈥檒l probably be able to find the answer to your dilemma at Lisa Daily鈥檚 site, http://www.datingexpert.tv (Plus, there鈥檚 a lot of good info there.) She鈥檚 the author of two dating books, HOW TO DATE LIKE A GROWN-UP and STOP GETTING DUMPED. It鈥檚 one of my favorite sites for dating tips and advice, and the videos are pretty funny.





    I鈥檓 pretty sure she answers questions that are sent to her, you might try her for an answer to your question.
    don't ever change yourself for anyone


    you have to be open, not shy


    make it about having fun


    don't go farther than what you're comfortable with


    always share interests with the person (no not just making out!)


    don't be possesive


    think of nice things to do for the person
    just be yourself and never ever let anyone manipulate you or let you think that you are any less than you actually are.





    if you are yourself and you never hold back, then you know that someone likes you for you, and you never have to question...well does he like me because of this thing that really isn't me anyway...





    what i mean by being manipulated...i know its hard to see, especially when you are in a relationship with a really cute guy and your young and infatuated...but if a guy hurts you...hes not worth it.





    if he dumps you and then wants you back...NO.





    Im not saying that any given healthy relationship doesn't have its downs...im just saying that the games are lame and you need ot learn not to fall into them.





    if a guy treats you in a way that you think is not as good as you deserve (we lie for guys at times...oh, he was jsut angry...oh its not that big of a deal...ect)...you need to either end it right there or confront him and say...whats the deal.





    since being with my bf, and after talking to my mom and dad about their marriage and now new relationships...it all came back to...if someone makes you happy and loves you just as much and you make them happy and love them, and are able to work thought the lowest of your lows with a big hug and a kiss at the end of the night...then its worth it.





    when your young most couples are not that mature. young women let boys manipulate them by saying oh i want an open relationship, or im not ready for one. They break up and get back together. trust me...if a guy dumps you and gives you legit reasons, its done, he cant come back and want you again.





    friends with benfits is a bad idea if you have a crush...its not going anywhere...it never will...i promise you.





    and past that...like i said...be yourself.





    ultimately...you know what you want your life to be like, how you want to be treated and how you feel when things happen around you. listen to your gut and the whole heart vs head thing...its just being confused by a guy's manipulation vs. what he has done in the past.





    actions speak louder than words. he can cry and kick and scream and tell you he loves you over and over, but if he has dumped you in the past or treated you wrong in the past..
    Have fun! But just don't put all your expectations on them. If on every date, you expect someone to be this or that, you will always be let down. Each date will be different, and somehow you'll find some1 special. So keep on dating and just have fun!
    Just to be yourself. The person in the first place should just like you for who you are. Maybe your personality as well. Also to just be truthful with that person, if you can't tell that person things, then things won't work out so just be honest.
    dating can hurt


    don't date the guy your best friend likes


    don't date a guy who was you best friend


    never date someone secretly


    don't let your guard down


    be yourself don't pretend you are something other than you are


    smile a lot


    hold hands


    leave cute voice mails


    :)
    Pick someone who actually likes you and gives you attention. Pick someone who wants to be around you, call you and spend time with you. The trick is to find someone that adores you AND that you are attracted to!
    love as if this moments was their last moment on this earth but protect yourself too. You never know when they just up and leave or die.
    God is the only Man that will never leave or forsaken you but men will decieve you everytime.
    BE YOURSELFFFFFFFFFFFFFF!!! =].. dont act something your not. if the person doesnt like the way u are. ohh well ders other fishes out in dha seaa!
    Be honest and communicate.
    You can never change someone!!!!
    Be honest and tell the truth.
    make sure hygiene is good


    dont talk about you ex,dont sleep with them on the first date
    be ready 4 a kiss in any time and in any where 2 have some fun.
    never let your guard down.
    yeah honestly never let your gaurd down..or maybe ive been hurt too many times but either way just dont do it