Saturday, July 31, 2010

PROM!! Prom date advice needed!!! ASAP!?

so ive known this boy since last year (sophomore year) and we tried ';talking'; then and it didnt work out.... but recently we started to talk again but just as friends.. our prom is coming up and he asked me to it and i felt pressured into saying yes.. now im going to prom with him and hes already bought the tickets and since ive said yes to him on going to prom.. he calls me everyday at least twice an hr and he just told me that he likes me but i acted like i didnt hear that part mainly because i dont feel the same and i dont know what to do because i dont want prom to be awkward and i dont want to be more than friends... ever.. so any advice??PROM!! Prom date advice needed!!! ASAP!?
:( poor guy, he seems nice, you should give him a chance





he even bought you tickets and he is calling you (which a lot of guys wont do) and he said he liked you, at least give him a shot, next time you shouldn't say yes, it makes it seem like u r using him just to go to promPROM!! Prom date advice needed!!! ASAP!?
The longer you wait to tell him the more it will hurt him in the end. Tell him before prom that you don't want to be more than friends at that you didn't mean to lead him on. But don't be suprised if he gets angry or doesn't want to be friends because his pride will probably be hurt. I know you dont want to hurt him but sometimes you just cant avoid it. Hopefully he will come around.
Well since you accepted to go, I think its only fair that you go. You should however tell him up front that you only want to be on a frienship basis, and leave it at that. You should never be pressured to do anything, so next time just say Ill have to let you know, otherwise stick to your decision. Be honest, its still the best policy.
Just make your bounds clear, tell him how things are...softly, totaly wait til after prom, like 3 of my girl friends are waiting til after prom to dump their guys, arent dances just the greatest?? lol goodluck tho, i had the same problem, with a creepy guy....eugh
uhh just go with it. whatever you do, just don't do something your gonna regret. just dont make it awkward, if he tries to kiss you just move back and tell him how you feel
well maybe u should break it down to him and then set him up with someone else andd








get a prom date of your own





that sounds horrible but itd hurt him more leading him on

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