okay so i dated this guy named kyle a few months ago. i mean we dated off and on for about a year..and i really loved him. we were good for each other but just eventually broke up for a stupid reason. while we were broken up, this other guy and me started talking and he is really sweet and funny and cute and perfect, christian and everything. but i decided to end it with this guy because i still had feelings for kyle. well kyle wouldnt really pay me attention so i decided to get to know this other guy better..(he didnt go to my school like kyle does.) and this guy and i did like each other but we never really started 'talking' and we never saw each other..well he got a girlfriend..yeh it sucks but now kyle is paying attention to me but now i kinda want to talk to the other guy. idk what to do. help..i mean i dont want to ';wait'; for this guy but yet he kinda messes around with me (somewhat flirts) like we used to. idk.I need date advice?
I know all too well what you mean. My advice to you is follow your heart, no matter where it takes you. Whether you fall for kyle again, or the other guy decides he wants you back in his life. Be true to your heart and let it guide you. Trust it and do what feels right, for you! Hope this helps and Good Luck!I need date advice?
You sound confused. Haven't we all been in this situation.
It sounds like maybe you should forget about this ';other guy,'; since he doesn't go to your school and you don't get to see him much anyway. Besides, if he has a girlfriend, you should respect that and let them be.
Kyle sounds a little strange. Before you try anything with him, you should probably see what his intentions are. Try to figure out why he's suddenly paying attention to you again, and make sure it's for a good reason.
For now, I think you should just lay back, take a hot bath, and enjoy being single. Tomorrow, you can get out there and try to make some new guys want you. That's always the best part about being single. :]]
Saturday, July 31, 2010
LGBT: First date advice...?
I am going on a first date with someone I met online. We have been chatting and texting, but this will be the first time we actually met in person.
I am a little stressed about what to do on a first date since I haven't really had that many (ex boyfriends I normally met through friends and spent time together before our actual first date so the stress level was decreased). I need to find something to do that will limit the amount of time we are forced to talk (like long walks/drives and dinner dates) and I would like to avoid cliches like dinner and a movie.
Keep in mind I live in Houston and the temp hits over 100 during the day - being sweaty on a first date is not cute. I am thinking an inside activity would be perfect but now I am stuck trying to think of something fun. bowling and pool are both good options and it doesn't really matter if you are good.
What are some other ideas i could consider (keep in mind he is under 21, so clubs and bars are not an option)LGBT: First date advice...?
The cinema might be a good bet... going to see a movie means you don't have to talk the entire time if you're worried about the conversation drying up.LGBT: First date advice...?
How about board games like chess? Don't want to talk much? ';Shut up I'm trying to concentrate.';
I am a little stressed about what to do on a first date since I haven't really had that many (ex boyfriends I normally met through friends and spent time together before our actual first date so the stress level was decreased). I need to find something to do that will limit the amount of time we are forced to talk (like long walks/drives and dinner dates) and I would like to avoid cliches like dinner and a movie.
Keep in mind I live in Houston and the temp hits over 100 during the day - being sweaty on a first date is not cute. I am thinking an inside activity would be perfect but now I am stuck trying to think of something fun. bowling and pool are both good options and it doesn't really matter if you are good.
What are some other ideas i could consider (keep in mind he is under 21, so clubs and bars are not an option)LGBT: First date advice...?
The cinema might be a good bet... going to see a movie means you don't have to talk the entire time if you're worried about the conversation drying up.LGBT: First date advice...?
How about board games like chess? Don't want to talk much? ';Shut up I'm trying to concentrate.';
Missed court date advice please?
I have been renting this house for around 3 years WITHOUT a lease from my landlord. He also has no permit to rent this house to me. Last month he told me I need to move by the end of August. After he gave me notice to move, the town marshall came to the house and recorded/reported that the landlord has to take care of many repairs in the house, such as mold (which my 3 yr old son has extreme allergies to), no fire alarms, and other repairs. Up to this time the only repair that he has done has been installing fire alarms.
He asked me for my rent, and i told him ';I will not pay you any more cash unless the repairs are done and receipts are given';. He refused to give me receipts.. Therefore, My last payment to him was last month ( July 2009).
I got in my mailbox, Today August 20 2009, a certified rpaper to go to the post office to pick up a letter. When I got the etter and open it, it was a letter from Paralegal Typing center (for Notice of Pettion, non payment proceeding) The Prolem is...Today is August 20, 2009, and I JUST recieved this mail telling me that my court date is August 18, 2009, which passed this past Tuesday.
I called the court and they told me i may need to file a ';just cause to show reason';
My main questions are:
Is this a LEGAL document from the court?
What can I do about thsi missed court date?
Doesd the fact that I didnt even recieve the notification to go to court tuntil two days later help my situation?
Overall, what should I do?
Any advice or information is greatly appriciated.
Please only serious responses, thank you.Missed court date advice please?
My disclaimer: I am not an attorney. I have worked for the court system for several years.
A Petition is a document filed and created by the Petitioner--whoever is filing a case against you. Therefore, it is not from the Court itself, but you are still required to respond to it. Basically, there is a court case against you, and this certified letter is the Petitioner's proof you know about it.
Do you have proof of when the letter arrived? You could file a document entitled ';Answer'; in which you state when you received the letter and whether you deny or affirm the allegations against you. (You are the Respondent in this case.)
Whether or not missing your court date will affect your case is up to the judge, but filing something as soon as possible is your best bet.
The ';Just cause to show reason'; thing the court was talking about is probably for you to show ';cause';--explain why you did not appear in court. Not having received the notice is probably a pretty good one.
Good luck...Missed court date advice please?
Tell your landlord ';PLEASE take me to court!';
Then get a list the sheriff made of the repairs that needs to be done and tell him when they find out he was renting the house in the condition it was in and you were not aware it was illegal, it is not going to look too good for him';.In the mean time move back home until you get on your feet.
I would go down to the courthouse and talk to them. I don't think there will be a problem. Just be civil to them and do not yell and lose your temper. All will be well.
Find someplace else to live.
He asked me for my rent, and i told him ';I will not pay you any more cash unless the repairs are done and receipts are given';. He refused to give me receipts.. Therefore, My last payment to him was last month ( July 2009).
I got in my mailbox, Today August 20 2009, a certified rpaper to go to the post office to pick up a letter. When I got the etter and open it, it was a letter from Paralegal Typing center (for Notice of Pettion, non payment proceeding) The Prolem is...Today is August 20, 2009, and I JUST recieved this mail telling me that my court date is August 18, 2009, which passed this past Tuesday.
I called the court and they told me i may need to file a ';just cause to show reason';
My main questions are:
Is this a LEGAL document from the court?
What can I do about thsi missed court date?
Doesd the fact that I didnt even recieve the notification to go to court tuntil two days later help my situation?
Overall, what should I do?
Any advice or information is greatly appriciated.
Please only serious responses, thank you.Missed court date advice please?
My disclaimer: I am not an attorney. I have worked for the court system for several years.
A Petition is a document filed and created by the Petitioner--whoever is filing a case against you. Therefore, it is not from the Court itself, but you are still required to respond to it. Basically, there is a court case against you, and this certified letter is the Petitioner's proof you know about it.
Do you have proof of when the letter arrived? You could file a document entitled ';Answer'; in which you state when you received the letter and whether you deny or affirm the allegations against you. (You are the Respondent in this case.)
Whether or not missing your court date will affect your case is up to the judge, but filing something as soon as possible is your best bet.
The ';Just cause to show reason'; thing the court was talking about is probably for you to show ';cause';--explain why you did not appear in court. Not having received the notice is probably a pretty good one.
Good luck...Missed court date advice please?
Tell your landlord ';PLEASE take me to court!';
Then get a list the sheriff made of the repairs that needs to be done and tell him when they find out he was renting the house in the condition it was in and you were not aware it was illegal, it is not going to look too good for him';.In the mean time move back home until you get on your feet.
I would go down to the courthouse and talk to them. I don't think there will be a problem. Just be civil to them and do not yell and lose your temper. All will be well.
Find someplace else to live.
Best Blind Date Advice?
My boyfriend and I just broke up and now my best friend (who is another guy) has told one of his other guy friends about me and is trying to hook us up. He sounds really cute, but I do not want to rush into anything. However, if I am interested, I want to be able to show that I am interested. I'm really nervous about meeting him. I have talked with him once and we are all hanging out together tomorrow. I'm not really sure what we are going to do, but nonetheless, he and I are both going to be there. What do I wear? Any great flirting tips to make him wonder whether or not I like him without making it completely obvious that I do? What are good things to talk about on a first ';date';? Any tips that you can give me would be greatly appreciated. thank you for reading and your time.Best Blind Date Advice?
ok for whut u wear, wear something sexy but NOT too hoochy.. like maybe a super nice shirt, jeans with heels,, dont go overboard with the makeup also. and then for things to talk about DONT TALK BOUT THE WEATHER lol that just couldnt get any more awkward if you do, ha. talk about what he loves to do like activities or hobbies, whut he does for a job.. and things he loves all that. and when you go on the blind date go into it NOT THINKING MUCH OF IT. if you hope for it to be the best you mite be disapointed... and maybe go to a lunch bar, so that the noice can sometimes outrule the awkwardness if you u no whut i mean :) good luck girlBest Blind Date Advice?
Enjoy everything and expect nothing. Have fun!
well u need to keep an open mind and always rember if he isnt the guy u expected give him a chance. flirting advice......? well flirt the same way u did with ur old boy friend
ok for whut u wear, wear something sexy but NOT too hoochy.. like maybe a super nice shirt, jeans with heels,, dont go overboard with the makeup also. and then for things to talk about DONT TALK BOUT THE WEATHER lol that just couldnt get any more awkward if you do, ha. talk about what he loves to do like activities or hobbies, whut he does for a job.. and things he loves all that. and when you go on the blind date go into it NOT THINKING MUCH OF IT. if you hope for it to be the best you mite be disapointed... and maybe go to a lunch bar, so that the noice can sometimes outrule the awkwardness if you u no whut i mean :) good luck girlBest Blind Date Advice?
Enjoy everything and expect nothing. Have fun!
well u need to keep an open mind and always rember if he isnt the guy u expected give him a chance. flirting advice......? well flirt the same way u did with ur old boy friend
Guy problem? Date advice?
I live with my grandma. She doesn't understand me. I have a boyfriend and i cant tell my grandma about him or she will go off and tell my entire family and they will flip and like stalk him. i want to go on a date with him but i don't know where to go . the movies are cool but im scarred about her finding out its alone with a boy. if i want to go somewhere with friends she like calls their parents to make sure its okay with them. i need your help. im okay with lying just what should i say? where can we go? im 17 and don't say im too young because ive been through a lot and i can handle it. thankss .Guy problem? Date advice?
say ur hanging out with ur friends and go to the park or something and hang out... or go to the mall... or to a water park... or amusement park... anywhere u would go wit ur friendsGuy problem? Date advice?
i hav those problems too...tell me wen u get an answer. ive been thinking about lying and saying im going to my friends house. i would be at his house and then b4 i go home go 2 my friends house.gloss
say ur hanging out with ur friends and go to the park or something and hang out... or go to the mall... or to a water park... or amusement park... anywhere u would go wit ur friendsGuy problem? Date advice?
i hav those problems too...tell me wen u get an answer. ive been thinking about lying and saying im going to my friends house. i would be at his house and then b4 i go home go 2 my friends house.
Mid school date advice (guy + girl)?
ok.. im not exactly the slimmest or coolest guy at school.. im more of a nerd and have a lil xtra weight. at times.. i feel im being used. so. theres this girl i like at school and on myspace she tells me stuff she claims she tells no one else. she says she trusts me me and today said my eyes are awefully blue if that means anything.. she also told me she thought i was a pretty nice guy. what are my chances? should i ask her out? anything is greatly appreciated. thanks in advance.Mid school date advice (guy + girl)?
Most girls go for personality these days.
So don't judge and think you have no chance.
You should be friends with her first before asking her out,
Get to know her more, and see how's shes like.
Once you do get closer, and when you feel ready, I think you should ask her out :)
I'm sure things will work out okay.
Good luck
Most girls go for personality these days.
So don't judge and think you have no chance.
You should be friends with her first before asking her out,
Get to know her more, and see how's shes like.
Once you do get closer, and when you feel ready, I think you should ask her out :)
I'm sure things will work out okay.
Good luck
USMC Ship date advice needed?
I was supposed to leave on the 9th, apparently there was some error and too many ppl were filed to ship on the 9th..
I was unable to leave on the 2nd, and now my dates up in the air (right now it's looking 16th-30th)
My recruiter also told me a great deal of mos slots are starting to open up, due to kids not graduating HS.
What can you tell me about my ship date? could there be another reason why this has happened???
And as for the job, should I wait to find out what opens up???USMC Ship date advice needed?
Don't rush things --take your time.
Ask about ATC opportunities -- good way to segue into civilian life afterward (likely shortage in near future)
I was unable to leave on the 2nd, and now my dates up in the air (right now it's looking 16th-30th)
My recruiter also told me a great deal of mos slots are starting to open up, due to kids not graduating HS.
What can you tell me about my ship date? could there be another reason why this has happened???
And as for the job, should I wait to find out what opens up???USMC Ship date advice needed?
Don't rush things --take your time.
Ask about ATC opportunities -- good way to segue into civilian life afterward (likely shortage in near future)
Girls: First date advice?
Got a first date coming up and I have it narrowed down to a few events. Tell me what you think, and suggest your own.
Now, we met online, and have talked on the phone. Been flirting. She said she wants it to be ';fun and creative'; to see how ';creative i can be.';
1) Picnic in the park
2) Nightclub/dancing/conversation in the lounge: I choose this b/c we were talking about nightclubs and dancing and ';teaching'; me etc. But is it good for a FIRST date?
3) Bowling
And we are both college students, fyi.
ALSO, should I tell her what I have it narrowed down to? this morning i told her i had it narrowed down to 3 but didn't tell her what exactly. she said ';oh tell me tell me tell me! i hate waiting :)'; and to flirt i said ';maybe it should be a surprise, to keep you on your toes'; and she said ';well it's definitely working';... so what should i do there??Girls: First date advice?
HONESTLY , since u met her on the internet, you should either go bowling or for a picnic in the park
hitting up a club leaves a lot of time for conversation and u don't know her THAT well--plus, the loud music can be annoying %26amp; disorienting
A picnic in the park is EASILY the most romantic %26amp; the best for dates with some one u really like and know. Bowling is a fun event that leaves for less time and situations with awkward silences. plus, its fun to cheer each other on when its time to bowl
and high five/hug after ur date gets a strike or a spare..
If you know the person better, you should have a picnic in the park to get some great convo going %26amp; snuggle up under a blanket =]
plus, u can go for a walk or go rollerblading and maybe even sneak in a kiss after the date by lightly pushing her against a tree..
but overall, go for the bowling! u can talk and bowl and have fun in a cool environment! make smart choices xoxGirls: First date advice?
good, don't tell her. you want to surprise your first date girl. i'd go with the picnic in the park one, though if i were you. you might want to take it slow with your 1st girl. if you take it slow, you get to know more about her. after that you take her to the movies or something simple, and not tooo romantic.
picnic in the park?? this is not 1993...how many people do you really see having a two-person picnic n the park?
