im going on a date at the movies this friday.I just met this guy,but he asked me over the phone ';what we are going to do';.I said anything he wants to do.I made a mistake!
then he asked if we sat in the way back,and he pulled out his d**k, would i suck it!
I laughed because i didnt know how to react,but then i said maybe i dont know.And i told him that im not a hoe,and i dont do really do that on the first date.he apologized.
does he think that Im still going to do it.Cause now im pretty scared.thats just nasty doing it in public
does he sound like he just wants to get in my pants?GUYS I Need date advice?-disturbing question?
DO NOT DO IT
go, but if he does anything perverted, get out of there. that's just nasty, im sorry you have to be in that situation.GUYS I Need date advice?-disturbing question?
ok you haven't even been on a date yet and hes asking you what you plan on doing and if you will suck his dick?? yea that would be a no thank you on the date. Why waste your time, he is obviously just trying to get something.
Also you're a push over? How about having a little bit of self respect and not allowing others to make you do anything you do not want to do. Take a stand.
If you like the guy and want to give him the benefit of the doubt (which i dont think you should) but whatever if you want. Make it very clear that your intention is just to watch the movie and get to know him NOTHING else is going to happen and if he expects it to then we might as well forget the date.
yeah it does..If you don't feel comfortable enough to be alone with him because you think he might try something don't go. Its better not to put yourself in a bad situation. It's hard these days to find a good honest guy who isn't just looking for that.
you must be kidding... surely you see what this date is about for him. You should have just hung up on him right there and then. If he cant be anymore respectful than that on the phone, then why would you even consider going out in public with him?
You say that your kind of a push over for the guys? You need to understand that being a push over is only going to attract that same type of guy you are currently attracting, one who wants to use you.
My suggestion, if you go on this date you need to act respectable. Having the respect of the person you are with is crucial to making any relationship work past the physical level. If you find that the relationship doesn't work on a mental level, you'll be really glad that you didn't take that physical level step with a guy you really don't like very much anyway
yeah sorry but he sounds like he wants to have sex only.. and then just make an excuse to ditch him.. since u dont have a back bone
Wow. Yes, he clearly just wants to get in your pants. Please ditch this guy.
get extra buttery popcorn and cut a hole in the bottom. have his stick his shlong in, act like your getting popcorn...
You poor thing... seriously, this is a hard place to be. First, ask yourself how you would feel after you gave into what this guy has asked? Do you respect yourself enough (I am sure you do) to just say no? There are a billion guys out there that are not going to subject you to this sort of a situation, nor should they.
All I am getting at is to love yourself and to ask yourself how you would feel, after the fact. You will find the answer.
Good Luck
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