Prom date advice! help!?

so i asked this guy i know outside of school to my school's prom, i don't know him that well, but i like him and we're friends. he said sure, but he said he had to check his plans first.





he called back and said he cant go b/c he has to help move out his sister from college, but i kind of think that if he really wanted to go, he could. but he's definitely not lying since i heard him talking to his mom in the background.





I want to convince him to come, but i dont want to sound too desperate or anything b/c theyre moving her out in 2 weekends and plus his parents can help her. its only one night.





what should i do?? b/c he should be able to go, should i call him and try to convince him to come? should i suggest that he can bring a friend with him too, so its not awkward??Prom date advice! help!?
Well.. maybe he really can't go.. if his sister is going to college out of state then he would have to catch a plane to get there w/ his parents.. so don't jump to conclusionsProm date advice! help!?
You're just going to annoy him if you keep asking.





If you're that desparate for a date, hire someone.





Otherwise, just find a group of friends to go with, or ask someone else.
i thought people only move during the day...mostly anyways. i don't think he wants to go with you. move on and find another fish. plenty out there. don't ask again, i think it will sound like you're begging. have fun at prom...
well, mabes he doesnt want to go? i think you can ask him again if you want, but don't be fully dependant on him coming coz if he doesn't you don't want to turn up by your self! so keep your options open :)
if he cant go then i wouldnt suggest asking him more then a couple of times (like 3). He could get irritated and just get mad at you for not understanding.
if hes got plans already then dont push it....but after prom or w.e u might wanna start hangout w/him and try to get something going between u 2
I don't think you should call him.


If he said he can't go chances are he's telling the truth.
no so srry that he cant but find some one else
ask him if he really has to