I need advice 4 a first date... girls advice prefered?

im taking this girl i like to the movies shes the same age as me and i need some help to not seem like a total idiot.I need advice 4 a first date... girls advice prefered?
ok well i would have said dont go to the movies on a first date, its unbelievably awkward since you cant really talk and get to know each other. Something like a bar (if your old enough to drink), a diner, late cafes, restaurant, seafront walk, etc.





that aside, make sure all the obvious things on the list are checked (personal hygiene, clean ironed clothes and a definite is to have nice shoes, believe me).


%26amp; ignore all that sh!t about smelling like a spanish porn star, just a little deodorant and maybe some aftershave will be fine.


since its a first date, your main objective is to find out as much about each other as possible, the easiest way to get someone to talk is to get them to talk about themselves (in a good way obviously, DO NOT talk about Ex's, death, illnesses, religion, or news always turns bad, avoid the word hate too if possible).


so make sure your asking things like what kinds of music (in this case movie) does she like, does she like flowers? whats her favourite kind, whats her motivations, what does she do for a living, how does she want to move on, is she in education, do you have similar hobbies... etc you get the point... also if the opportunity comes up, this is gunna sound so cliche with a 1950's sorta theme, but dancing can reveal SO MUCH!!! if you get the chance try to have a dance maybe a diner with music playing? they do still exist and believe me its a freakin good idea, try to be a good judge of character though if shes shy dont force her to do anything like that lol





Have you got a back up plan? if so try to make it look spontaneous, ie if the movie sucks and you both want to go or say the movie theatre is full your gunna need another thing to do right?





also always make sure you go 'halvies' on the price tag, fair enough its all nice and cute to buy her things and pay for her tickets but you dont want to come across as a push over so always make sure you both pay half each or things bought get returned in kind.





are you meeting her or is she meeting you? - keeping communication before (%26amp; after) the date is massively important. dont get hold of her until shes at least 15 minutes late, or unless your gunna be late.


if she doesn't turn up dont throw the towel in straight away either, sometimes there are insanely bizarre reasons for people not being able to turn up.





After the date, if the occasion comes up NEVER go further than kissing, first dates that go too far never last longer than boredom.





Try not to ask things like ';are you ok?'; ';what are you thinking about?'; ';is everything ok?'; ';do you want to go somewhere else?'; - avoid the nancy boy ';sympathetic and sensitive'; approach. it makes you seem un-confident and even worse a high maintenance nance, if she wants something she'll ask, if you want something %26amp; shes curious she'll probably ask what your doing. nuff said.





if you want some nuggets too: when your talking and are looking at eachother if you feel you want to kiss her, keep glancing at her lips and hold the glance here n there...


Preening, does she keep tidying her clothes or straightening her self? - its a sign shes trying to look good for you, a thumbs up.


Pick lint off her when you see her (real or fake) it just has a strange ice breaking effect? - cant explain just always seems to allow a personal space easer.


EYES, keeping eye contact and not looking like a psychotic rapist can be tricky, the easiest way around this is to actually listen, respond to everything she says the exact way you feel about it, and lone-behold you'll have a natural eye contact with her, if you trail off and start thinking about what you want to do with her *wink*wink* you'll develop the rather unfriendly ';stare'; lol





and most importantly; be yourself %26amp; be confident.





I hope this helps and good luck, and dont worry about coming across as an idiot - people think i suffer from insanity... actually i enjoy every minute of it (=I need advice 4 a first date... girls advice prefered?
be yourself, be friendly, keep conversation going, to make her interested. Try to make her laugh, she will lovve that, ask her for a hug, as you slowly come out, give her a kiss. If she likes it, she will let you insert your tongue, then you go ahead and snog her :)


you may not think the girl would want you to kiss her, but if she likes you she will be gaging to kiss you, and would rather you made the first move, so dont keep her waiting too long.


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Well just be yourself really, If she likes you then she likes you, if not you will know. Don't be any different. Movies is a good first date like. Don't ask about past bf/gf's just think about the now, enjoy the film and make her feel special. ;) Good luck and have fun :) xx
How about you just play it cool, like don't bully her into coming with you. Ask her casually, like ';Hey Jen, wana see a movie with me sometime. I heard that ______ is playing.'; And don't get a friend to do it, or do it with a group of friends around you. GL
Ask her what kind of movies she likes, and find a compromise. Just be yourself, and be sure to open the door for her. Nothing like old fashion manners.
I say be your self and dont force it, allowing her to get to know the real you is best because you want her to like you for who you are, not who you arent... Good luck...
Just be relaxed:) When you see her or whatever tell her how beautiful she looks, if she does, of course. Smile a lot, and be friendly, and ask her what movie she'd like to see.


:)Good luck X
wat kinda advice?
advice for what??