Thursday, August 19, 2010

Anxiety after a first date, advice???

So I happened to meet this guy online, yes I know, scary, blah blah. Anyway, he turned out to be a total sweetie and the date was really fun, lasted quite a while too. He seemed to enjoy himself and I was having a good time too. He drove me home and of course, this is where all the action happens. We talked for a bit and then he told me that he would like to kiss me (he dropped hints about this before, online), I gave him permission and let him pick whether he wanted cheek or lips and he went for the lips, which I guess I was subonsciously only half expecting. The kiss ... didn't work out as I would have liked it to, it was my first one ever, but he didn't know that (he's under the impression I've been in a relationship before). So NOW I'm stressing out over whether its possible that he will lose interest just because the kiss was lousy ... I'm not inherently bad at kissing, just never done it before. Help, advice, anything you can tell me? I'm freaking out big timeAnxiety after a first date, advice???
There are worse things in life than having a bad kiss, lol.





I can't imagine someone saying anything like ';Man, I had a great time with this girl, we had a blast, but she kisses horribly and I don't want to go out with her again.'; If he liked hanging out with you, he'll want to go back out with you again. Then again, if he really did only care about the kiss... well, do you really want to go out with someone who only cares about how his date kisses?





Next time you talk to him, just see if you can have a normal conversation with him: if so, you can even say something like 'Yeah, I'm sorry if our kiss last time wasn't that great,' if you're feeling brave enough. Who knows? Maybe he thought it was great.





Try not to stress so much about it, it's not like a kiss is the dealbreaker in a date or anything, just an added bonus.Anxiety after a first date, advice???
Im sure its not as bad as you think hun!!! If he says anything just tell him you were a bit nervous.


xx
What makes you think it was lousy for him?





I bet he loved every second





He will know your a beginner





And be back for more








(lots of kissing tips on youtube)





Don't worry about it, it's not the technique, it's the passion that counts





Think how much fun you are going to have practicing with him next time?








xxx





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