Nightclub sounds ok...most ppl go to nightclubs to get a girl...not taking sumwun ther...
bowling...oh yeah...thatz original...NOT
Take her to dinner on a boat...if you have the kind of money for that.
NO...do not tell her...blindfold her until you get to where you are going...that makes the surprise evn better
first of all bowling is thrown out. in the trash. Nightclub/dancing/conversation in the lounge. uhmmm. maybe next time. definately not for your first date. i would go with a picnic. or maybe a restaurant. not to expensive though.
dancing seems fun! if she's like adventurous, and if she's a romantic and what not, then picnic. bowling to me is more like, oh we've been dating for a while, lets have a double date and go bowling....
Go for a pinic on the beach and after the picnic play in the water and walk on the beach. Try finding a beautiful poem and reading it to her. P.S. roses are a very good touch.
the best advice is go to girldiscovery.webs.com
she gives great advice. trust me just go there and get advice from her
Have a picnic, then maybe go bowling?
And no, the clubbing thing would be to fast for a first date.
Picnic.
PICNIC!
I'm sorry to say but you are going to disappoint her especially if you let her excitement get built up like that. While all three of those are fun, none of them are creative and have been done countless times.
Find out what she is really into and base a date around that. It will score lots of points with her for paying attention to what she wants and likes.If you really want to impress her, do your research.. find out what she likes, find out what's available in your area, and put your own unique spin on it.
If you can't think of anything else, go with the picnic but make it fun and different. Do it at night, bring glow sticks and a light up frisbee and just be silly about it. Don't get too romantic and gushy on the first date.
Now, we met online, and have talked on the phone. Been flirting. She said she wants it to be ';fun and creative'; to see how ';creative i can be.';
1) Picnic in the park
2) Nightclub/dancing/conversation in the lounge: I choose this b/c we were talking about nightclubs and dancing and ';teaching'; me etc. But is it good for a FIRST date?
3) Bowling
And we are both college students, fyi.
ALSO, should I tell her what I have it narrowed down to? this morning i told her i had it narrowed down to 3 but didn't tell her what exactly. she said ';oh tell me tell me tell me! i hate waiting :)'; and to flirt i said ';maybe it should be a surprise, to keep you on your toes'; and she said ';well it's definitely working';... so what should i do there??Girls: First date advice?
HONESTLY , since u met her on the internet, you should either go bowling or for a picnic in the park
hitting up a club leaves a lot of time for conversation and u don't know her THAT well--plus, the loud music can be annoying %26amp; disorienting
A picnic in the park is EASILY the most romantic %26amp; the best for dates with some one u really like and know. Bowling is a fun event that leaves for less time and situations with awkward silences. plus, its fun to cheer each other on when its time to bowl
and high five/hug after ur date gets a strike or a spare..
If you know the person better, you should have a picnic in the park to get some great convo going %26amp; snuggle up under a blanket =]
plus, u can go for a walk or go rollerblading and maybe even sneak in a kiss after the date by lightly pushing her against a tree..
but overall, go for the bowling! u can talk and bowl and have fun in a cool environment! make smart choices xoxGirls: First date advice?
good, don't tell her. you want to surprise your first date girl. i'd go with the picnic in the park one, though if i were you. you might want to take it slow with your 1st girl. if you take it slow, you get to know more about her. after that you take her to the movies or something simple, and not tooo romantic.
picnic in the park?? this is not 1993...how many people do you really see having a two-person picnic n the park?
Nightclub sounds ok...most ppl go to nightclubs to get a girl...not taking sumwun ther...
bowling...oh yeah...thatz original...NOT
Take her to dinner on a boat...if you have the kind of money for that.
NO...do not tell her...blindfold her until you get to where you are going...that makes the surprise evn better
first of all bowling is thrown out. in the trash. Nightclub/dancing/conversation in the lounge. uhmmm. maybe next time. definately not for your first date. i would go with a picnic. or maybe a restaurant. not to expensive though.
dancing seems fun! if she's like adventurous, and if she's a romantic and what not, then picnic. bowling to me is more like, oh we've been dating for a while, lets have a double date and go bowling....
Go for a pinic on the beach and after the picnic play in the water and walk on the beach. Try finding a beautiful poem and reading it to her. P.S. roses are a very good touch.
the best advice is go to girldiscovery.webs.com
she gives great advice. trust me just go there and get advice from her
Have a picnic, then maybe go bowling?
And no, the clubbing thing would be to fast for a first date.
Picnic.
PICNIC!
I'm sorry to say but you are going to disappoint her especially if you let her excitement get built up like that. While all three of those are fun, none of them are creative and have been done countless times.
Find out what she is really into and base a date around that. It will score lots of points with her for paying attention to what she wants and likes.If you really want to impress her, do your research.. find out what she likes, find out what's available in your area, and put your own unique spin on it.
If you can't think of anything else, go with the picnic but make it fun and different. Do it at night, bring glow sticks and a light up frisbee and just be silly about it. Don't get too romantic and gushy on the first date.
URGENT! First Date Advice Needed!?
Hi All of Yahoos Lovely Question Answerers!
The Situation:
During the summer i worked at a camp and one day decided to go hang out with my friend P. at the movies. My friend brought his friend S. along and it was normal. About three months later S. looks me up and we begin to flirt, heavily. And last night he plucked up the courage to ask me out. :D but i have some reservations that need to be answered (note this is NOT my first date,. just an important first date)
QUESTIONS!
1. What do i wear!?!?!? (haha i seem so typically female). im short 5.2, redhead, freckles, green eyes, paleish skin generally slender.
2. If he picks me up, my mom and dad want to meet him? hes two years older and is in college and im in high school. yikes much? (but he isnt one of those college guys after HS girls)
3. Who pays? simple enough right?
4. were going to the movies? So how do i know when to kiss him and what if, im really awk in social situations, i mess it up?
PLEASE
AND
THANK YOU!URGENT! First Date Advice Needed!?
Hey, just don't think about all this. When the day you guys settled a date comes, wake up.. take a shower, take care of yourself the way you always do, and then loook in your closet and think ''hmmm..something casual, yet sexy.. but not too sexy..'' Remember, when he checked you out and flirted with you heavily he was flirting with YOU not the clothes you had on. He also asked you out on a date, feel reasured that he won't be judging you on what you're wearing. What you want to do however, is to wear something that shows off what you have- but at the same time, dn't go overboard- you dn't want to look like a slut :D
BE casual-sexy. :)
Does he know he has to meet your parents? Just tell him about it as if it isn't a big deal at all. If he thinks your worth talking to your parents for and respects that he has to meet them first- then that's a good sign.
Who pays? Just see how the daaay gooooes, enjoy yourself!!! Talk to him, joke around, flirt, have fun!! When you get to the movies get your wallet out- if he doesn't say something about him paying for you- just pay for yourself without making a big deal out of it.
About the kiss, do you want to kiss him on the first day? You don't have to. You said you have to? Maybe you'll find you don't really like this guy at the end of the movie. There are no rules to how to go about on a date.. but personally? I'd let him make the first move.. you've flirted with him all night, you've smiled, made him laugh, talked.. just watch his body language.. see how things go. Before you know it you'll be locking a kiss with him..
You won't mess anything up. No one's expecting anything from you. Just be yourself..URGENT! First Date Advice Needed!?
1.Green something Green or Black. It'll make your hair look even better and compliment your big green eyes!
2. Run to the car and tell your parents you have a reservation and you need to be there before they give your spot away.
3.You offer to split it and if he's a real gentle man he'll deny it and pay all of it.
4.Hold hands first and see if he makes a move if he doesn't, don't mess it up. Just hug when it's over and maybe he'll make a move.
1. Wear something that complements your eyes. A nice green shirt with some nice jeans and some cute shoes. (Your only going to the movies.
2. Thats ok, make them meet him so that they have a good peace of mind.
3. Possibly him but you guys could split it.
4. Kiss him when you see that look in his eye. You have been on other dates so you should know what I am talking about.
I hope I helped! Good Luck!
-Wear something sexy, not slutty. There's a difference.
-Tell him to meet you at the movies if you don't want your parents to meet him.
-It's polite for the guy to pay, but if he can't for some reason then you do it. No big deal, I've done that plenty of times.
-Don't kiss him, let him kiss you. Believe me, he'll make it obvious when he wants to kiss you.
ROTFL
wow, you've got some... nice answers.
Black is always good, it looks good on EVERYONE. Wear what you normally wear, because he likes you for you! (:
LEt your parents meet him, they had to do it too once!
You split it even or he pays?
What you do is cuddle up to him then look at him in the eyes, and he will get the hint and lean in to kiss you.
modern society split the bill neither of u work so its ballanced that way
but tbh chill out dont over dress and have a good time get to know him! thats the purpose of a first date its exciting when your young i rember when i was that age but just be confident dont get scared and have a good time and a laugh :)
take a deep breathe smile be happy and have a good night
ok first where a green shirt it will bring out your eyes and he will most likely compliment on them second get your parents to meet him because you don't want a bad relation ship with your parents after all you do have to live with them third the guy pays! he asked you out you will have to get that strait with him fourth let him kiss in other words you just look nice and look into his eyes gently
Green eyes? wear something green. Play up those pretty eyes!
Mom and dad wanna meet him? um....... sure! It's always better to get parent approval. (I'm in high school 2, and my bf is 2 years older than me 2)
The guy ALWAYS pays. If he doesn't, he's not very gentlemanly.
Let HIM kiss YOU! He's gotta have the guts. Not you!
well u sound like sorta linsay lohan in her earlier days so i would look at a couple of things that were attractive on her.
well jsut tell him to behave himsel and i ur a senior thats no big i ur a junior then u should be a lil worried um just tell him to show the best o himself
both!!!! unless he insist over voiced girls are unatractive
well when he walk u hiome unless he tries other than that
u pay half and half!!
that way he wil think ur cool!!
tellur parents his age and explaine u have known him for a wile!!
and u wil know when to kiss him!!it wil be obvious!!dont do anytinh u dont wanna!!but if u wanna then enjoy!!
hope u have a good night!!
o...what to wear....casual wear!!its only the movies!!
first of all
have confiedence :)
wear a tshirt and jeans or a cute flirty dress
something that seems like you
just let your rents meet him itll be fine :)
and he will most likely pay, but bring $$ just in case
just go with the flow itss all good
hope you have fun ;)!
half way during the movie if your boy friend yawns and stretches hjs arms and puts his arms around you then that should tell you that he wants to kiss... If he doesnt do that then you should half way through the movie. works for me all the time.
1. A cute skirt or jeans with a nice top.
2. If it gets serious, they'll have to meet him sometime. Why not now?
3. Go dutch.
4. Don't push it, make sure it feels natural.
Hope this helps!
If he doesn't 'get any' on the first date - don't expect there to be a second date................college guys are like that.
Die gehen wir wohnt um die ecke. Du kommen aus wo kann sie schauberger. Der bild ist habe fernsehen.
Don't screw him, or he'll think you're a slut.
I like corndogs.
JUsT bE YoU!!!!!
your friends have wierd names
If you are going out to the movies then dress casually. Pick out your favorite top with your favorite jeans. Whatever outfit that you really feel comfortable and pretty in! What top do you have that brings out your green eyes? That's a good place to start.
If you are petite then wear something tailored (not baggy.) But don't be skanky and wear something tight and revealing.
If your parents want to meet him then of course- let them meet him. It's always so much easier to have things out in the open right from the beginning. Now- there could be a problem if you are a minor and he is not. Two years isn't a big deal though and as long as he doesn't act strangely your parents are probably not going be upset. They know you are excited. : ) I know you don't want to hear this but sometimes parents can get a pretty good read on people. : )
Who pays- did he ask you out? If he did then he should pay. Bring some extra money along just in case though! I'm sure that if he asked you out he would have thought in advance of getting the funds together to take you out. : )
Kissing? Um-- is there an unwritten rule that says a girl needs to kiss a guy that asks her out?? Please don't initiate a kiss, let him do that. If he really wants to - then don't worry- he will! That takes the burden off you- it's always easier to reciprocate than initiate! Then afterward you won't be left wondering if he really wanted to kiss and if so, was it the right time, or did I do it like he wanted me to. : )
Good luck and have fun!
1. Don't wear anything too suggestive. Keep in mind that what you were wearing at the time you met was attractive to him, so don't tone it down from there, but keep the level of modesty and fashion that's appropriate for the weather. Wear fragrance and makeup in moderation. High school girls are terribly prone to overdoing that stuff and guys don't care for it.
2. I would definitely want to meet the guy if I was your Mother of Father. It doesn't have to take long and if he's good enough for you, why would you feel funny about it.
3. I would hope that he'd pay, but bring enough money with you to pay for yourself and at least make an effort to do so if it looks like he didn't plan on it. Maybe you could let him buy the tickets and you can offer to buy the popcorn to see how that goes.
4. Let him take the lead in the kissing. Relax and enjoy the ride, but picture yourself telling him to stop, too. You have the control there. You have the right to stop him if things go farther than you would like.
Good luck!
Well, you sound like a pretty level headed girl, so you can just keep it level! You should wear something that you like to wear, something that you feel good in, maybe a nice pair of jeans and a nice sweater or top and some nice high heels to make you a little taller if you want. Then, as far as meeting your folks, if he isn't the kind of guy looking for HS girls, then he won't mind meeting them or at least he shouldn't mind! If he does, there are issues there. And I would think the person who asked would be the one to pay...it wasn't considered a mutual activity, he asked you out with a pick up time. If you feel right about this guy and would like to see him again, then when the end of the date comes, he'll let you know if he wants to kiss you or not. His body language will be telling you that immediately. If you want to kiss him then do, if not give him a big hug and tell him how much you enjoyed the time with him.
1. Wear something sexy, but not skanky. You want to show skin, but not too much.
2. If you have good parents, they'll want to meet this guy eventually, so no need to prolong it, let them meet him right away. Plenty of high school girls date college guys now-a-days, it's pretty much the norm. As long as he's a good guy, everything should be solid.
3. If I were taking you out, I'd pay. It'd also be ok if you both split the bill. It all depends on the guy, so it wouldn't hurt to ask him.
4. Kiss him when the time feels right, no need to rush/force it.
Hope that helps.
for a first date just go somewhere fun or simple. like the movies or something. DON';T have sex with him. im sure your not that dumb tho. um.... just wear a nice t shirt and jeans or somehting like that.
age doesnt matter. dont sweat it. especially 2 years. i mean thats no big deal AT ALL. they might want to meet him. and if they dont, dont have them meet him. no big deal.
the guy ussually pays, but just in case, bring your own money.
kiss him in the car when he dropps you off at home. lol
or whenever you think is right, lol. your in highschool. so if you do somehting dumb, he might think its cute, i know alot of guys do.
1) nothing dark colored and not red! try something green or aqua and gold accents. as for style, don't look like you're trying too hard, wear something that makes you feel comfy. you'll be a lot less nervous if you feel confident in how you look.
