Saturday, July 31, 2010

HELP: First Date Advice....?

I'm a freshmen in College and this girl from my dormitory and I are going on our first date Tuesday evening to Dinner and a Movie. We met 2 weeks ago and we hung out over the past week in the dorm. One night we ate dinner and then proceded to have a 4 1/2 hour conversation about everything getting to know one another. After walking her to her door and giving a good night hug, we arranged to eat dinner again the following evening. After dinner, I walked her to her car, because she was heading back home (150miles) away for the weekend. At her car I gave her a kiss on the forehead. After she returned from home a few days later her and I conversed in my room and I asked her out to dinner and a movie and she said yes. I haven't dated in a long time due to the fact I was in a very serious relationship not too long ago. I want to impress her and make this date one that she will never forget (in a good way). I also would love to make it a good step in the direction of starting a fresh new relationship.





Any advice such as something I can give her before dinner (IE flowers, chocolate, etc)....or anything of that sort would be very greatful.





Thanks!HELP: First Date Advice....?
For one: That sentence about you not dating for a long time because you just had a relationship doesn't make any sense.





Two: I would recommend that you go easy on gifts if your only on the first date. If you really think you've hit it off with her, try to bring something small, but thoughtful. If you talked for 4.5 hours you should have some idea of what her interests are, go for something that would be unique to her. Flowers and chocolate are nice and all but extremely generic, giving something more unique to her would mean much more, even if it's just doing something she wants to do. Don't worry too much about presents, they aren't what a good relationship is about. If she likes you as much as you seem to like her, she'll be glad just to spend some time together.HELP: First Date Advice....?
We ALWAYS like flowers. Not roses though (on first date anyway) just a pretty bouquet of fresh flowers. Good luck!
flowers are a nice touch but be sure to get the right kind of flower and a box of chocolate is good to for a first date
You're not hopeless kenny, but your definitely a wuss.





Don't go out on this date, instead when you pick her up tell her there a change of plans, put on some walking shoes.





She will be so relieved that your not taking her to dinner and a movie i promise you it will go in a better direction.





Then find something you're interested in and have her come with.





I promise if you take her on this dinner and a move, wearing suits and bringing flower and chocolates you will end the night with a hug and she probably wont see you again.





If i wanted to take a girl out right now, I would probably go to this nearby town i havent been to, and just spent times loitering in the shops and such.





Don't disappoint her, be spontaneous.
Well it seems that she's equally interested. I'm a freshman in college, too, and if you're going to give her flowers, you can be witty and bring a vase of water with it. If her dorm is like mine, she probably doesn't have a place to put fresh flowers. I think it'd be clever.





Chocolate's always good, but you should save that for Valentine's Day. That includes teddy bears...





To make the night special, just stick with the little things that most college guys don't do. Open the car door for her. Pull out her chair. If you know what kind of music she likes, burn a CD and, don't necessarily give her the CD, but play the CD when you two are chilling out in your room. It'll show her that you took the time to know her better. You don't need a huge romantic gesture. This early in the game, it's the little things that add up.





That's my advice. You can take it or leave it. It's up to you.

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