Ive been haveing trouble asking girls on a date. Does anyone have any advice that might help me?

i was like you afraid of rejection.but you know what if they say no,who cares.but if you dont ask,you might lose out on something good.so its worth the risk,take it.if they do say no,then all that means is your not right for them and not that your ugly or a bad person.Ive been haveing trouble asking girls on a date. Does anyone have any advice that might help me?
=] alot of guys have issues with this. haha. but i can honestly say that if your shy it will make things alot more awkward. you just have to relax and be yourself. be hapy, smile. let her know that she can be open with you, whether she wants to be with you or not. annd if you are rejected its ohkay to be disappointed but dont try to make the girl feel bad, because then after that it may be awkward for you both. =] good luck!Ive been haveing trouble asking girls on a date. Does anyone have any advice that might help me?
Yes, and I'm a girl, so I should know.


Obviously, you want to play it safe, you are afraid of rejection and so on. So the best thing to do - for you and for the girl in question - is not to ask her on a date. Instead, ask her to go see a movie with you. Or go to this great show that is coming to town for just a couple of nights. Or teach her surfing, or ride your bikes in the woods one afternoon. Basically, you want to invite her to have some fun with you. Have an activity, so that you don't have to sit in awkward silence. Movie is a safe choice, because you just get to sit in the dark and maybe secretly hold hands for a couple of hours, and then you can start talking... about how you liked the movie. If you want to feel like a real gentleman, offer to buy the tickets, but a) that's not obligatory; b) don't pick anything too expensive (like a fancy restaurant) so that your girl doesn't feel like you're trying to ';buy'; her. Try to make it all as casual as possible, because both you and your girl will just be testing the waters, seeing how much you like each other, and there has to be an easy way out in case thing don't seem to work. And don't forget that a good friend-girl is also a treasure, not just a girlfriend, so be open to all possibilities. Good luck!