2) my parents didn't have a big issue on age, if your parents do... well then talk about how he is before he picks you up and not on his age. they'll feel better about his age if they know what he's like.
3) HE pays unless he is a pig. you can bring extra cash just in case, but if he doesn't i wouldn't give him a second date.
4) first date kisses are a lot less awkward than that really. i would set back and make him give the first move, that way you don't seem too eager. i think you'll be just fine as long as you are yourself and confident. i mean he asked you in the first place so clearly you've got it going on.
Here's what not to do:
1. What do i wear!?!?!? (haha i seem so typically female). im short 5.2, redhead, freckles, green eyes, paleish skin generally slender.
Wear a polyester mini skirt from the 60s.
2. If he picks me up, my mom and dad want to meet him? hes two years older and is in college and im in high school. yikes much? (but he isnt one of those college guys after HS girls)
Tell his mom %26amp; dad that you like college guys because they know more about pleasing a girl.
3. Who pays? simple enough right?
Bolt from the restaurant without paying and sneak into the movies.
4. were going to the movies? So how do i know when to kiss him and what if, im really awk in social situations, i mess it up?
Make sure to get kicked out of the movies by the usher for making out in the back of the theatre.
If you do the opposite of the above, I think you'll do just fine.
The Situation:
During the summer i worked at a camp and one day decided to go hang out with my friend P. at the movies. My friend brought his friend S. along and it was normal. About three months later S. looks me up and we begin to flirt, heavily. And last night he plucked up the courage to ask me out. :D but i have some reservations that need to be answered (note this is NOT my first date,. just an important first date)
QUESTIONS!
1. What do i wear!?!?!? (haha i seem so typically female). im short 5.2, redhead, freckles, green eyes, paleish skin generally slender.
2. If he picks me up, my mom and dad want to meet him? hes two years older and is in college and im in high school. yikes much? (but he isnt one of those college guys after HS girls)
3. Who pays? simple enough right?
4. were going to the movies? So how do i know when to kiss him and what if, im really awk in social situations, i mess it up?
PLEASE
AND
THANK YOU!URGENT! First Date Advice Needed!?
Hey, just don't think about all this. When the day you guys settled a date comes, wake up.. take a shower, take care of yourself the way you always do, and then loook in your closet and think ''hmmm..something casual, yet sexy.. but not too sexy..'' Remember, when he checked you out and flirted with you heavily he was flirting with YOU not the clothes you had on. He also asked you out on a date, feel reasured that he won't be judging you on what you're wearing. What you want to do however, is to wear something that shows off what you have- but at the same time, dn't go overboard- you dn't want to look like a slut :D
BE casual-sexy. :)
Does he know he has to meet your parents? Just tell him about it as if it isn't a big deal at all. If he thinks your worth talking to your parents for and respects that he has to meet them first- then that's a good sign.
Who pays? Just see how the daaay gooooes, enjoy yourself!!! Talk to him, joke around, flirt, have fun!! When you get to the movies get your wallet out- if he doesn't say something about him paying for you- just pay for yourself without making a big deal out of it.
About the kiss, do you want to kiss him on the first day? You don't have to. You said you have to? Maybe you'll find you don't really like this guy at the end of the movie. There are no rules to how to go about on a date.. but personally? I'd let him make the first move.. you've flirted with him all night, you've smiled, made him laugh, talked.. just watch his body language.. see how things go. Before you know it you'll be locking a kiss with him..
You won't mess anything up. No one's expecting anything from you. Just be yourself..URGENT! First Date Advice Needed!?
1.Green something Green or Black. It'll make your hair look even better and compliment your big green eyes!
2. Run to the car and tell your parents you have a reservation and you need to be there before they give your spot away.
3.You offer to split it and if he's a real gentle man he'll deny it and pay all of it.
4.Hold hands first and see if he makes a move if he doesn't, don't mess it up. Just hug when it's over and maybe he'll make a move.
1. Wear something that complements your eyes. A nice green shirt with some nice jeans and some cute shoes. (Your only going to the movies.
2. Thats ok, make them meet him so that they have a good peace of mind.
3. Possibly him but you guys could split it.
4. Kiss him when you see that look in his eye. You have been on other dates so you should know what I am talking about.
I hope I helped! Good Luck!
-Wear something sexy, not slutty. There's a difference.
-Tell him to meet you at the movies if you don't want your parents to meet him.
-It's polite for the guy to pay, but if he can't for some reason then you do it. No big deal, I've done that plenty of times.
-Don't kiss him, let him kiss you. Believe me, he'll make it obvious when he wants to kiss you.
ROTFL
wow, you've got some... nice answers.
Black is always good, it looks good on EVERYONE. Wear what you normally wear, because he likes you for you! (:
LEt your parents meet him, they had to do it too once!
You split it even or he pays?
What you do is cuddle up to him then look at him in the eyes, and he will get the hint and lean in to kiss you.
modern society split the bill neither of u work so its ballanced that way
but tbh chill out dont over dress and have a good time get to know him! thats the purpose of a first date its exciting when your young i rember when i was that age but just be confident dont get scared and have a good time and a laugh :)
take a deep breathe smile be happy and have a good night
ok first where a green shirt it will bring out your eyes and he will most likely compliment on them second get your parents to meet him because you don't want a bad relation ship with your parents after all you do have to live with them third the guy pays! he asked you out you will have to get that strait with him fourth let him kiss in other words you just look nice and look into his eyes gently
Green eyes? wear something green. Play up those pretty eyes!
Mom and dad wanna meet him? um....... sure! It's always better to get parent approval. (I'm in high school 2, and my bf is 2 years older than me 2)
The guy ALWAYS pays. If he doesn't, he's not very gentlemanly.
Let HIM kiss YOU! He's gotta have the guts. Not you!
well u sound like sorta linsay lohan in her earlier days so i would look at a couple of things that were attractive on her.
well jsut tell him to behave himsel and i ur a senior thats no big i ur a junior then u should be a lil worried um just tell him to show the best o himself
both!!!! unless he insist over voiced girls are unatractive
well when he walk u hiome unless he tries other than that
u pay half and half!!
that way he wil think ur cool!!
tellur parents his age and explaine u have known him for a wile!!
and u wil know when to kiss him!!it wil be obvious!!dont do anytinh u dont wanna!!but if u wanna then enjoy!!
hope u have a good night!!
o...what to wear....casual wear!!its only the movies!!
first of all
have confiedence :)
wear a tshirt and jeans or a cute flirty dress
something that seems like you
just let your rents meet him itll be fine :)
and he will most likely pay, but bring $$ just in case
just go with the flow itss all good
hope you have fun ;)!
half way during the movie if your boy friend yawns and stretches hjs arms and puts his arms around you then that should tell you that he wants to kiss... If he doesnt do that then you should half way through the movie. works for me all the time.
1. A cute skirt or jeans with a nice top.
2. If it gets serious, they'll have to meet him sometime. Why not now?
3. Go dutch.
4. Don't push it, make sure it feels natural.
Hope this helps!
If he doesn't 'get any' on the first date - don't expect there to be a second date................college guys are like that.
Die gehen wir wohnt um die ecke. Du kommen aus wo kann sie schauberger. Der bild ist habe fernsehen.
Don't screw him, or he'll think you're a slut.
I like corndogs.
JUsT bE YoU!!!!!
your friends have wierd names
If you are going out to the movies then dress casually. Pick out your favorite top with your favorite jeans. Whatever outfit that you really feel comfortable and pretty in! What top do you have that brings out your green eyes? That's a good place to start.
If you are petite then wear something tailored (not baggy.) But don't be skanky and wear something tight and revealing.
If your parents want to meet him then of course- let them meet him. It's always so much easier to have things out in the open right from the beginning. Now- there could be a problem if you are a minor and he is not. Two years isn't a big deal though and as long as he doesn't act strangely your parents are probably not going be upset. They know you are excited. : ) I know you don't want to hear this but sometimes parents can get a pretty good read on people. : )
Who pays- did he ask you out? If he did then he should pay. Bring some extra money along just in case though! I'm sure that if he asked you out he would have thought in advance of getting the funds together to take you out. : )
Kissing? Um-- is there an unwritten rule that says a girl needs to kiss a guy that asks her out?? Please don't initiate a kiss, let him do that. If he really wants to - then don't worry- he will! That takes the burden off you- it's always easier to reciprocate than initiate! Then afterward you won't be left wondering if he really wanted to kiss and if so, was it the right time, or did I do it like he wanted me to. : )
Good luck and have fun!
1. Don't wear anything too suggestive. Keep in mind that what you were wearing at the time you met was attractive to him, so don't tone it down from there, but keep the level of modesty and fashion that's appropriate for the weather. Wear fragrance and makeup in moderation. High school girls are terribly prone to overdoing that stuff and guys don't care for it.
2. I would definitely want to meet the guy if I was your Mother of Father. It doesn't have to take long and if he's good enough for you, why would you feel funny about it.
3. I would hope that he'd pay, but bring enough money with you to pay for yourself and at least make an effort to do so if it looks like he didn't plan on it. Maybe you could let him buy the tickets and you can offer to buy the popcorn to see how that goes.
4. Let him take the lead in the kissing. Relax and enjoy the ride, but picture yourself telling him to stop, too. You have the control there. You have the right to stop him if things go farther than you would like.
Good luck!
Well, you sound like a pretty level headed girl, so you can just keep it level! You should wear something that you like to wear, something that you feel good in, maybe a nice pair of jeans and a nice sweater or top and some nice high heels to make you a little taller if you want. Then, as far as meeting your folks, if he isn't the kind of guy looking for HS girls, then he won't mind meeting them or at least he shouldn't mind! If he does, there are issues there. And I would think the person who asked would be the one to pay...it wasn't considered a mutual activity, he asked you out with a pick up time. If you feel right about this guy and would like to see him again, then when the end of the date comes, he'll let you know if he wants to kiss you or not. His body language will be telling you that immediately. If you want to kiss him then do, if not give him a big hug and tell him how much you enjoyed the time with him.
1. Wear something sexy, but not skanky. You want to show skin, but not too much.
2. If you have good parents, they'll want to meet this guy eventually, so no need to prolong it, let them meet him right away. Plenty of high school girls date college guys now-a-days, it's pretty much the norm. As long as he's a good guy, everything should be solid.
3. If I were taking you out, I'd pay. It'd also be ok if you both split the bill. It all depends on the guy, so it wouldn't hurt to ask him.
4. Kiss him when the time feels right, no need to rush/force it.
Hope that helps.
for a first date just go somewhere fun or simple. like the movies or something. DON';T have sex with him. im sure your not that dumb tho. um.... just wear a nice t shirt and jeans or somehting like that.
age doesnt matter. dont sweat it. especially 2 years. i mean thats no big deal AT ALL. they might want to meet him. and if they dont, dont have them meet him. no big deal.
the guy ussually pays, but just in case, bring your own money.
kiss him in the car when he dropps you off at home. lol
or whenever you think is right, lol. your in highschool. so if you do somehting dumb, he might think its cute, i know alot of guys do.
1) nothing dark colored and not red! try something green or aqua and gold accents. as for style, don't look like you're trying too hard, wear something that makes you feel comfy. you'll be a lot less nervous if you feel confident in how you look.
2) my parents didn't have a big issue on age, if your parents do... well then talk about how he is before he picks you up and not on his age. they'll feel better about his age if they know what he's like.
3) HE pays unless he is a pig. you can bring extra cash just in case, but if he doesn't i wouldn't give him a second date.
4) first date kisses are a lot less awkward than that really. i would set back and make him give the first move, that way you don't seem too eager. i think you'll be just fine as long as you are yourself and confident. i mean he asked you in the first place so clearly you've got it going on.
Here's what not to do:
1. What do i wear!?!?!? (haha i seem so typically female). im short 5.2, redhead, freckles, green eyes, paleish skin generally slender.
Wear a polyester mini skirt from the 60s.
2. If he picks me up, my mom and dad want to meet him? hes two years older and is in college and im in high school. yikes much? (but he isnt one of those college guys after HS girls)
Tell his mom %26amp; dad that you like college guys because they know more about pleasing a girl.
3. Who pays? simple enough right?
Bolt from the restaurant without paying and sneak into the movies.
4. were going to the movies? So how do i know when to kiss him and what if, im really awk in social situations, i mess it up?
Make sure to get kicked out of the movies by the usher for making out in the back of the theatre.
If you do the opposite of the above, I think you'll do just fine.
OMG! First date advice?!?!?
I'm a girl and I'm 14. This guy that I really like asked me out on a date next Friday. What do we talk about? We're going out to dinner and I really like him, but I have NO idea what to talk about with him! And I really don't want to have like, awkward silences with him either. I've never been really ALONE with him yet. Me and some of my friends and some of his friends hang. So we always are joking around. But when were alone, what to talk about?! IM FREAKING OUT!!!!!!!!! Should I cancel?!!? AHHHHH!!!!OMG! First date advice?!?!?
14 is too young for a date. You're too young and impressionable and will make irrational decisions. Be a kid.OMG! First date advice?!?!?
just talk about what you normally talk about when you guys are in a group or things you like he likes. keep it simple its. Don't over think your answer and most of all have fun learn more about him and he will do the same. Hope i helped. enjoy yourself
14 is too young for a date. You're too young and impressionable and will make irrational decisions. Be a kid.OMG! First date advice?!?!?
just talk about what you normally talk about when you guys are in a group or things you like he likes. keep it simple its. Don't over think your answer and most of all have fun learn more about him and he will do the same. Hope i helped. enjoy yourself
PLEASE HELP(DATE ADVICE)?
I know what i want to do but i have been given suggestions to bring food and i can't figure out what would be good to bring. I was going to bring this girl to an area that's about a 25minute hike to an overlook of the whole city, there are chairs made out of rocks that we could sit in and watch the sunset.
WHAT SHOULD I BRING FOR FOOD? It can't be too much or too heavy because we'll be hiking and i wont have too much room in my backpack. What is a good idea for food to bring that she may enjoy?PLEASE HELP(DATE ADVICE)?
Well, it depends on what food she likes but personally i would take a picnik with sandwiches e.t.c it doesn't have to be TOO fancy aslong as its romantic. or you could just take her to a resteraunt afterwards ? or before ?
Anyway, hope this helpedPLEASE HELP(DATE ADVICE)?
sandwiches with fillings that you both enjoy, crisps, some kind of salad or fruit salad, chocolates or something similar to snack on and a bottle of wine.
also don't forget napkins
oh and a cloth to sit on
I would suggest bringing maybe her favorite kind of chip or cookie. It doesn't have to be romantic. I would also suggest maybe you bring lunchables or something along the means of that. Fruit is always good too. Good luck.
Bring some sandwiches, chips, and a thermos of lemonade. Make sure to pack a tablecloth too, in case she wants to sit on the ground.
Just bring picnic food. Everyone likes sandwiches %26amp; it will make everything more romantic.
