Almost typical guy, 30, very successful. Been overweight all life long and never formally dated, or had a relationship. However, I've lost a lot of weight. Was 450 now 300 and will go down to 225. Women seem a lot more interested. Need help figuring this out and what dating really looks like. Don't know much about anything and need advice on dating and sex. Don't want to go out there and look completely stupid.Dating Advice for Guy After Major Weight Loss?
- congratulations on losing the weight!
- anyways, i'm 93 pounds %26amp; my b/f is 295 but he's not fat at all.
- so to the guy who says be under 200 pounds, whatever. shut up.
- anyways, it's not about weight.
- if you work on being toned %26amp; everything, you'll be fine!
- women love muscles. haha.
- just remember girls love being complimented as long as its sincere.
- don't ever think a girl is too out of your league b/c she'll see that.
- tell yourself that you look great every day %26amp; night in the mirror b/c that helps. it's a mind thing.
- you can always use a wing man so ask your guy buddies for help!
- %26amp; you can use thinks like myspace or other chat thingies that are safe to meet people online. you don't have to meet up with them, you can just practice your game %26amp; stuff. lOl.
- dress nice. don't dress sloppy b/c i don't know any lady who loves tall tees on average height men %26amp; jeans down to their knees.
- also, fish for compliments. tell some people that you've lost weight %26amp; they'll tell you that you look great!
- if you want anymore advice, you can email me %26amp; i'll try to help!Dating Advice for Guy After Major Weight Loss?
You're not alone. A lot of people are like you.
Start reading women's magazines to figure out how women think. You'll find advice columns about how women should meet men. Take the advice.
Also, if you haven't gone to a weightwatchers meeting, go. You'll be able to ask advice of the leader in private if you want, and I'll be she will coach you.
Don't feel you have to rush into things. Women are usually pretty nice to men, especially older women (not teenagers). Tell a woman you're shy and not used to dating. She will probably help you out.
Everyone worries about looking stupid: you're not alone on that, either. Relax a little, try to do things you enjoy, and keep your eye out for women who seem nice.
I would suggest that you go buy a book that talks about dating after you have lost Weight because it doesn't take just a few sentenses in my answer to give you an answer you have to patiently go through all the steps and congratulations about the Weight loss. the first thing you can do is google books for example DATING AFTER WEIGHT LOSS BOOK and you will see you wont regreat it and you read this book on the process of reaching your ideal wheight.
Always make sure you get some new clothes to reflect and show off your progress , it will make you feel better, and more confident. When you look good, you feel good. Try a new hairstlyle , maybe and simply just be a nice, caring, respectable gentleman, and you should have no problems finding yourself a nice lady :) A woman always likes a guy who can make her laugh too!!! But dont over do it or cheese it up too much :) Play it cool, it will happen :)
Good for you! It's always hard to get started, but it sounds like you've already gotten over the biggest hump and made the effort. Here is a link to a great site for dating advice. It is: http://www.datingtips247.com My brother-in-law just recently got back into the dating scene and he didn't have a clue. We found this website for him and he loves it! Hope this helps and good luck!
This is not something your weight loss should have initiated. First work on your self esteem and begin accepting yourself for who you are regardless of how much you weigh and only then will you successfully be able to maintain an intimate relationship.
no man can understand women
call them when you're under 200. You'll have a better chance at a decent-looking piece of tail.
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