URGENT! First Date Advice Needed!?

Hi All of Yahoos Lovely Question Answerers!





The Situation:


During the summer i worked at a camp and one day decided to go hang out with my friend P. at the movies. My friend brought his friend S. along and it was normal. About three months later S. looks me up and we begin to flirt, heavily. And last night he plucked up the courage to ask me out. :D but i have some reservations that need to be answered (note this is NOT my first date,. just an important first date)





QUESTIONS!


1. What do i wear!?!?!? (haha i seem so typically female). im short 5.2, redhead, freckles, green eyes, paleish skin generally slender.


2. If he picks me up, my mom and dad want to meet him? hes two years older and is in college and im in high school. yikes much? (but he isnt one of those college guys after HS girls)


3. Who pays? simple enough right?


4. were going to the movies? So how do i know when to kiss him and what if, im really awk in social situations, i mess it up?





PLEASE


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THANK YOU!URGENT! First Date Advice Needed!?
Hey, just don't think about all this. When the day you guys settled a date comes, wake up.. take a shower, take care of yourself the way you always do, and then loook in your closet and think ''hmmm..something casual, yet sexy.. but not too sexy..'' Remember, when he checked you out and flirted with you heavily he was flirting with YOU not the clothes you had on. He also asked you out on a date, feel reasured that he won't be judging you on what you're wearing. What you want to do however, is to wear something that shows off what you have- but at the same time, dn't go overboard- you dn't want to look like a slut :D





BE casual-sexy. :)





Does he know he has to meet your parents? Just tell him about it as if it isn't a big deal at all. If he thinks your worth talking to your parents for and respects that he has to meet them first- then that's a good sign.





Who pays? Just see how the daaay gooooes, enjoy yourself!!! Talk to him, joke around, flirt, have fun!! When you get to the movies get your wallet out- if he doesn't say something about him paying for you- just pay for yourself without making a big deal out of it.





About the kiss, do you want to kiss him on the first day? You don't have to. You said you have to? Maybe you'll find you don't really like this guy at the end of the movie. There are no rules to how to go about on a date.. but personally? I'd let him make the first move.. you've flirted with him all night, you've smiled, made him laugh, talked.. just watch his body language.. see how things go. Before you know it you'll be locking a kiss with him..





You won't mess anything up. No one's expecting anything from you. Just be yourself..URGENT! First Date Advice Needed!?
1.Green something Green or Black. It'll make your hair look even better and compliment your big green eyes!


2. Run to the car and tell your parents you have a reservation and you need to be there before they give your spot away.


3.You offer to split it and if he's a real gentle man he'll deny it and pay all of it.


4.Hold hands first and see if he makes a move if he doesn't, don't mess it up. Just hug when it's over and maybe he'll make a move.
1. Wear something that complements your eyes. A nice green shirt with some nice jeans and some cute shoes. (Your only going to the movies.


2. Thats ok, make them meet him so that they have a good peace of mind.


3. Possibly him but you guys could split it.


4. Kiss him when you see that look in his eye. You have been on other dates so you should know what I am talking about.


I hope I helped! Good Luck!
-Wear something sexy, not slutty. There's a difference.


-Tell him to meet you at the movies if you don't want your parents to meet him.


-It's polite for the guy to pay, but if he can't for some reason then you do it. No big deal, I've done that plenty of times.


-Don't kiss him, let him kiss you. Believe me, he'll make it obvious when he wants to kiss you.
ROTFL


wow, you've got some... nice answers.





Black is always good, it looks good on EVERYONE. Wear what you normally wear, because he likes you for you! (:





LEt your parents meet him, they had to do it too once!





You split it even or he pays?





What you do is cuddle up to him then look at him in the eyes, and he will get the hint and lean in to kiss you.
modern society split the bill neither of u work so its ballanced that way





but tbh chill out dont over dress and have a good time get to know him! thats the purpose of a first date its exciting when your young i rember when i was that age but just be confident dont get scared and have a good time and a laugh :)





take a deep breathe smile be happy and have a good night
ok first where a green shirt it will bring out your eyes and he will most likely compliment on them second get your parents to meet him because you don't want a bad relation ship with your parents after all you do have to live with them third the guy pays! he asked you out you will have to get that strait with him fourth let him kiss in other words you just look nice and look into his eyes gently
Green eyes? wear something green. Play up those pretty eyes!





Mom and dad wanna meet him? um....... sure! It's always better to get parent approval. (I'm in high school 2, and my bf is 2 years older than me 2)





The guy ALWAYS pays. If he doesn't, he's not very gentlemanly.





Let HIM kiss YOU! He's gotta have the guts. Not you!
well u sound like sorta linsay lohan in her earlier days so i would look at a couple of things that were attractive on her.





well jsut tell him to behave himsel and i ur a senior thats no big i ur a junior then u should be a lil worried um just tell him to show the best o himself





both!!!! unless he insist over voiced girls are unatractive





well when he walk u hiome unless he tries other than that
u pay half and half!!


that way he wil think ur cool!!


tellur parents his age and explaine u have known him for a wile!!


and u wil know when to kiss him!!it wil be obvious!!dont do anytinh u dont wanna!!but if u wanna then enjoy!!





hope u have a good night!!





o...what to wear....casual wear!!its only the movies!!
first of all


have confiedence :)


wear a tshirt and jeans or a cute flirty dress


something that seems like you


just let your rents meet him itll be fine :)


and he will most likely pay, but bring $$ just in case





just go with the flow itss all good


hope you have fun ;)!
half way during the movie if your boy friend yawns and stretches hjs arms and puts his arms around you then that should tell you that he wants to kiss... If he doesnt do that then you should half way through the movie. works for me all the time.
1. A cute skirt or jeans with a nice top.


