Saturday, July 31, 2010

Girls: First date advice?

Got a first date coming up and I have it narrowed down to a few events. Tell me what you think, and suggest your own.





Now, we met online, and have talked on the phone. Been flirting. She said she wants it to be ';fun and creative'; to see how ';creative i can be.';





1) Picnic in the park





2) Nightclub/dancing/conversation in the lounge: I choose this b/c we were talking about nightclubs and dancing and ';teaching'; me etc. But is it good for a FIRST date?





3) Bowling





And we are both college students, fyi.





ALSO, should I tell her what I have it narrowed down to? this morning i told her i had it narrowed down to 3 but didn't tell her what exactly. she said ';oh tell me tell me tell me! i hate waiting :)'; and to flirt i said ';maybe it should be a surprise, to keep you on your toes'; and she said ';well it's definitely working';... so what should i do there??Girls: First date advice?
HONESTLY , since u met her on the internet, you should either go bowling or for a picnic in the park





hitting up a club leaves a lot of time for conversation and u don't know her THAT well--plus, the loud music can be annoying %26amp; disorienting





A picnic in the park is EASILY the most romantic %26amp; the best for dates with some one u really like and know. Bowling is a fun event that leaves for less time and situations with awkward silences. plus, its fun to cheer each other on when its time to bowl





and high five/hug after ur date gets a strike or a spare..





If you know the person better, you should have a picnic in the park to get some great convo going %26amp; snuggle up under a blanket =]





plus, u can go for a walk or go rollerblading and maybe even sneak in a kiss after the date by lightly pushing her against a tree..





but overall, go for the bowling! u can talk and bowl and have fun in a cool environment! make smart choices xoxGirls: First date advice?
good, don't tell her. you want to surprise your first date girl. i'd go with the picnic in the park one, though if i were you. you might want to take it slow with your 1st girl. if you take it slow, you get to know more about her. after that you take her to the movies or something simple, and not tooo romantic.
picnic in the park?? this is not 1993...how many people do you really see having a two-person picnic n the park?





Nightclub sounds ok...most ppl go to nightclubs to get a girl...not taking sumwun ther...





bowling...oh yeah...thatz original...NOT





Take her to dinner on a boat...if you have the kind of money for that.





NO...do not tell her...blindfold her until you get to where you are going...that makes the surprise evn better
first of all bowling is thrown out. in the trash. Nightclub/dancing/conversation in the lounge. uhmmm. maybe next time. definately not for your first date. i would go with a picnic. or maybe a restaurant. not to expensive though.
dancing seems fun! if she's like adventurous, and if she's a romantic and what not, then picnic. bowling to me is more like, oh we've been dating for a while, lets have a double date and go bowling....
Go for a pinic on the beach and after the picnic play in the water and walk on the beach. Try finding a beautiful poem and reading it to her. P.S. roses are a very good touch.
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Have a picnic, then maybe go bowling?





And no, the clubbing thing would be to fast for a first date.
Picnic.
PICNIC!
I'm sorry to say but you are going to disappoint her especially if you let her excitement get built up like that. While all three of those are fun, none of them are creative and have been done countless times.





Find out what she is really into and base a date around that. It will score lots of points with her for paying attention to what she wants and likes.If you really want to impress her, do your research.. find out what she likes, find out what's available in your area, and put your own unique spin on it.





If you can't think of anything else, go with the picnic but make it fun and different. Do it at night, bring glow sticks and a light up frisbee and just be silly about it. Don't get too romantic and gushy on the first date.

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