Thursday, July 29, 2010

This guy asked me on a date...advice!!!!?

This guy asked me out on a date...he is really good looking and i like him alot. We are going to hang out just us....what should i talk about with him??? What if there ends up being quiet and there is nothing to do?!?


^^^advice=]This guy asked me on a date...advice!!!!?
Heya


You should be SO EXCITED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Okay, lets think here.


A date.





First of all, what are you doing on your date?


Cinema? Skating? Walking? Meal out? Or just general chilling?


For each of these categories you could ask a number of questions about what your doing. Questions are great, they lead into a stream of topics to talk about.





Secondly, what are your hobbies?


It sounds like you're pretty new with each other. This is great! There's so much you can learn about each other, and that's the great thing about meeting someone new.


What are your hobbies? When do you do them? How long have you been doing them? Sports? Activities? Clubs? Why did you choose them?





Also, general questions?


When you first meet, and if the moment arises, ask general questions about them or their day.


How was your day? Been up to much this week? Do you have much (school) work to do over the weekend?





Not to mention interests and entertainment questions.


It's always great to find out what you have in common. For example; What music do you like? What's your favourite film?


If these questions are getting old, jazz them up a bit:


If you could watch one film/read one book for the rest of your life, what would it be and why? Can you sing all the lyrics to one album? Who was your childhood hero? If you could shoot one celebrity in the face, who would it be?


If you share things in common, GREAT! You'll be enthusiastic about it and this will lead into great discussions. If you find all your answers are different, don't worry. If you continue to spend time with this person, you may find yourself feeding off each other's different interests and find new ones for yourself thanks to them!





Finally, the goodbye.


When you get round to saying goodbye, try stopping with the questions. If you've had a nice day, just say it: I've had a great day today. They should then say what they thought of the day.


Don't forget to say Thank You and Goodbye however feels necessary ;)





Don't worry about silences. Everyone has silences. If it feels awkward, fill it in as naturally and quickly as possible. If it feels okay to be in silence and you don't feel the need to say anything, just look into their eyes or hold their hand or something. Sometimes, actions speak louder than words.





Remember, have a GREAT time.


Enjoy your date!


:)This guy asked me on a date...advice!!!!?
Dont worry about it is my first advice- by the sounds of it you know each other already so your bound to have things in common. You can always ask questiosn just to get to know him better, flirt alot and laugh becuase then it would make it easier for u 2. You can ask about his home life, what he doe job or in his free time- you can ask what he really thinks of your friends. MAybe mention things your interested in n see if he is. good luck :)
i was in a similar situation...





on our first date, things got a bit awkward and quiet.





i slyly dropped my phone underneath the table,


undid his pants, and proceded to suck him off right there and then. in the middle of mcdonalds.








he seemed pretty pleased with how our first date went, give it a go?
this can always be a problem but dont worry :)


it wont be as bad once you get there, you'll just have conversations,


if things get arkward, ask him questions about *him*, he will probably like this as it shows you are interested about him ;) or come out with something completly random.. ';omg the other day bla bla..';


goood luck x
talk about things you like and think are important for your guy to have, etc





just chill.


dont over think anything.
If there is chemistry between you you will not run out of things to say.
ask him what is going on in his family just regular stuff

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