2. If it gets serious, they'll have to meet him sometime. Why not now?


3. Go dutch.


4. Don't push it, make sure it feels natural.


Hope this helps!
If he doesn't 'get any' on the first date - don't expect there to be a second date................college guys are like that.
Die gehen wir wohnt um die ecke. Du kommen aus wo kann sie schauberger. Der bild ist habe fernsehen.
Don't screw him, or he'll think you're a slut.
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JUsT bE YoU!!!!!
your friends have wierd names
If you are going out to the movies then dress casually. Pick out your favorite top with your favorite jeans. Whatever outfit that you really feel comfortable and pretty in! What top do you have that brings out your green eyes? That's a good place to start.


If you are petite then wear something tailored (not baggy.) But don't be skanky and wear something tight and revealing.


If your parents want to meet him then of course- let them meet him. It's always so much easier to have things out in the open right from the beginning. Now- there could be a problem if you are a minor and he is not. Two years isn't a big deal though and as long as he doesn't act strangely your parents are probably not going be upset. They know you are excited. : ) I know you don't want to hear this but sometimes parents can get a pretty good read on people. : )


Who pays- did he ask you out? If he did then he should pay. Bring some extra money along just in case though! I'm sure that if he asked you out he would have thought in advance of getting the funds together to take you out. : )


Kissing? Um-- is there an unwritten rule that says a girl needs to kiss a guy that asks her out?? Please don't initiate a kiss, let him do that. If he really wants to - then don't worry- he will! That takes the burden off you- it's always easier to reciprocate than initiate! Then afterward you won't be left wondering if he really wanted to kiss and if so, was it the right time, or did I do it like he wanted me to. : )


Good luck and have fun!
1. Don't wear anything too suggestive. Keep in mind that what you were wearing at the time you met was attractive to him, so don't tone it down from there, but keep the level of modesty and fashion that's appropriate for the weather. Wear fragrance and makeup in moderation. High school girls are terribly prone to overdoing that stuff and guys don't care for it.





2. I would definitely want to meet the guy if I was your Mother of Father. It doesn't have to take long and if he's good enough for you, why would you feel funny about it.





3. I would hope that he'd pay, but bring enough money with you to pay for yourself and at least make an effort to do so if it looks like he didn't plan on it. Maybe you could let him buy the tickets and you can offer to buy the popcorn to see how that goes.





4. Let him take the lead in the kissing. Relax and enjoy the ride, but picture yourself telling him to stop, too. You have the control there. You have the right to stop him if things go farther than you would like.





Good luck!
Well, you sound like a pretty level headed girl, so you can just keep it level! You should wear something that you like to wear, something that you feel good in, maybe a nice pair of jeans and a nice sweater or top and some nice high heels to make you a little taller if you want. Then, as far as meeting your folks, if he isn't the kind of guy looking for HS girls, then he won't mind meeting them or at least he shouldn't mind! If he does, there are issues there. And I would think the person who asked would be the one to pay...it wasn't considered a mutual activity, he asked you out with a pick up time. If you feel right about this guy and would like to see him again, then when the end of the date comes, he'll let you know if he wants to kiss you or not. His body language will be telling you that immediately. If you want to kiss him then do, if not give him a big hug and tell him how much you enjoyed the time with him.
1. Wear something sexy, but not skanky. You want to show skin, but not too much.


2. If you have good parents, they'll want to meet this guy eventually, so no need to prolong it, let them meet him right away. Plenty of high school girls date college guys now-a-days, it's pretty much the norm. As long as he's a good guy, everything should be solid.


3. If I were taking you out, I'd pay. It'd also be ok if you both split the bill. It all depends on the guy, so it wouldn't hurt to ask him.


4. Kiss him when the time feels right, no need to rush/force it.





Hope that helps.
for a first date just go somewhere fun or simple. like the movies or something. DON';T have sex with him. im sure your not that dumb tho. um.... just wear a nice t shirt and jeans or somehting like that.


age doesnt matter. dont sweat it. especially 2 years. i mean thats no big deal AT ALL. they might want to meet him. and if they dont, dont have them meet him. no big deal.


the guy ussually pays, but just in case, bring your own money.


kiss him in the car when he dropps you off at home. lol


or whenever you think is right, lol. your in highschool. so if you do somehting dumb, he might think its cute, i know alot of guys do.
1) nothing dark colored and not red! try something green or aqua and gold accents. as for style, don't look like you're trying too hard, wear something that makes you feel comfy. you'll be a lot less nervous if you feel confident in how you look.





2) my parents didn't have a big issue on age, if your parents do... well then talk about how he is before he picks you up and not on his age. they'll feel better about his age if they know what he's like.





3) HE pays unless he is a pig. you can bring extra cash just in case, but if he doesn't i wouldn't give him a second date.





4) first date kisses are a lot less awkward than that really. i would set back and make him give the first move, that way you don't seem too eager. i think you'll be just fine as long as you are yourself and confident. i mean he asked you in the first place so clearly you've got it going on.
Here's what not to do:





1. What do i wear!?!?!? (haha i seem so typically female). im short 5.2, redhead, freckles, green eyes, paleish skin generally slender.





Wear a polyester mini skirt from the 60s.





2. If he picks me up, my mom and dad want to meet him? hes two years older and is in college and im in high school. yikes much? (but he isnt one of those college guys after HS girls)





Tell his mom %26amp; dad that you like college guys because they know more about pleasing a girl.





3. Who pays? simple enough right?





Bolt from the restaurant without paying and sneak into the movies.





4. were going to the movies? So how do i know when to kiss him and what if, im really awk in social situations, i mess it up?





Make sure to get kicked out of the movies by the usher for making out in the back of the theatre.





If you do the opposite of the above, I think you'll do just fine.