Bring LOTZ of nutricious fooden, because if she is willing to hike up there she probably likes healthy food
A little bit of many types, especially energy giving foods.
bring her some sandwiches, maybe cake or pie with a cute prize inside! lol. just something simple, and soda too! good luck. :)
I think you should have like sandwiches and chip kinda deal
PB%26amp;J and chips and water the perfect LIGHT meal
pasta salad and maybe some nice chocolate puddings that won't get smushed in your bag...?
all you need is wine and cheese
beergloss
WHAT SHOULD I BRING FOR FOOD? It can't be too much or too heavy because we'll be hiking and i wont have too much room in my backpack. What is a good idea for food to bring that she may enjoy?PLEASE HELP(DATE ADVICE)?
Well, it depends on what food she likes but personally i would take a picnik with sandwiches e.t.c it doesn't have to be TOO fancy aslong as its romantic. or you could just take her to a resteraunt afterwards ? or before ?
Anyway, hope this helpedPLEASE HELP(DATE ADVICE)?
sandwiches with fillings that you both enjoy, crisps, some kind of salad or fruit salad, chocolates or something similar to snack on and a bottle of wine.
also don't forget napkins
oh and a cloth to sit on
I would suggest bringing maybe her favorite kind of chip or cookie. It doesn't have to be romantic. I would also suggest maybe you bring lunchables or something along the means of that. Fruit is always good too. Good luck.
Bring some sandwiches, chips, and a thermos of lemonade. Make sure to pack a tablecloth too, in case she wants to sit on the ground.
Just bring picnic food. Everyone likes sandwiches %26amp; it will make everything more romantic.
Bring LOTZ of nutricious fooden, because if she is willing to hike up there she probably likes healthy food
A little bit of many types, especially energy giving foods.
bring her some sandwiches, maybe cake or pie with a cute prize inside! lol. just something simple, and soda too! good luck. :)
I think you should have like sandwiches and chip kinda deal
PB%26amp;J and chips and water the perfect LIGHT meal
pasta salad and maybe some nice chocolate puddings that won't get smushed in your bag...?
all you need is wine and cheese
beer
Guys: First date advice please? =]?
Lets be honest first impressions are everything and unfortunately for some guys(and girls alike) so are looks-- i'm going on my first date with this guy that i like tomorrow... and i need to know:
how should i look?
i know confidence is key(and i have a lot of confidence thats not the problem) but what should i do to make myself look hott?
thanks loads!
http://i498.photobucket.com/albums/rr347/courtradiction/IMG_1897_2.jpg
not the best pic but w/e hahaGuys: First date advice please? =]?
HAHA looks like you won't have much of a problem. you're very attractive. if you want to look hot, don't dress like a slut. that means no short skirt or very low tops. but you do want to show a little bit of cleavage. wear a sundress or something those work well. guys want to be able to see your figure and they want to guess at what you'll look like naked. that's where the fun is. because if you dress like a slut, it will be too easy, and if you dress to conservatively they won't be attracted because they won't be able to get any idea about what your figure looks like. it's really hard to explain... what you're wearing in the picture is very pretty. something like that is fine for a first date.
how should i look?
i know confidence is key(and i have a lot of confidence thats not the problem) but what should i do to make myself look hott?
thanks loads!
http://i498.photobucket.com/albums/rr347/courtradiction/IMG_1897_2.jpg
not the best pic but w/e hahaGuys: First date advice please? =]?
HAHA looks like you won't have much of a problem. you're very attractive. if you want to look hot, don't dress like a slut. that means no short skirt or very low tops. but you do want to show a little bit of cleavage. wear a sundress or something those work well. guys want to be able to see your figure and they want to guess at what you'll look like naked. that's where the fun is. because if you dress like a slut, it will be too easy, and if you dress to conservatively they won't be attracted because they won't be able to get any idea about what your figure looks like. it's really hard to explain... what you're wearing in the picture is very pretty. something like that is fine for a first date.
PROM!! Prom date advice needed!!! ASAP!?
so ive known this boy since last year (sophomore year) and we tried ';talking'; then and it didnt work out.... but recently we started to talk again but just as friends.. our prom is coming up and he asked me to it and i felt pressured into saying yes.. now im going to prom with him and hes already bought the tickets and since ive said yes to him on going to prom.. he calls me everyday at least twice an hr and he just told me that he likes me but i acted like i didnt hear that part mainly because i dont feel the same and i dont know what to do because i dont want prom to be awkward and i dont want to be more than friends... ever.. so any advice??PROM!! Prom date advice needed!!! ASAP!?
:( poor guy, he seems nice, you should give him a chance
he even bought you tickets and he is calling you (which a lot of guys wont do) and he said he liked you, at least give him a shot, next time you shouldn't say yes, it makes it seem like u r using him just to go to promPROM!! Prom date advice needed!!! ASAP!?
The longer you wait to tell him the more it will hurt him in the end. Tell him before prom that you don't want to be more than friends at that you didn't mean to lead him on. But don't be suprised if he gets angry or doesn't want to be friends because his pride will probably be hurt. I know you dont want to hurt him but sometimes you just cant avoid it. Hopefully he will come around.
Well since you accepted to go, I think its only fair that you go. You should however tell him up front that you only want to be on a frienship basis, and leave it at that. You should never be pressured to do anything, so next time just say Ill have to let you know, otherwise stick to your decision. Be honest, its still the best policy.
Just make your bounds clear, tell him how things are...softly, totaly wait til after prom, like 3 of my girl friends are waiting til after prom to dump their guys, arent dances just the greatest?? lol goodluck tho, i had the same problem, with a creepy guy....eugh
uhh just go with it. whatever you do, just don't do something your gonna regret. just dont make it awkward, if he tries to kiss you just move back and tell him how you feel
well maybe u should break it down to him and then set him up with someone else andd
get a prom date of your own
that sounds horrible but itd hurt him more leading him on
:( poor guy, he seems nice, you should give him a chance
he even bought you tickets and he is calling you (which a lot of guys wont do) and he said he liked you, at least give him a shot, next time you shouldn't say yes, it makes it seem like u r using him just to go to promPROM!! Prom date advice needed!!! ASAP!?
The longer you wait to tell him the more it will hurt him in the end. Tell him before prom that you don't want to be more than friends at that you didn't mean to lead him on. But don't be suprised if he gets angry or doesn't want to be friends because his pride will probably be hurt. I know you dont want to hurt him but sometimes you just cant avoid it. Hopefully he will come around.
Well since you accepted to go, I think its only fair that you go. You should however tell him up front that you only want to be on a frienship basis, and leave it at that. You should never be pressured to do anything, so next time just say Ill have to let you know, otherwise stick to your decision. Be honest, its still the best policy.
Just make your bounds clear, tell him how things are...softly, totaly wait til after prom, like 3 of my girl friends are waiting til after prom to dump their guys, arent dances just the greatest?? lol goodluck tho, i had the same problem, with a creepy guy....eugh
uhh just go with it. whatever you do, just don't do something your gonna regret. just dont make it awkward, if he tries to kiss you just move back and tell him how you feel
well maybe u should break it down to him and then set him up with someone else andd
get a prom date of your own
that sounds horrible but itd hurt him more leading him on
HELP: First Date Advice....?
I'm a freshmen in College and this girl from my dormitory and I are going on our first date Tuesday evening to Dinner and a Movie. We met 2 weeks ago and we hung out over the past week in the dorm. One night we ate dinner and then proceded to have a 4 1/2 hour conversation about everything getting to know one another. After walking her to her door and giving a good night hug, we arranged to eat dinner again the following evening. After dinner, I walked her to her car, because she was heading back home (150miles) away for the weekend. At her car I gave her a kiss on the forehead. After she returned from home a few days later her and I conversed in my room and I asked her out to dinner and a movie and she said yes. I haven't dated in a long time due to the fact I was in a very serious relationship not too long ago. I want to impress her and make this date one that she will never forget (in a good way). I also would love to make it a good step in the direction of starting a fresh new relationship.
Any advice such as something I can give her before dinner (IE flowers, chocolate, etc)....or anything of that sort would be very greatful.
Thanks!HELP: First Date Advice....?
For one: That sentence about you not dating for a long time because you just had a relationship doesn't make any sense.
Two: I would recommend that you go easy on gifts if your only on the first date. If you really think you've hit it off with her, try to bring something small, but thoughtful. If you talked for 4.5 hours you should have some idea of what her interests are, go for something that would be unique to her. Flowers and chocolate are nice and all but extremely generic, giving something more unique to her would mean much more, even if it's just doing something she wants to do. Don't worry too much about presents, they aren't what a good relationship is about. If she likes you as much as you seem to like her, she'll be glad just to spend some time together.HELP: First Date Advice....?
We ALWAYS like flowers. Not roses though (on first date anyway) just a pretty bouquet of fresh flowers. Good luck!
flowers are a nice touch but be sure to get the right kind of flower and a box of chocolate is good to for a first date
You're not hopeless kenny, but your definitely a wuss.
Don't go out on this date, instead when you pick her up tell her there a change of plans, put on some walking shoes.
She will be so relieved that your not taking her to dinner and a movie i promise you it will go in a better direction.
Then find something you're interested in and have her come with.
I promise if you take her on this dinner and a move, wearing suits and bringing flower and chocolates you will end the night with a hug and she probably wont see you again.
If i wanted to take a girl out right now, I would probably go to this nearby town i havent been to, and just spent times loitering in the shops and such.
Don't disappoint her, be spontaneous.
Well it seems that she's equally interested. I'm a freshman in college, too, and if you're going to give her flowers, you can be witty and bring a vase of water with it. If her dorm is like mine, she probably doesn't have a place to put fresh flowers. I think it'd be clever.
Chocolate's always good, but you should save that for Valentine's Day. That includes teddy bears...
To make the night special, just stick with the little things that most college guys don't do. Open the car door for her. Pull out her chair. If you know what kind of music she likes, burn a CD and, don't necessarily give her the CD, but play the CD when you two are chilling out in your room. It'll show her that you took the time to know her better. You don't need a huge romantic gesture. This early in the game, it's the little things that add up.
That's my advice. You can take it or leave it. It's up to you.
Any advice such as something I can give her before dinner (IE flowers, chocolate, etc)....or anything of that sort would be very greatful.
Thanks!HELP: First Date Advice....?
For one: That sentence about you not dating for a long time because you just had a relationship doesn't make any sense.
Two: I would recommend that you go easy on gifts if your only on the first date. If you really think you've hit it off with her, try to bring something small, but thoughtful. If you talked for 4.5 hours you should have some idea of what her interests are, go for something that would be unique to her. Flowers and chocolate are nice and all but extremely generic, giving something more unique to her would mean much more, even if it's just doing something she wants to do. Don't worry too much about presents, they aren't what a good relationship is about. If she likes you as much as you seem to like her, she'll be glad just to spend some time together.HELP: First Date Advice....?
We ALWAYS like flowers. Not roses though (on first date anyway) just a pretty bouquet of fresh flowers. Good luck!
flowers are a nice touch but be sure to get the right kind of flower and a box of chocolate is good to for a first date
You're not hopeless kenny, but your definitely a wuss.
Don't go out on this date, instead when you pick her up tell her there a change of plans, put on some walking shoes.
She will be so relieved that your not taking her to dinner and a movie i promise you it will go in a better direction.
Then find something you're interested in and have her come with.
I promise if you take her on this dinner and a move, wearing suits and bringing flower and chocolates you will end the night with a hug and she probably wont see you again.
If i wanted to take a girl out right now, I would probably go to this nearby town i havent been to, and just spent times loitering in the shops and such.
Don't disappoint her, be spontaneous.
Well it seems that she's equally interested. I'm a freshman in college, too, and if you're going to give her flowers, you can be witty and bring a vase of water with it. If her dorm is like mine, she probably doesn't have a place to put fresh flowers. I think it'd be clever.
Chocolate's always good, but you should save that for Valentine's Day. That includes teddy bears...
To make the night special, just stick with the little things that most college guys don't do. Open the car door for her. Pull out her chair. If you know what kind of music she likes, burn a CD and, don't necessarily give her the CD, but play the CD when you two are chilling out in your room. It'll show her that you took the time to know her better. You don't need a huge romantic gesture. This early in the game, it's the little things that add up.
That's my advice. You can take it or leave it. It's up to you.
First Date advice needed!?
So, I'm 21 y.o. and don't drive bc of a neurological disorder..just as a preventative measure, you know, I want to be safe. I'm in the verge of arranging a first date, and it seems like we're going to ';meet up'; somewhere bc we live about 20 min. away from each other..I don't know how to tell my date that I don't drive and why..and I'm perplexed as to how this date is going to be arranged..should I ask for him to come here? is that asking to much on the first date? I don't want to lie, yet I don't want to dish out my medical history before we even get together, you know?
Any advice? How should I approach it. I have always been self conscious about this issue with dating, friends, going out, and just everyday..how do I handle it?
Any ideas? thanksFirst Date advice needed!?
just tell him you don't have a car. he would be nice enough to come pick you up:)
Any advice? How should I approach it. I have always been self conscious about this issue with dating, friends, going out, and just everyday..how do I handle it?
Any ideas? thanksFirst Date advice needed!?
just tell him you don't have a car. he would be nice enough to come pick you up:)
Post first date advice?
I haven't been interested in dating for a while now, until I met a really great guy at a party. We hit it off and contacted each other on facebook. He mentioned he would like to see me, so we met up. The day went great and we had a very good and friendly connection. We had to cut short because he said he had some activities later on (he told me what they were). So he walked me to the metro and we hugged, I mentioned to him a Photography expo I wanted to invite him to which was happening later on in the week and he asked me to forward him the info. So I went home thinking it was really the best date of my life and forwarded him the information that evening. It's been 48 hours now and he hasn't contacted me back and the event is tomorrow. Should I call him or just forget about him all together?Post first date advice?
DO NOT CALL. DO NOT WRITE. He had an opportunity to say yes, and he didn't. That doesn't necessarily mean he isn't in to you, but if you repeat the invitation, he might get turned off that you are so persistant.
So here is what you do. Go to your thing. Get DOLLED UP. Get some friends to go with you. Take a bunch of pictures of you having a great time, and post them on FaceBook (I don't know how facebook works, if you can't post pics, maybe send him an email saying ';here's what you missed! wish you could have come out!';)
guys love the hunt. girls love the hunt. we all love chasing the opposite sex. it's no fun when they won't run! just be cool. Make him salivate at the thought of getting to hang out with your awesome a$$. Make him wanna kick himself for missing out on this chance to hang out with such a cool, carefree chick.Post first date advice?
