Saturday, July 31, 2010

1st date advice?

Ok, I am going to my 1st date with a girl I really like. We are going to see a comedy/family movie at a huge theater. Is there any advice, suchas when to do the ';arm around'; (where I like yawn then move my arm behind her back), or when, where, and which date should I give the kiss. I was thinking like, 1st date, walk her up to her door then say that was fun we should do this again, then 2nd date I give her a little soft kiss on the cheek, then a couple dates later we kiss on the lips. Oh and how can I get the courage to sit there and kiss a girl on the lips or cheeks, i mean, this is my first date? PLEASE HELP!!!1st date advice?
go straight come straight do nothing that she run up forever1st date advice?
Practice kissing the back of your hand... for practice...
Just be warm and friendly , don't put pressure on her, and enjoy the night out. Being that it's the first date, a peck on the cheek or lips is fine. A girl will be impressed that you didn't try to maul her, the first time out. Maybe even intrigued enough to see you again. Have a great date. Peace.
if she sleeps with you she is a hoe
lol your looking way into the future man. Take one date at a time, make sure you have mints.





2nd just hold her hand dont scare this girl the first time, unless yall have a great connection just take it easy. Your not gonna impress this girl by putting your arms around her, take a JACKET it gets cold in those theaters offer it to her and put in around her shoulders you might get a kiss. Tell her when you see her than she looks beautiful.





3rd. dont rush


4 wait till about the 3rd date to try and make the move girls some at least ones i know respect when you take your time, unless shes easy if shes easy tell her to wear a mini skirt, lol jk





anyways i wish you the best of luck





USE THE JACKET
Don't plan any of these things out (especially kissing!!!!!). Let them happen naturally.
Choosing something to do on a first date can be very difficult. You and your date do not know each other and this means that you do not know what they do and do not like doing. Ask your date what they would like to do, but if they do not have any suggestion be decisive and make a suggestion, like your favourite restaurant. Make sure they understand what type of place it is and make sure it is ok with them. If not, be flexible and maybe suggest somewhere else or ask them where they would like to go.
When the first date is over, after walking my date to the door, I almost always give her a kiss on the cheek . 9 times out of 10 (unless the date just goes horribly wrong), you can expect a hug. During the hug...I just do it. It's nothing more than a peck, really. It's not long enough or placed in such a way to make her feel uncomfortable. Plus, it lets her know that I like her. However, if you find yourself too nervous to do that...then don't. Just go at your own pace.





Unfortunately, there's no magic formula that will give you the courage to kiss her. When the time is right, you just have to ';man up'; and go for it (hopefully she also thought it was the right time).





NOTE: Don't try to do the ';yawning, arm stretch thing';, that's just lame. In fact, except for the hug at the end, don't worry about the intentional touching (i.e. holding hands, ';arm around';, hand on her knee, and such) until later on down the road.
Movies are a good first date, as long as you have some time afterward to hang out then you have something to talk about and don't have to worry about breaking the ice.





If you do have the ability to have this conversation afterward, eventually the conversation will drift away from the movie and hopefully into deeper things. At this point, it would be best to move in closer to her as long as you feel she is comfortable. When there is a lull in the conversation, and you feel that the both of you have connected on another level, then move in closer, wait for a reaction, if she doesn't draw back then go and intiate the kiss and hope for the best.





Other people will tell you that its bad to kiss on the first date and what not, but it's really up to you and her.





Also, you can look around for ';clues'; of sorts whether she wants you to kiss her. She'll play with her hair, or look at your eyes, then your lips and back to your eyes. Stuff like that.





As for second dates, I would suggest just spending time with you and her alone away from the public eye.





Best of luck!
You shouldn't kiss her just yet. If she like you, then that's even better not to kiss her. Keep her waiting until your next date together. It'll keep anticipation in the relationship. The arm around the shoulder in the theater is probably an ok move for the first date. It could be a little forward, but you could try it. Tell us how it goes. That's my opinion.
you really shouldnt follow all these relationships rules. these when and when to not do things. because honestly and truthfully..theres no right way or wrong way to doing any of these things. i would say that you should wait until the next couple of dates or until you and her are real cool friends to get all up close and personal and start to kiss her and everything, alot of people really dont like that if they are not that comfortable with you, you dont want to scare her away with your fast moves, you just have to wait and see when you both are comfortable and when the time feels right is when you do things, theres no list or timelimit or dates when you have to do something thats when you will mess things all up trust me. so take your time, dont rush, do it when it feels right, and dont do that arm around thing when you yawn, thats lame, just be yourself like i said. good luck!
After you put your arm around her, pull her in close for a grope and slip her some tongue. On the second date, offer to eat her out while you touch yourself in all your dirty, dirty places.
aw, how cute! well, relax, smell good, but not too good, she might choke from you wearing too much cologne, BE YOURSELF, that's the most important, doing the little gentleman things, such as opening the door for her, making a lot of eye contact and smiling always work. Yes, the first date, you walk her to her door, and you follow her lead...sort of feel out what she looks like she's about to do...NO kissing though. yes, letting her know you enjoyed the night, is good, you're on the right track, you just need to keep everything rolling smooth and natural, be sure to have some back up questions in your head, in case of awkward silences...conversation and chemistry make or break a date...good luck ohhh and ALWAYS offer her popcorn and drink, and if she says she's fine, get popcorn and a drink ANYWAY. TRUST ME, girls are sometimes shy to say they want some, espcially on first dates. you can share some popcorn with her, when yall are settled in (good way of getting kinda close) and you can rest the arm thats closest to her on the arm rest and work your way to her hand, if it's natural, if you have to leap out of your seat to grab it, don't bother, girls who want you to hold their hand, will make their hands very easy to grab, well not grab, hold...good luck
ask her pallidly if you my kiss her, if yes , don't get all sloppy on her, she will let you no how far (SHE) wont's to go.

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