Thursday, August 19, 2010

Goin on a casual group date! advice & help?

alright, its not really considered a date but im going to the mall with my friends and mi one guy friend that im actually really starting to like as more than a friend. i feel a little nervous around him now and i have no idea what to wear or how to act. ugh i need to b calm and collected. but lately ive been a nervous wreck around him and when he hugged me last week at a party, mi heart felt like it was pounding out of mi chest and i got a little red. but of course i blamed it on the heat and he bought it lol. any help or advice?Goin on a casual group date! advice %26amp; help?
just dress normally, act normally, as if he was just a friend. or as if he werent coming at all


because if he is going to like you, he might as well like you for the way you would normally dress and act.


i think you already know that you need to just be calm and collected with him, and just treat him as a friend. i think getting to know a guy well as a friend is the first step to something more.





so just aim to feel completely normal and comfortable when you're around him.





good luck chickadee


:DGoin on a casual group date! advice %26amp; help?
Why would you act unnaturally around him? And you will, when you even think about ';how should I act';. Be yourself, even if you're nervous and your heart is pounding... and before you see him, just sight, pull your shoulders up and let them drop and tell yourself ';Nothing to loose'; and you feel better. That's actually been proved, and it should really calm you down.





Wear nothing too short, nothing to far from the way you normally dress. Just take your favorite pair of shorts (if warm enough) and a tank and you're good to go. Don't worry about it, you should be fine.
Don't worry about it! If the guy your with isn't your type don't use your friends to get away just stick it out! No need to dress up the best you can! BE YOURSELF.

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