Turns out he was gay. STRANGE
Well that stinks! I think if he really liked you he would of contacted you about going. And not left you hanging! That's just not fair. Are you sure his internet isn't down? If your not sure call him, at the worst he can reject you. And you can move on. Or he can tell you why he's going or not going! It'll be ok! I really feel like if things are meant to be they will be! So let the cards fall where they may!
casually call asking him if he will be able to make it... maybe he wsas just being himself and doesnt realize that you might like him... i sugest hang out a couple more times to see how he reacts, then either be the first to take initiative or keep waiting...
i say take initiative, i feel now a days theres to much pressure on us guys to always be making the first move, and girls dont seem to understand that it is just as hard for us to make the first move
Call him. Don't loose this possible connection because you are reading too much into his not calling you. Give him the benefit of the doubt this one time and assume he has been really busy. If his behavior is strange or standoffish then you know your answer. But just think he could be the one for you. You'll never know if you don't call. Good Luck.
did u ever stop to think that maybe the reason he cut the date short was because he wasn't attracted to you and he didn't have the balls to tell you. having you forward the info. was a easy way out for him. take a friend, you'll have more fun.
Simple truth... If he really wanted to go and make the effort to see you, he would have made sure to get back to you by now one way or another. :( i'm sorry
Yeah, him asking you to forward him the info is something I do to my clients when they want to talk my ear off about a really uninteresting proposition. So I think that's a good clue.
u dont wana seem too clingy so just simply and casually ask him r u in for plans tomorrow or not? dont b like ';r u gona come? r u gona come? it will be fun! blah blah blah'; i dont think many guys like that kind of stuff haha
Are you not falling in a trap
call him
I think you reached out to him and gave him an easy way to ask you out again. He hasn't. There's no guy that is so busy that he can't call a girl that he is interested in. In general, I think that lots of guys don't want to just turn a girl down flat, so that ';I'll call you'; or ';I'll emal you'; is kind of a generic way to say goodbye at the end of a date. I wouldn't read too much into it.
I would just keep going out with your friends and having fun and doing activities you like - and you'll meet someone who likes you enough ask you out a second time. It's ok if this guy isn't one of them, lots of others will be!
If you want to go to the Expo, go alone and have a great time. Maybe you'll meet someone new there.
DO NOT CALL. DO NOT WRITE. He had an opportunity to say yes, and he didn't. That doesn't necessarily mean he isn't in to you, but if you repeat the invitation, he might get turned off that you are so persistant.
So here is what you do. Go to your thing. Get DOLLED UP. Get some friends to go with you. Take a bunch of pictures of you having a great time, and post them on FaceBook (I don't know how facebook works, if you can't post pics, maybe send him an email saying ';here's what you missed! wish you could have come out!';)
guys love the hunt. girls love the hunt. we all love chasing the opposite sex. it's no fun when they won't run! just be cool. Make him salivate at the thought of getting to hang out with your awesome a$$. Make him wanna kick himself for missing out on this chance to hang out with such a cool, carefree chick.Post first date advice?
Turns out he was gay. STRANGE
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Well that stinks! I think if he really liked you he would of contacted you about going. And not left you hanging! That's just not fair. Are you sure his internet isn't down? If your not sure call him, at the worst he can reject you. And you can move on. Or he can tell you why he's going or not going! It'll be ok! I really feel like if things are meant to be they will be! So let the cards fall where they may!
casually call asking him if he will be able to make it... maybe he wsas just being himself and doesnt realize that you might like him... i sugest hang out a couple more times to see how he reacts, then either be the first to take initiative or keep waiting...
i say take initiative, i feel now a days theres to much pressure on us guys to always be making the first move, and girls dont seem to understand that it is just as hard for us to make the first move
Call him. Don't loose this possible connection because you are reading too much into his not calling you. Give him the benefit of the doubt this one time and assume he has been really busy. If his behavior is strange or standoffish then you know your answer. But just think he could be the one for you. You'll never know if you don't call. Good Luck.
did u ever stop to think that maybe the reason he cut the date short was because he wasn't attracted to you and he didn't have the balls to tell you. having you forward the info. was a easy way out for him. take a friend, you'll have more fun.
Simple truth... If he really wanted to go and make the effort to see you, he would have made sure to get back to you by now one way or another. :( i'm sorry
Yeah, him asking you to forward him the info is something I do to my clients when they want to talk my ear off about a really uninteresting proposition. So I think that's a good clue.
u dont wana seem too clingy so just simply and casually ask him r u in for plans tomorrow or not? dont b like ';r u gona come? r u gona come? it will be fun! blah blah blah'; i dont think many guys like that kind of stuff haha
Are you not falling in a trap
call him
I think you reached out to him and gave him an easy way to ask you out again. He hasn't. There's no guy that is so busy that he can't call a girl that he is interested in. In general, I think that lots of guys don't want to just turn a girl down flat, so that ';I'll call you'; or ';I'll emal you'; is kind of a generic way to say goodbye at the end of a date. I wouldn't read too much into it.
I would just keep going out with your friends and having fun and doing activities you like - and you'll meet someone who likes you enough ask you out a second time. It's ok if this guy isn't one of them, lots of others will be!
If you want to go to the Expo, go alone and have a great time. Maybe you'll meet someone new there.
Quick: Help Need dating Advice, for first date!?
Ok so I met this girl online, she's almost 18, I'm almost 22. So I am meeting the parents on the first date, and they don't know my age. Were going to try and avoid it if possible lol. But my question is, since we been talking over the last week, and I already gained some bouns points for a sweet thing I did for her, like watching the sunset over the phone. Should I give her a simple gift? I bought a little pink bunny, but am iffy, yet trying to be thoughfull and make a good imprestion on the parents. So since it's my first time I meet her, and HER PARENTS!!! Never done that before lol, should I do that, and what should I know. Or should I not bring Anything?Quick: Help Need dating Advice, for first date!?
bring the bunny...it would be cute...and chocolates maybe...a plain milk chocolate...give it to her in the car...Quick: Help Need dating Advice, for first date!?
tell them up-front, tell them that you'll take care of her and that she'll b home early. don't bring her a giant thing of flowers, just bring her a little necklace or bracelet. do not have sex with this chick. until she turns 18 keep it down to a hug and a kiss. be respectful and patient.
give her the bunny at the end of the date when your dropping her off at the door and peck her on her cheek. she'll be dazed.
Give her the bunny in the car that way it's between you and her and not her parents..........I think it would be less awkward for you.
bring her the bunny, you should try to get a small chocolate thing for her to. :D
Im not so sure about the online thing...gloss
bring the bunny...it would be cute...and chocolates maybe...a plain milk chocolate...give it to her in the car...Quick: Help Need dating Advice, for first date!?
tell them up-front, tell them that you'll take care of her and that she'll b home early. don't bring her a giant thing of flowers, just bring her a little necklace or bracelet. do not have sex with this chick. until she turns 18 keep it down to a hug and a kiss. be respectful and patient.
give her the bunny at the end of the date when your dropping her off at the door and peck her on her cheek. she'll be dazed.
Give her the bunny in the car that way it's between you and her and not her parents..........I think it would be less awkward for you.
bring her the bunny, you should try to get a small chocolate thing for her to. :D
Im not so sure about the online thing...
Im taking my gf on a date to see stay alive can anyone give me dating advice?
im new at this so i need alot ALOT of helpIm taking my gf on a date to see stay alive can anyone give me dating advice?
It is good that you are asking some advice for this,.
You are new and need to be nice to ';any girl'; you meet
in your future. You need to be kind and sweet too.
Women like men that respect them. If a woman does not care
about respect then you must look for another one.
Respect is a very important thing in life. It makes or breaks relationships.
You need to see how she is too. Observe her and see if she is kind, and sweet.
There is no world worse that an unkind world.
You must therefore make it a kind sweet world.
Good luck my friend.
write me if you want more tips.
doctorkersey@yahoo.comIm taking my gf on a date to see stay alive can anyone give me dating advice?
DON'T see that movie unless u guys are nerds lol. I'd suggest another first date movie (unless u r into that sort of thing)
Just ask your girlfriend what she wants to do.
Try and keep the conversation going. Awkward silences are no fun. Occasionally try and touch her shoulder, arm, but not too much. Talk about your interests, but also try and bring up her interests. Ask questions about her, what she likes to do, favorite bands, etc. Good luck.
It depends if she's fearful or fearless. If she's fearful cancel the trip right now buster! Well maybe you can if you trust that she'll put her head on your shoulder. But if she's fearless break out the popcorn and soda. Put your arm around her and rub her shoulder.
Next time you pick a movie you think she would like that's all i have sadly maybe if i knew more about what kind of girl she is and what kind if person you are i could tell you more... but i'm fairly new at this sort of thing to but that is what i would do so yeah...
for one...shes your girl so she likes you.. be yourself. be sweet and buy her flowers make it fun so that she wants to go on another date.
don't go see stay alive first of all and second no matter what your friends told you don't pressure her and don't let her pressure you because a lot can happen to change your life forever.
It is good that you are asking some advice for this,.
You are new and need to be nice to ';any girl'; you meet
in your future. You need to be kind and sweet too.
Women like men that respect them. If a woman does not care
about respect then you must look for another one.
Respect is a very important thing in life. It makes or breaks relationships.
You need to see how she is too. Observe her and see if she is kind, and sweet.
There is no world worse that an unkind world.
You must therefore make it a kind sweet world.
Good luck my friend.
write me if you want more tips.
doctorkersey@yahoo.comIm taking my gf on a date to see stay alive can anyone give me dating advice?
DON'T see that movie unless u guys are nerds lol. I'd suggest another first date movie (unless u r into that sort of thing)
Just ask your girlfriend what she wants to do.
Try and keep the conversation going. Awkward silences are no fun. Occasionally try and touch her shoulder, arm, but not too much. Talk about your interests, but also try and bring up her interests. Ask questions about her, what she likes to do, favorite bands, etc. Good luck.
It depends if she's fearful or fearless. If she's fearful cancel the trip right now buster! Well maybe you can if you trust that she'll put her head on your shoulder. But if she's fearless break out the popcorn and soda. Put your arm around her and rub her shoulder.
Next time you pick a movie you think she would like that's all i have sadly maybe if i knew more about what kind of girl she is and what kind if person you are i could tell you more... but i'm fairly new at this sort of thing to but that is what i would do so yeah...
for one...shes your girl so she likes you.. be yourself. be sweet and buy her flowers make it fun so that she wants to go on another date.
don't go see stay alive first of all and second no matter what your friends told you don't pressure her and don't let her pressure you because a lot can happen to change your life forever.
1st date advice?
Ok, I am going to my 1st date with a girl I really like. We are going to see a comedy/family movie at a huge theater. Is there any advice, suchas when to do the ';arm around'; (where I like yawn then move my arm behind her back), or when, where, and which date should I give the kiss. I was thinking like, 1st date, walk her up to her door then say that was fun we should do this again, then 2nd date I give her a little soft kiss on the cheek, then a couple dates later we kiss on the lips. Oh and how can I get the courage to sit there and kiss a girl on the lips or cheeks, i mean, this is my first date? PLEASE HELP!!!1st date advice?
go straight come straight do nothing that she run up forever1st date advice?
Practice kissing the back of your hand... for practice...
Just be warm and friendly , don't put pressure on her, and enjoy the night out. Being that it's the first date, a peck on the cheek or lips is fine. A girl will be impressed that you didn't try to maul her, the first time out. Maybe even intrigued enough to see you again. Have a great date. Peace.
if she sleeps with you she is a hoe
lol your looking way into the future man. Take one date at a time, make sure you have mints.
2nd just hold her hand dont scare this girl the first time, unless yall have a great connection just take it easy. Your not gonna impress this girl by putting your arms around her, take a JACKET it gets cold in those theaters offer it to her and put in around her shoulders you might get a kiss. Tell her when you see her than she looks beautiful.
3rd. dont rush
4 wait till about the 3rd date to try and make the move girls some at least ones i know respect when you take your time, unless shes easy if shes easy tell her to wear a mini skirt, lol jk
anyways i wish you the best of luck
USE THE JACKET
Don't plan any of these things out (especially kissing!!!!!). Let them happen naturally.
Choosing something to do on a first date can be very difficult. You and your date do not know each other and this means that you do not know what they do and do not like doing. Ask your date what they would like to do, but if they do not have any suggestion be decisive and make a suggestion, like your favourite restaurant. Make sure they understand what type of place it is and make sure it is ok with them. If not, be flexible and maybe suggest somewhere else or ask them where they would like to go.
When the first date is over, after walking my date to the door, I almost always give her a kiss on the cheek . 9 times out of 10 (unless the date just goes horribly wrong), you can expect a hug. During the hug...I just do it. It's nothing more than a peck, really. It's not long enough or placed in such a way to make her feel uncomfortable. Plus, it lets her know that I like her. However, if you find yourself too nervous to do that...then don't. Just go at your own pace.
Unfortunately, there's no magic formula that will give you the courage to kiss her. When the time is right, you just have to ';man up'; and go for it (hopefully she also thought it was the right time).
NOTE: Don't try to do the ';yawning, arm stretch thing';, that's just lame. In fact, except for the hug at the end, don't worry about the intentional touching (i.e. holding hands, ';arm around';, hand on her knee, and such) until later on down the road.
Movies are a good first date, as long as you have some time afterward to hang out then you have something to talk about and don't have to worry about breaking the ice.
If you do have the ability to have this conversation afterward, eventually the conversation will drift away from the movie and hopefully into deeper things. At this point, it would be best to move in closer to her as long as you feel she is comfortable. When there is a lull in the conversation, and you feel that the both of you have connected on another level, then move in closer, wait for a reaction, if she doesn't draw back then go and intiate the kiss and hope for the best.
Other people will tell you that its bad to kiss on the first date and what not, but it's really up to you and her.
Also, you can look around for ';clues'; of sorts whether she wants you to kiss her. She'll play with her hair, or look at your eyes, then your lips and back to your eyes. Stuff like that.
As for second dates, I would suggest just spending time with you and her alone away from the public eye.
Best of luck!
You shouldn't kiss her just yet. If she like you, then that's even better not to kiss her. Keep her waiting until your next date together. It'll keep anticipation in the relationship. The arm around the shoulder in the theater is probably an ok move for the first date. It could be a little forward, but you could try it. Tell us how it goes. That's my opinion.
you really shouldnt follow all these relationships rules. these when and when to not do things. because honestly and truthfully..theres no right way or wrong way to doing any of these things. i would say that you should wait until the next couple of dates or until you and her are real cool friends to get all up close and personal and start to kiss her and everything, alot of people really dont like that if they are not that comfortable with you, you dont want to scare her away with your fast moves, you just have to wait and see when you both are comfortable and when the time feels right is when you do things, theres no list or timelimit or dates when you have to do something thats when you will mess things all up trust me. so take your time, dont rush, do it when it feels right, and dont do that arm around thing when you yawn, thats lame, just be yourself like i said. good luck!
