Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I finally have my first Date tomorrow, Advice?

I'm a senior in high school and finally some girl said yes! Were gonna go to this little Mexican restaurant, a really well kept secret in town. Then were going to go see ';Taken';, lol I've already seen it. Any advice? I know the basics, like just being a flatout gentlemen...but anything else?I finally have my first Date tomorrow, Advice?
Be friendly, upbeat and charming (if it comes easiest to you). In my opinion, nothing is better than a really friendly and amusing guy on a first date. It helps take the ';jitters'; away and immediately puts one at ease.





As you mentioned, being a gentleman is also a great thing to do. So few men are ';gentlemanly'; these days, that's its such a nice change!





Have fun and good luck :)I finally have my first Date tomorrow, Advice?
What are you doing here? You're supposed to be picturing how you are going to make this the date of a life time for you and her. How you are going to be a gentleman and make everything and every words as interesting as possible. You know, just make every moment as memorable as possible; Give her a lasting impression where she will want to go out with you over and over again. Try to be unique and stand out from the rest by making her feel as comfortable around you as possible. Choose your words kindly and sweetly, but not sound too fake. Mean what you say and really focus on her, paying attention to every little detail as to what she's saying and make it obvious that she's got your uninvited attention. When the night is over and if she goes home thinking about you and how well the night went then you would have done your job as leaving her with a memorable night. Good luck and just have fun and always remember that the more you can make her laugh along with you, the more you will have left a good impression on her.
Don't panic or pretend to be someone else. If it's their first time they're most likely going through the same feelings you are. Try not to be too into her life but be interested (don't act interested, either you are or you aren't) Rolls makes very valid points too.
Make her laugh. Tell her great stories but listen to her too. Biggest rule is don't come off desperate, take it chill because you know that you ARE the man. and that SHE knows it too. have fun man =)

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