Thursday, August 19, 2010

Im looking for some first date advice...please help.?

I have been talking via email and phone with a man that I met online for about 2-3 weeks now. We are planning to meet in person this weekend. Any advice on first date things to do? We are both in our late 30s, divorced and starting over.....its been so long since Ive had a first date....any advice would be appreciated. Im very nervous. Even though we have been talking for a couple of weeks and have exchanged pictures it still feels like a blind date.....Im looking for some first date advice...please help.?
My husband and I met this way ten years ago! We met at an Applebees and went to a festival the same day. Make certain you tell a friend what you are doing just to be on the safe side. When I got home from this first date I called and left him a message that I truly had a great time and I hope he did too. My husband said the simple call I made told him I had class and I was someone he wanted to get to know even more.


Know that he's probably just as nervous as you are and the best way to handle this is laughter! Enjoy, and the best of luck to you!Im looking for some first date advice...please help.?
* your just nervous when you get getting divorced and,trying to start over can be an issue to overcome sometimes just learn to get back in the game and, no matter who you end up with you have to always put your heart out on the line* to make it work.....
Don't be, the fact that you haven't met in real life yet may make things a little more akward, but just do everything you usually would on a first date. Smile, be curtious, and ask him about hobbies, interests, etc.





Good Luck :)
Have a drink before you go out. Relax and be yourself. He's probably nervous too. Just think of it as going out with a friend. Don't put too muich pressure on yourself. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. Think of it like a practice run.
Just be yourself. If they have stayed with you all of this time, then they like your personality, so don't change it. Just take something thats funny in the room or that happened that day.. and start a conversation with it. good luck :]
I wouldn't do dinner and a movie. Dinner is good, but do something that keeps the conversation going. Do something that you like to do, that is a good way to tell if you are a fit for each other.
Well dinner is nice to get to know each other.There movies is always great interference if things don't go as planned. Dancing nd drinks to losen you up to have a better time with each other.
be careful. meet at a mall or somewhere with a lot of people.


Past that be nice, you are meeting a new friend, enjoy the company.
Do something fun and non threatening like go bowling or go walk downtown or go shopping or something. Its ok to be nervous just try to put off a positive vibe and show that you like him.
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