After you put your arm around her, pull her in close for a grope and slip her some tongue. On the second date, offer to eat her out while you touch yourself in all your dirty, dirty places.
aw, how cute! well, relax, smell good, but not too good, she might choke from you wearing too much cologne, BE YOURSELF, that's the most important, doing the little gentleman things, such as opening the door for her, making a lot of eye contact and smiling always work. Yes, the first date, you walk her to her door, and you follow her lead...sort of feel out what she looks like she's about to do...NO kissing though. yes, letting her know you enjoyed the night, is good, you're on the right track, you just need to keep everything rolling smooth and natural, be sure to have some back up questions in your head, in case of awkward silences...conversation and chemistry make or break a date...good luck ohhh and ALWAYS offer her popcorn and drink, and if she says she's fine, get popcorn and a drink ANYWAY. TRUST ME, girls are sometimes shy to say they want some, espcially on first dates. you can share some popcorn with her, when yall are settled in (good way of getting kinda close) and you can rest the arm thats closest to her on the arm rest and work your way to her hand, if it's natural, if you have to leap out of your seat to grab it, don't bother, girls who want you to hold their hand, will make their hands very easy to grab, well not grab, hold...good luck
ask her pallidly if you my kiss her, if yes , don't get all sloppy on her, she will let you no how far (SHE) wont's to go.
go straight come straight do nothing that she run up forever1st date advice?
Practice kissing the back of your hand... for practice...
Just be warm and friendly , don't put pressure on her, and enjoy the night out. Being that it's the first date, a peck on the cheek or lips is fine. A girl will be impressed that you didn't try to maul her, the first time out. Maybe even intrigued enough to see you again. Have a great date. Peace.
if she sleeps with you she is a hoe
lol your looking way into the future man. Take one date at a time, make sure you have mints.
2nd just hold her hand dont scare this girl the first time, unless yall have a great connection just take it easy. Your not gonna impress this girl by putting your arms around her, take a JACKET it gets cold in those theaters offer it to her and put in around her shoulders you might get a kiss. Tell her when you see her than she looks beautiful.
3rd. dont rush
4 wait till about the 3rd date to try and make the move girls some at least ones i know respect when you take your time, unless shes easy if shes easy tell her to wear a mini skirt, lol jk
anyways i wish you the best of luck
USE THE JACKET
Don't plan any of these things out (especially kissing!!!!!). Let them happen naturally.
Choosing something to do on a first date can be very difficult. You and your date do not know each other and this means that you do not know what they do and do not like doing. Ask your date what they would like to do, but if they do not have any suggestion be decisive and make a suggestion, like your favourite restaurant. Make sure they understand what type of place it is and make sure it is ok with them. If not, be flexible and maybe suggest somewhere else or ask them where they would like to go.
When the first date is over, after walking my date to the door, I almost always give her a kiss on the cheek . 9 times out of 10 (unless the date just goes horribly wrong), you can expect a hug. During the hug...I just do it. It's nothing more than a peck, really. It's not long enough or placed in such a way to make her feel uncomfortable. Plus, it lets her know that I like her. However, if you find yourself too nervous to do that...then don't. Just go at your own pace.
Unfortunately, there's no magic formula that will give you the courage to kiss her. When the time is right, you just have to ';man up'; and go for it (hopefully she also thought it was the right time).
NOTE: Don't try to do the ';yawning, arm stretch thing';, that's just lame. In fact, except for the hug at the end, don't worry about the intentional touching (i.e. holding hands, ';arm around';, hand on her knee, and such) until later on down the road.
Movies are a good first date, as long as you have some time afterward to hang out then you have something to talk about and don't have to worry about breaking the ice.
If you do have the ability to have this conversation afterward, eventually the conversation will drift away from the movie and hopefully into deeper things. At this point, it would be best to move in closer to her as long as you feel she is comfortable. When there is a lull in the conversation, and you feel that the both of you have connected on another level, then move in closer, wait for a reaction, if she doesn't draw back then go and intiate the kiss and hope for the best.
Other people will tell you that its bad to kiss on the first date and what not, but it's really up to you and her.
Also, you can look around for ';clues'; of sorts whether she wants you to kiss her. She'll play with her hair, or look at your eyes, then your lips and back to your eyes. Stuff like that.
As for second dates, I would suggest just spending time with you and her alone away from the public eye.
Best of luck!
You shouldn't kiss her just yet. If she like you, then that's even better not to kiss her. Keep her waiting until your next date together. It'll keep anticipation in the relationship. The arm around the shoulder in the theater is probably an ok move for the first date. It could be a little forward, but you could try it. Tell us how it goes. That's my opinion.
you really shouldnt follow all these relationships rules. these when and when to not do things. because honestly and truthfully..theres no right way or wrong way to doing any of these things. i would say that you should wait until the next couple of dates or until you and her are real cool friends to get all up close and personal and start to kiss her and everything, alot of people really dont like that if they are not that comfortable with you, you dont want to scare her away with your fast moves, you just have to wait and see when you both are comfortable and when the time feels right is when you do things, theres no list or timelimit or dates when you have to do something thats when you will mess things all up trust me. so take your time, dont rush, do it when it feels right, and dont do that arm around thing when you yawn, thats lame, just be yourself like i said. good luck!
After you put your arm around her, pull her in close for a grope and slip her some tongue. On the second date, offer to eat her out while you touch yourself in all your dirty, dirty places.
aw, how cute! well, relax, smell good, but not too good, she might choke from you wearing too much cologne, BE YOURSELF, that's the most important, doing the little gentleman things, such as opening the door for her, making a lot of eye contact and smiling always work. Yes, the first date, you walk her to her door, and you follow her lead...sort of feel out what she looks like she's about to do...NO kissing though. yes, letting her know you enjoyed the night, is good, you're on the right track, you just need to keep everything rolling smooth and natural, be sure to have some back up questions in your head, in case of awkward silences...conversation and chemistry make or break a date...good luck ohhh and ALWAYS offer her popcorn and drink, and if she says she's fine, get popcorn and a drink ANYWAY. TRUST ME, girls are sometimes shy to say they want some, espcially on first dates. you can share some popcorn with her, when yall are settled in (good way of getting kinda close) and you can rest the arm thats closest to her on the arm rest and work your way to her hand, if it's natural, if you have to leap out of your seat to grab it, don't bother, girls who want you to hold their hand, will make their hands very easy to grab, well not grab, hold...good luck
ask her pallidly if you my kiss her, if yes , don't get all sloppy on her, she will let you no how far (SHE) wont's to go.
Prom Date Advice? Pleasee Help!?
Okay so everyone think this kid is going to ask me to prom. We are pretty good friends so I don't want to ruin the friendship and I don't like him as more than a friend. He texted me today and told me he had to ask me something tomorrow that he couldn't say through texting. I think he might be trying to ask me to prom! I kinda just want to go as friends but I'm afraid he will think I like him as more. I don't know what to tell him! How do I let him know I just want to be friends without breaking his heart/being mean?Prom Date Advice? Pleasee Help!?
just say yes and go with him but if he starts getting all lovey dovey tell him that u just want to go as friends cuz his friendship is really valuable to u :)Prom Date Advice? Pleasee Help!?
just say you arent ready for a relationship with him, and if you want go to prom with him just as friend, and have fun, and dance.
just say yes and go with him but if he starts getting all lovey dovey tell him that u just want to go as friends cuz his friendship is really valuable to u :)Prom Date Advice? Pleasee Help!?
just say you arent ready for a relationship with him, and if you want go to prom with him just as friend, and have fun, and dance.
Blind date advice? (Guys preferrably)?
I've got a blind date set up by a friend coming up on Saturday. The guy and I have been talking for a couple weeks, on the phone, and we seem to have a good connection. We've seen pics and are aware of what the other one looks like, face and body. I'm just nervous that i'll mess the date up with my nerves!! I'd be really interested in dating him if the date goes well and I like him in person (he said the same) so I was wondering, Guys, what would keep you interested in a girl in person?Blind date advice? (Guys preferrably)?
A girl with a sense of humor.
SteveCBlind date advice? (Guys preferrably)?
Chemistry is always good. You both want to be having fun on your date, so leave depressing topics off the discourse menu. Try to ask him about himself, we men are vain and enjoy talking about ourselves.
Just remember to keep the conversation light and going, you never want uncomfortable silences. So plan a couple of subjects in advance and keep your conversations flowing.
(Also, it never hurts if you're looking your best, smiling, and laughing a lot. It makes us more engaged.)
be your self. everybodys nerves will be jerky. if you keep your self real and he likes you you will know.
You can get some really good dating advice at http://www.datingwar.com
Well I know it's cliche, but be yourself. If he likes the You that he knows on the phone, it's not too much of a stretch that he'll like the You that he meets in person. So don't try to be something different.
But if you do decide to be different, at least be funny. ;)
A girl with a sense of humor.
SteveCBlind date advice? (Guys preferrably)?
Chemistry is always good. You both want to be having fun on your date, so leave depressing topics off the discourse menu. Try to ask him about himself, we men are vain and enjoy talking about ourselves.
Just remember to keep the conversation light and going, you never want uncomfortable silences. So plan a couple of subjects in advance and keep your conversations flowing.
(Also, it never hurts if you're looking your best, smiling, and laughing a lot. It makes us more engaged.)
be your self. everybodys nerves will be jerky. if you keep your self real and he likes you you will know.
You can get some really good dating advice at http://www.datingwar.com
Well I know it's cliche, but be yourself. If he likes the You that he knows on the phone, it's not too much of a stretch that he'll like the You that he meets in person. So don't try to be something different.
But if you do decide to be different, at least be funny. ;)
First Date Advice: Please Help!!!!!!!!?
I'm going on a date with a guy in a few days. We're going to the movies. I'm really, really nervous. I like him, but I've never been on a date before, and I'm afraid of screwing it up, and making him regret ever asking me out.
What should I wear? What should I say? What should I do?
He also wants to pay, but I hate it when people pay for me, because then I feel really, really bad about it. He seems to really want to pay.
Also, when we were hanging out before, and not even ofically dating, he asked if he could kiss me. We had hung out numerous times, all of them snuggling up with each other, so it's not like he just wants some action. I told him no, because we weren't even oficially dating yet.
So what if he tries to kiss me? I don't know if I'm ready or not.
Please help!!!!!!!!
(I'm 14, almost 15, btw)First Date Advice: Please Help!!!!!!!!?
your goig to a movie so you shouldnt have to say much.
If uyou dont liek it whne he pays, let him buy the tickets and you buy the popcorn.
if he wants to kiss you let him if you really like him. you will know if yur ready.First Date Advice: Please Help!!!!!!!!?
dont worry everything will work out, but i will tell you that the more you worry the worse it will be
He pays for tickets and you pay for food. But if he insist paying for everything let him. Dont argue with him alot, just say that you can buy the food and if he says no i will buy it then let him.
Wear something cute. Maybe a cute pair of jeans and a cute shirt. You wanna be confortable but a little more dressy than a pair of sweats. But just be yourself.
And what should you say? Just be yourself and just act like you normaly do when you hang out with him.
Ask yourself if you are ready to kiss him now, if you are then i say go for it. but if you are not ready to he should understand and not pressure you into it.
Most importantly...
Have fun!
juat relax dont were antin 2 low or short just wear wat u usually do going out dont over do it with make-up or anything just let him pay if he really wants 2
good luck:D
My advice is to just relax and have fun. Wear something cute....maybe a pair of jeans and a cute t-shirt or blouse. Don't get too dressed up since it's only a movie. Don't worry about what to say...the conversation should flow. If all else fails ask about his favorite movies, music, etc. You can ask if he has any vacation plans for summer. Basic things like that. About the money thing, guys can be pretty stubborn when it comes to that. You can offer to pay for yourself when you're there, but if he insists...just let him pay. It's no big deal. About the kiss...if you don't think you're ready, then just tell him that. Say you don't want to right now. He should understand.
Have fun and enjoy yourself =)
Oh gosh haha I'm probably not the one to give you advice
I go to the movies all the time with girls but never as a ';date.';
I would say, though, figure out whether or not YOU want to kiss him now and if you don't, then make sure you don't. Worry more about yourself than him.
I doubt he's wearing something formal, and if he isn't I just wouldn't worry about it... but you can ask him if you want. Being a guy that's reallly the only ';clothing choice'; I would think about... formal or not formal... just wear something cute :)
Say and do? Whatever you'd do if you weren't on a date and you were going to see a movie.
And if you want to pay, then offer to pay once, and if he says no then just let it go. You can catch the next date if you want.
Hope I helped :)
kayy first of all, relaxx youre gonna have an amazing time! secondd, wear something cutee and casuall but not too casual. like jeans with a flowy top or a sun dress, or shorts with a nice tee, etc. thirdlyy, let him pay its common courtesy and thats how a guy should treat a girl especialllyyy on a date! and about the kissing- let it come naturally. if youve had a really good time on the date and the thought of kissing him excites you, go for it. if your not really feeling, well dont do something that you dont really want to. idk if this is your first kiss, but if it is, dont waste it on someone who you dont feel that ready with. if you did have a lot of fun but still feel a little uncomfortable, theres always the next timee, so dont feel rushed. put a little not a lottt of makeup on, mascara, liner and a touch of gloss, and a little bronzer for a sun kissed natural llook. overall HAVE FUNN! be nice and your normal self in the movie theater and if u run out of convo, talk about the upcoming movie! like i said before, have funn this is something you'll always remember! hope this helpedd(: enjoy yourr dateeeeeee!
Let him pay, let him kiss you, act natural
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What should I wear? What should I say? What should I do?
He also wants to pay, but I hate it when people pay for me, because then I feel really, really bad about it. He seems to really want to pay.
Also, when we were hanging out before, and not even ofically dating, he asked if he could kiss me. We had hung out numerous times, all of them snuggling up with each other, so it's not like he just wants some action. I told him no, because we weren't even oficially dating yet.
So what if he tries to kiss me? I don't know if I'm ready or not.
Please help!!!!!!!!
(I'm 14, almost 15, btw)First Date Advice: Please Help!!!!!!!!?
your goig to a movie so you shouldnt have to say much.
If uyou dont liek it whne he pays, let him buy the tickets and you buy the popcorn.
if he wants to kiss you let him if you really like him. you will know if yur ready.First Date Advice: Please Help!!!!!!!!?
dont worry everything will work out, but i will tell you that the more you worry the worse it will be
He pays for tickets and you pay for food. But if he insist paying for everything let him. Dont argue with him alot, just say that you can buy the food and if he says no i will buy it then let him.
Wear something cute. Maybe a cute pair of jeans and a cute shirt. You wanna be confortable but a little more dressy than a pair of sweats. But just be yourself.
And what should you say? Just be yourself and just act like you normaly do when you hang out with him.
Ask yourself if you are ready to kiss him now, if you are then i say go for it. but if you are not ready to he should understand and not pressure you into it.
Most importantly...
Have fun!
juat relax dont were antin 2 low or short just wear wat u usually do going out dont over do it with make-up or anything just let him pay if he really wants 2
good luck:D
My advice is to just relax and have fun. Wear something cute....maybe a pair of jeans and a cute t-shirt or blouse. Don't get too dressed up since it's only a movie. Don't worry about what to say...the conversation should flow. If all else fails ask about his favorite movies, music, etc. You can ask if he has any vacation plans for summer. Basic things like that. About the money thing, guys can be pretty stubborn when it comes to that. You can offer to pay for yourself when you're there, but if he insists...just let him pay. It's no big deal. About the kiss...if you don't think you're ready, then just tell him that. Say you don't want to right now. He should understand.
Have fun and enjoy yourself =)
Oh gosh haha I'm probably not the one to give you advice
I go to the movies all the time with girls but never as a ';date.';
I would say, though, figure out whether or not YOU want to kiss him now and if you don't, then make sure you don't. Worry more about yourself than him.
I doubt he's wearing something formal, and if he isn't I just wouldn't worry about it... but you can ask him if you want. Being a guy that's reallly the only ';clothing choice'; I would think about... formal or not formal... just wear something cute :)
Say and do? Whatever you'd do if you weren't on a date and you were going to see a movie.
And if you want to pay, then offer to pay once, and if he says no then just let it go. You can catch the next date if you want.
Hope I helped :)
kayy first of all, relaxx youre gonna have an amazing time! secondd, wear something cutee and casuall but not too casual. like jeans with a flowy top or a sun dress, or shorts with a nice tee, etc. thirdlyy, let him pay its common courtesy and thats how a guy should treat a girl especialllyyy on a date! and about the kissing- let it come naturally. if youve had a really good time on the date and the thought of kissing him excites you, go for it. if your not really feeling, well dont do something that you dont really want to. idk if this is your first kiss, but if it is, dont waste it on someone who you dont feel that ready with. if you did have a lot of fun but still feel a little uncomfortable, theres always the next timee, so dont feel rushed. put a little not a lottt of makeup on, mascara, liner and a touch of gloss, and a little bronzer for a sun kissed natural llook. overall HAVE FUNN! be nice and your normal self in the movie theater and if u run out of convo, talk about the upcoming movie! like i said before, have funn this is something you'll always remember! hope this helpedd(: enjoy yourr dateeeeeee!
Let him pay, let him kiss you, act natural
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First Date Advice Needed?
ok well I';m 20 and this guy that is taking me on a date tomorrow. he is 21. He's in the navy and is treating me to dinner, and a movie. Then he is taking me to the beach thats really nice. I just wondering what I should wear. I have this nice light tan long fomal shirt that has a small v-neck and i was thinking of wearing it with jeans and maybe a light tan blazer to go with it, idk if that would match. If not then i have this brown short sleeve formal shirt that would probably also work with the blazer. I was thinking of wearing heels as well.
and type of make up should I wear? I have blue eyes, and brown w/ blonde highlights =) Any advice is welcome =) Thanks =)First Date Advice Needed?
u r over thinking it. if he likes u he wont care what u wear. just wear whatevergloss
and type of make up should I wear? I have blue eyes, and brown w/ blonde highlights =) Any advice is welcome =) Thanks =)First Date Advice Needed?
u r over thinking it. if he likes u he wont care what u wear. just wear whatever
First date advice from the ladies, please?
Ladies, I need your help. I have always been very successful with dating women. However, I believe something changed while being with a woman for a few years. It's been 4 years since that relationship and I'm ready to date again, but haven't had much luck. I have a first date tomorrow with a lovely lady, but could use some advice. we are having dinner in a low key restaurant and hope to share some laughs, but any tips and advice on what to say and do would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you in advance.First date advice from the ladies, please?
just be yourself. compliment her. be witty. dont kiss her yet. give it time. dont try to rush into anything. take things slow. end the night with a hug. that should guarantee a second date. and just relax. its not like your on trial. dont be too tense. just chill and let things flow naturally. if it doesnt work out it doesnt matter, there are plenty more where that came from(:
good luck honey鈾?br>
hope everything works out fine.First date advice from the ladies, please?
Ask her questions about herself, act as if you are interested to know more about her and shows you really care and a good listener.
Act like yourself, is the BEST advice to be given.
If you act like someone else, then she won't like you for the real you.
I'm sure you will do great, and have an amazing time with your lady!
Good Luck
Dont make it too formal, ugh i hate when theres that akward silence.
Just seriously do what they do in the movies, lol talk about your favorite stuff, hobbies, sports, food. youll know plenty more of each other by the end of the date :D
When you pick her up, compliment her. Be funny throughout the night. You have to make her feel special. Open doors for her and pay, even when she tries to pay.
Thank you in advance.First date advice from the ladies, please?
just be yourself. compliment her. be witty. dont kiss her yet. give it time. dont try to rush into anything. take things slow. end the night with a hug. that should guarantee a second date. and just relax. its not like your on trial. dont be too tense. just chill and let things flow naturally. if it doesnt work out it doesnt matter, there are plenty more where that came from(:
good luck honey鈾?br>
hope everything works out fine.First date advice from the ladies, please?
Ask her questions about herself, act as if you are interested to know more about her and shows you really care and a good listener.
Act like yourself, is the BEST advice to be given.
If you act like someone else, then she won't like you for the real you.
I'm sure you will do great, and have an amazing time with your lady!
Good Luck
Dont make it too formal, ugh i hate when theres that akward silence.
Just seriously do what they do in the movies, lol talk about your favorite stuff, hobbies, sports, food. youll know plenty more of each other by the end of the date :D
When you pick her up, compliment her. Be funny throughout the night. You have to make her feel special. Open doors for her and pay, even when she tries to pay.
2nd date advice?
I have a 2nd date tonight with someone I met on an online dating site...now it seemed to go good the first time and now hopefully tonight will be the same with dinner and bowling.... we are both in our mid 30s and I really hate the dating scene to begin with...but hey it is fun too
Now I did offer to pick her up tonight, but I knew she would probably still want to just meet me at the restaurant ...which is fine in my book because of it being too soon and its a big step kind of to pick her up only meeting once....but now what is the steps to take if we drive from the restaurant to the bowling alley together....open the car door Im sure....umm what if she drives and afterwards if she doesn't get out of the car...how would I at least get a hug in
Im guessing the first kiss won't happen tonight but who knows...that I will base on if I feel the time is right...but a hug I feel is alright if I am able to find the right time...any advice
Is it too soon to kiss?2nd date advice?
Whoa, slow down kiddo. I hate giving this advice- but the best thing you can do is tease her but make her come to you for a kiss. If she wants it, she'll make herself available. But don't rush into it, because she won't be as intrigued with you. I'm telling you, a little hard-to-get and coyness works for men as well as women in the dating world.
Now I did offer to pick her up tonight, but I knew she would probably still want to just meet me at the restaurant ...which is fine in my book because of it being too soon and its a big step kind of to pick her up only meeting once....but now what is the steps to take if we drive from the restaurant to the bowling alley together....open the car door Im sure....umm what if she drives and afterwards if she doesn't get out of the car...how would I at least get a hug in
Im guessing the first kiss won't happen tonight but who knows...that I will base on if I feel the time is right...but a hug I feel is alright if I am able to find the right time...any advice
Is it too soon to kiss?2nd date advice?
Whoa, slow down kiddo. I hate giving this advice- but the best thing you can do is tease her but make her come to you for a kiss. If she wants it, she'll make herself available. But don't rush into it, because she won't be as intrigued with you. I'm telling you, a little hard-to-get and coyness works for men as well as women in the dating world.
1st Date Advice!! Plz?
So I'm going on the first date with my girlfriend tomorrow. I need to know what do you think I should do with my hair? How should I style it?
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LUCKY FOR YOU.. you have amazing hair. Brush it out really nicely and make sure its covering one of your eyes, because when guys do that, most girls I know think its pretty freaking hot!
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p.s All the other pics are from maybe 2 months ago maybe even 31st Date Advice!! Plz?
LUCKY FOR YOU.. you have amazing hair. Brush it out really nicely and make sure its covering one of your eyes, because when guys do that, most girls I know think its pretty freaking hot!
Second date advice for a 21 year old? Please and thank you!?
So I am going on a date with a guy in the military. He is 26 and I am 21. He has been married before. I have not. We had lunch yesterday and have been talking here and there all through out the day. Tonight we are going to a bar and a bunch of people he knows will be there. Whats the best way to act that shows I am interested in him without hanging all over him (I dont do that!) And show his friends Im a cool person.Second date advice for a 21 year old? Please and thank you!?
dance with him? or just keep him interested with a decent conversationSecond date advice for a 21 year old? Please and thank you!?
Take a lot of shots with all of them. Guys love a girl that can drink. Oh and dress hot, like super hot. Did I mention shots? The more the better...
Just be yourself. And don't seem needy. Guys like it when they are with a girl that they can leave alone for 5 minutes and she will be ok. Don't make him feel like he has to stay by your side at all times. Don't be shy! I'm super shy and its hard not to be but if I try I can do it. Also, don't be overly talkative! Support the conversation, speak your peace and be done till the next round if that makes sense. It's annoying when people you just met start bringing up completely random topics, and wont stop talking. Talk with his friends. If he doesn't introduce you, introduce yourself. Try to get to know them, be the one asking them questions. Show your new man respect too! Mention him in conversation with his other friends. A guy's friends will like you if you respect their guyfriend your seeing, seem to show interest in him, and have a great personality. Moreover if they sense that you make him really happy and he likes you a lot, you have their approval.
dance with him? or just keep him interested with a decent conversationSecond date advice for a 21 year old? Please and thank you!?
Take a lot of shots with all of them. Guys love a girl that can drink. Oh and dress hot, like super hot. Did I mention shots? The more the better...
Just be yourself. And don't seem needy. Guys like it when they are with a girl that they can leave alone for 5 minutes and she will be ok. Don't make him feel like he has to stay by your side at all times. Don't be shy! I'm super shy and its hard not to be but if I try I can do it. Also, don't be overly talkative! Support the conversation, speak your peace and be done till the next round if that makes sense. It's annoying when people you just met start bringing up completely random topics, and wont stop talking. Talk with his friends. If he doesn't introduce you, introduce yourself. Try to get to know them, be the one asking them questions. Show your new man respect too! Mention him in conversation with his other friends. A guy's friends will like you if you respect their guyfriend your seeing, seem to show interest in him, and have a great personality. Moreover if they sense that you make him really happy and he likes you a lot, you have their approval.
First date advice plz help??
ok im 13yrs old and i FINALLY got permission to date! and my date is on saturday!! and were goin to the mall!! and i need some advice! like i want to act like myself but i want to make a really good impression cause like i said its my first date...and the guy im dating has expirence so wat should i do? wat would be a really good outfit? wat would b a really good subject to start talking about? PLZ HELP AND IF U HAVE ANY OTHER ADVICE PLZ PLZ DONT HESITATE TO TYPE IT DOWN!!!!!!! THANK U SOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!First date advice plz help??
Okay, now DON'T rush into anything.
First: The night before, go out and buy a skin-cleansing facial mask. Not a clay one, or a peeling one, but a FABRIC one! They are awesume. I know it will say to leave it on for 5 minutes, but I leave mine on for half-an-hour, and when I take it off, my skin is so fresh! Do it the night before though, just incase you turn a little bit red, because then by the morning your skin will still be all dewey and glowing, and it won't be red at all.
Secondly, don't wear a ton of make-up, and don't wear clothes that ';Show off too much Skin';. Truely, your only thirteen, and no one should dress that way. I would wear a cute t-shirt, and cozy sweater, and either some nice jeans with adorable sneakers, or a mini-jean skirt, with black leggings and red or pink flats.
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Or This:
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Third: Make-up: Try and do your make-up like this, it's simple, yet pretty: http://www.demilovato.net/categories/pho鈥?/a>
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(Wash you hair and put a ton of mousse in it, and twist it up into a crazy bun. Take it out once it's dry and spray a tiny bit of bodyspray into it, and run your fingers- DON'T BRUSH IT! through it. It should be all crazy/wavy and cute. Flat-iron your bangs straight.)
And, lastly, pluck your eyebrows. (Only in the middle though! Just so you don't have any stray hairs!)
Odds and %26amp; Ends: *Also Shower before you go, and shampoo/condition your hair so it's shiny, clean, and soft, and you'll smell good. Maybe use some pretty-scented body wash, like lemon or lavender. Also, shave your legs, and armpits and wear deodauraunt, and only a spritz of perfume, it's un-attractive if you don't and wearing too much perfume might drown him out.*
Good Luck and %26amp; GOD BLESS!First date advice plz help??
well if you get nervous remember some guys get nervous sometimes around girls
and you should be yourself no matter what and something might happen as long as you be who you are and talk about him and yourself and hobbies and ..... try not to uncomfortable
Clearly he asked you to go so he already likes you, just act like yourself other wise you will be uncomfortable trying to keep up with acting a certain way.
just be yourself most guys are pigs dont act different to impress him besides he probably already likes u the way you are if he asked u on a date
just dont talk much,u must be shy a bit. silent girl,it make him think u r soo clever)))and my advice to u never kiss each other till u know him closely,,,never hurry
just be yourself
hi there simple anwer is just b ya self , no mask just u hope it go well 4 ya
Okay, now DON'T rush into anything.
First: The night before, go out and buy a skin-cleansing facial mask. Not a clay one, or a peeling one, but a FABRIC one! They are awesume. I know it will say to leave it on for 5 minutes, but I leave mine on for half-an-hour, and when I take it off, my skin is so fresh! Do it the night before though, just incase you turn a little bit red, because then by the morning your skin will still be all dewey and glowing, and it won't be red at all.
Secondly, don't wear a ton of make-up, and don't wear clothes that ';Show off too much Skin';. Truely, your only thirteen, and no one should dress that way. I would wear a cute t-shirt, and cozy sweater, and either some nice jeans with adorable sneakers, or a mini-jean skirt, with black leggings and red or pink flats.
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Or This:
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(Wash you hair and put a ton of mousse in it, and twist it up into a crazy bun. Take it out once it's dry and spray a tiny bit of bodyspray into it, and run your fingers- DON'T BRUSH IT! through it. It should be all crazy/wavy and cute. Flat-iron your bangs straight.)
And, lastly, pluck your eyebrows. (Only in the middle though! Just so you don't have any stray hairs!)
Odds and %26amp; Ends: *Also Shower before you go, and shampoo/condition your hair so it's shiny, clean, and soft, and you'll smell good. Maybe use some pretty-scented body wash, like lemon or lavender. Also, shave your legs, and armpits and wear deodauraunt, and only a spritz of perfume, it's un-attractive if you don't and wearing too much perfume might drown him out.*
Good Luck and %26amp; GOD BLESS!First date advice plz help??
well if you get nervous remember some guys get nervous sometimes around girls
and you should be yourself no matter what and something might happen as long as you be who you are and talk about him and yourself and hobbies and ..... try not to uncomfortable
Clearly he asked you to go so he already likes you, just act like yourself other wise you will be uncomfortable trying to keep up with acting a certain way.
just be yourself most guys are pigs dont act different to impress him besides he probably already likes u the way you are if he asked u on a date
just dont talk much,u must be shy a bit. silent girl,it make him think u r soo clever)))and my advice to u never kiss each other till u know him closely,,,never hurry
just be yourself
hi there simple anwer is just b ya self , no mask just u hope it go well 4 ya
******First Date Advice NEEDED GUYS PLEASE HELP!!!!***?
Please help me!
I'm going on a date and any advice would be so much appreciated. I really like the guy and we went on a date-ish thing a few days ago we were watching a movie and he put his arm around me i really like him, i have bad luck with guys and i really want this to go well so is there anything i should know? the plan is just to walk around the area we live in going into random stores maybe blaze for a bit.******First Date Advice NEEDED GUYS PLEASE HELP!!!!***?
Just relax and be yourself! You don't really need any other advice! He is obviously into you as you are practically on a second date!! Don't panic because he obviously likes you already!!
Good luck!!******First Date Advice NEEDED GUYS PLEASE HELP!!!!***?
stores are not a good 2nd date-ishgloss
I'm going on a date and any advice would be so much appreciated. I really like the guy and we went on a date-ish thing a few days ago we were watching a movie and he put his arm around me i really like him, i have bad luck with guys and i really want this to go well so is there anything i should know? the plan is just to walk around the area we live in going into random stores maybe blaze for a bit.******First Date Advice NEEDED GUYS PLEASE HELP!!!!***?
Just relax and be yourself! You don't really need any other advice! He is obviously into you as you are practically on a second date!! Don't panic because he obviously likes you already!!
Good luck!!******First Date Advice NEEDED GUYS PLEASE HELP!!!!***?
stores are not a good 2nd date-ish
First date advice - walk through hyde park and then sit and watch the sunset?
im taking this girl out to hyde park for a walk and were going to watch the sunset together...its the first time were going to actually like meet and have conversation in person - i have seen her before but she was just outside my house with my friends and we didnt know each other then. now we do and we are really close but we havnt seen each other since then.
weve decided to meet up and go to hyde park for a walk and watch the sunset as we both know we like each other but we havnt admitted it to each other yet, but its clear we like each other.
i normally struggle to make conversation and i am scared i might 'bore' her, any tips?
and does anyone know any good spots to watch the sunset in hyde park?
thanks -btw were both 16.First date advice - walk through hyde park and then sit and watch the sunset?
I already told you yesterday that you need to talk about her!
why did you repost this question.
And also kiss her right before the sun is fully downFirst date advice - walk through hyde park and then sit and watch the sunset?
when struggling to make the conversation ask questions have then already in your head before the walk
weve decided to meet up and go to hyde park for a walk and watch the sunset as we both know we like each other but we havnt admitted it to each other yet, but its clear we like each other.
i normally struggle to make conversation and i am scared i might 'bore' her, any tips?
and does anyone know any good spots to watch the sunset in hyde park?
thanks -btw were both 16.First date advice - walk through hyde park and then sit and watch the sunset?
I already told you yesterday that you need to talk about her!
why did you repost this question.
And also kiss her right before the sun is fully downFirst date advice - walk through hyde park and then sit and watch the sunset?
when struggling to make the conversation ask questions have then already in your head before the walk
Third date advice for 30 year old virgin?
Hi,
I am late into the dating game and am still a virgin (very not normal nowadays) mainly because I was painfully shy when younger.
I have been seeing a girl a few times and on the second date we made out a lot. I am worried about how far she wil want to go on the third date? I want to take things slowly, but dont want to scare her off by revealing too soon my situation so she might think I am weird for going so slow?
Most of my friends seem to sleep with people after a few dates! I was seeing someone last year and a friend insinuated she had said I was not getting physical enough fast enough....so I don't know what to do about the current girl to not scare her off, but take things slowly?Third date advice for 30 year old virgin?
On your previous girl, what your friend insinuated may not be what she actually said, or meant to say, and if that really was worrying her, why didn't she say it to you?
Not all girls are the same, so this one may not be worried about going slow. She may even have the same worries as you.
If you don't know her well enough to tell her your situation, then you probably don't know her well enough to have sex with her (unless it is casual). Which is the bigger deal - telling her your situation, or having sex with her?
It is unlikely that telling her would scare her off. She must have been in your situation once upon a time and possibly still is. So it is most likely she will be sympathetic rather than frightened off.
If something is bothering you and you don't tell her what it is, she will probably notice and may get annoyed that you are not being open with her.
The bottom line is: you should be asking the girl this question, not us.Third date advice for 30 year old virgin?
I think it's good you want to take things slowly, and the girl you're with should respect that. And being a 30 year old virgin is not a bad thing. It isn't the norm, but that doesn't mean that you are weird. You have obviously made the decision to wait for the right person, so if she doesn't accept that you want to take things slowly, she's not the girl for you. Also, you don't even have to tell her that you're a virgin. Just tell her you don't have sex unless you're in a meaningful relationship.
Just say you like to take things slow and not rush into anything. I don't think it will sound weird. Not everybody likes to rush into sex. Some people will do it on the first date. Others will wait over a year. There's no set ';norm'; for this type of thing. I think most girls will appreciate that you like to take things slow. It shows that you're really interested in her as a person and not just looking to get into her pants.
That is so awesome that you are still a virgin! Other than the two dates how well do you know her? Would you feel comfortable explaining that you are a virgin? Set limits and tell her what you're willing and not willing to do. If she respects those limits, great. If not you might want to consider ending the relationship.
The number of dates does not mean anything. Nor does what 'most of your friends' do. The person you are going to have to live with is yourself. This girl may come and go.
If you are 30 years old, you should have made a moral decision long ago on this subject. If you still don't 'know for sure', I'd say it's time to decide on who you are and whether you respect yourself enough to make up your own mind.
Maybe you should find a church girl to appreciate the going slow thing...
On a personal note...My fiance had had sex 1 time 3 years before we met and he felt like he had to lie and say he had been with 6 people. However, if he had told me the truth it would not have bothered me and i might have understood why our first time together was so horrible LOL.
I think the girl would be flattered that you are not so carefree with your sex life.
Best of luck
don't go too fast, I don't really think girls find that attractive, if you wanna make a lil move you can just grab her butt or something, I know it's kinda weird but all the girls I've talked to and dated all like that
don't have sex, save it for when you're in love
be honest, she should respect you and if she doesn't she's not worth it
I wouldn't tell her your situation. When you get all hot and heavy, if she trys to take your pants off or something, tell her you like her and you want to wait a little while. Besides, waiting makes it more fun. Make sure you have some ';raincoats'; just in case, and maybe pull her on top so she can do the work. Also, pleasure yourself before you go out so you won't go to quickly.
Tell her you are an old fashioned, romantic type. Whatever you do, do not give in just because... You will never ever in your life have that ';first time'; again. Take your time and enjoy the relationship. If she does not understand, well bye, bye now and find someone who will understand. Best of luck, you'll make the right decision!
i think you should just do you. your friend may have said that but that's not what matters. it's up to the girl your with. i say just go with the flow. if its right %26amp; meant to happen, it'll happen but don't rush into anything or try to do something your not ready to do. hope this helps ya!
i'm sure many women would respect that you aren't pressuring them too soon, and she'll have respect that u dont sleep around. u really don't have to tell her anything u dont want to.
If you want to be serious with her, wait until your ready and never even tell her. Otherwise just sleep with her now, and then dump and enjoy the many other fish in the pond!
i think you should tell her upfron.. if she is the right girl for you, she will be accepting...if not, don't waste your or her time.
talk her down and dont move fast if you dont want if you dont want to do it dont
watch 40 year old virgin.
sleep with her!!!
When you tell her, you can't do the ';I have terminal leukemia'; speech as Dan Savage would call it. If you make being a virgin at 30 an issue, she'll do the same. It may be a hard sell, but if you don't make it a big deal, she won't. Let her know your intentions, and tell her that waiting is an important this (if you feel that way, staying a virgin until you're 30 is probably fueled by more than shyness). Don't get dramatic and scared or else she may be scared away.
Sir you have to understand that all girls aren't the same and in your predicament second on a secon date is pretty damn slow. You say you want things to go a little slower but sometimes you have to take a risk just to find out if you are mainly interested. If you take it too slow the woman becomes confused and doesn't understand what you are really looking for in her. If you all been out on two dates you should her enough to know if she is understanding or a FREAK! When you find yourself in the compromising position of having sex stop everything and tell her how you feel. If she stays she understands and likes you for you if she leaves move on with life. Taking things slow is good but to slow one begins to lose interest and zeal.
omfg your still a virgin at 30???????? you really need to get a hooker
I am late into the dating game and am still a virgin (very not normal nowadays) mainly because I was painfully shy when younger.
I have been seeing a girl a few times and on the second date we made out a lot. I am worried about how far she wil want to go on the third date? I want to take things slowly, but dont want to scare her off by revealing too soon my situation so she might think I am weird for going so slow?
Most of my friends seem to sleep with people after a few dates! I was seeing someone last year and a friend insinuated she had said I was not getting physical enough fast enough....so I don't know what to do about the current girl to not scare her off, but take things slowly?Third date advice for 30 year old virgin?
On your previous girl, what your friend insinuated may not be what she actually said, or meant to say, and if that really was worrying her, why didn't she say it to you?
Not all girls are the same, so this one may not be worried about going slow. She may even have the same worries as you.
If you don't know her well enough to tell her your situation, then you probably don't know her well enough to have sex with her (unless it is casual). Which is the bigger deal - telling her your situation, or having sex with her?
It is unlikely that telling her would scare her off. She must have been in your situation once upon a time and possibly still is. So it is most likely she will be sympathetic rather than frightened off.
If something is bothering you and you don't tell her what it is, she will probably notice and may get annoyed that you are not being open with her.
The bottom line is: you should be asking the girl this question, not us.Third date advice for 30 year old virgin?
I think it's good you want to take things slowly, and the girl you're with should respect that. And being a 30 year old virgin is not a bad thing. It isn't the norm, but that doesn't mean that you are weird. You have obviously made the decision to wait for the right person, so if she doesn't accept that you want to take things slowly, she's not the girl for you. Also, you don't even have to tell her that you're a virgin. Just tell her you don't have sex unless you're in a meaningful relationship.
Just say you like to take things slow and not rush into anything. I don't think it will sound weird. Not everybody likes to rush into sex. Some people will do it on the first date. Others will wait over a year. There's no set ';norm'; for this type of thing. I think most girls will appreciate that you like to take things slow. It shows that you're really interested in her as a person and not just looking to get into her pants.
That is so awesome that you are still a virgin! Other than the two dates how well do you know her? Would you feel comfortable explaining that you are a virgin? Set limits and tell her what you're willing and not willing to do. If she respects those limits, great. If not you might want to consider ending the relationship.
The number of dates does not mean anything. Nor does what 'most of your friends' do. The person you are going to have to live with is yourself. This girl may come and go.
If you are 30 years old, you should have made a moral decision long ago on this subject. If you still don't 'know for sure', I'd say it's time to decide on who you are and whether you respect yourself enough to make up your own mind.
Maybe you should find a church girl to appreciate the going slow thing...
On a personal note...My fiance had had sex 1 time 3 years before we met and he felt like he had to lie and say he had been with 6 people. However, if he had told me the truth it would not have bothered me and i might have understood why our first time together was so horrible LOL.
I think the girl would be flattered that you are not so carefree with your sex life.
Best of luck
don't go too fast, I don't really think girls find that attractive, if you wanna make a lil move you can just grab her butt or something, I know it's kinda weird but all the girls I've talked to and dated all like that
don't have sex, save it for when you're in love
be honest, she should respect you and if she doesn't she's not worth it
I wouldn't tell her your situation. When you get all hot and heavy, if she trys to take your pants off or something, tell her you like her and you want to wait a little while. Besides, waiting makes it more fun. Make sure you have some ';raincoats'; just in case, and maybe pull her on top so she can do the work. Also, pleasure yourself before you go out so you won't go to quickly.
Tell her you are an old fashioned, romantic type. Whatever you do, do not give in just because... You will never ever in your life have that ';first time'; again. Take your time and enjoy the relationship. If she does not understand, well bye, bye now and find someone who will understand. Best of luck, you'll make the right decision!
i think you should just do you. your friend may have said that but that's not what matters. it's up to the girl your with. i say just go with the flow. if its right %26amp; meant to happen, it'll happen but don't rush into anything or try to do something your not ready to do. hope this helps ya!
i'm sure many women would respect that you aren't pressuring them too soon, and she'll have respect that u dont sleep around. u really don't have to tell her anything u dont want to.
If you want to be serious with her, wait until your ready and never even tell her. Otherwise just sleep with her now, and then dump and enjoy the many other fish in the pond!
i think you should tell her upfron.. if she is the right girl for you, she will be accepting...if not, don't waste your or her time.
talk her down and dont move fast if you dont want if you dont want to do it dont
watch 40 year old virgin.
sleep with her!!!
When you tell her, you can't do the ';I have terminal leukemia'; speech as Dan Savage would call it. If you make being a virgin at 30 an issue, she'll do the same. It may be a hard sell, but if you don't make it a big deal, she won't. Let her know your intentions, and tell her that waiting is an important this (if you feel that way, staying a virgin until you're 30 is probably fueled by more than shyness). Don't get dramatic and scared or else she may be scared away.
Sir you have to understand that all girls aren't the same and in your predicament second on a secon date is pretty damn slow. You say you want things to go a little slower but sometimes you have to take a risk just to find out if you are mainly interested. If you take it too slow the woman becomes confused and doesn't understand what you are really looking for in her. If you all been out on two dates you should her enough to know if she is understanding or a FREAK! When you find yourself in the compromising position of having sex stop everything and tell her how you feel. If she stays she understands and likes you for you if she leaves move on with life. Taking things slow is good but to slow one begins to lose interest and zeal.
omfg your still a virgin at 30???????? you really need to get a hooker
First date, advice anybody? lol?
Ok, well tonight I'm going on my first date with a guy, lol. I really like him, but I feel like I'm going to completely embarrass myself somehow xD We're going to see a play called ';Sunday Night';
I know I should just be myself and all that swell stuff, but I'm just asking for some general advice. Like, I'm almost in anxiety attack mode, lol. So any advice or experiences you've had would be helpful.
Oh, and just to be polite, how was your day? :]First date, advice anybody? lol?
Okay...been there, done that...try this... About ten minutes before you're supposed to meet...take ten slow, deep breaths...then let each one out slowly but comfortably...try to think of something calming, like watching snow fall...or of a pleasant summers day in the park with a stream flowing gently by... If you still feel stressed...repeat as necessary... When you finally come face to face...say something like, ';I'm so glad to see you';...it will release 'your anxiety' and make him feel comfortable at the same time... You're going to do fine...you have the wings of an angel, my dear...First date, advice anybody? lol?
I'm also going to a play tonight
with a girl so it's not as exciting as yours.
I'm pretty jealous actually I haven't been on a date with a guy before.
I think that if it shows you're nervous then he'll think that it's cute.
I would be the same way as you though.
My day was ok it wen't super fast and was pretty boring and very cold.
Good luck and have fun.
The best thing your can do when you're with him is show him that you love him, But don't go crazy on the 1st date with funny business. This way he way notice you really like him.
Hey It's funny, that I know about a lot of the do's and don't of dating, But%26lt; I just can't find someone to date.
The joys of shyness
Aww sounds nice :) Just relax and enjoy yourself, and yes 'be yourself' he obviously likes you already if he's going on a date with you. If you do do something embarrassing laugh at yourself.
Enjoy the play :)
My day sucked by the way, but there's only an hour until its over so hurrah :)
Don't sweat it :) Trust me, if you're nervous, he'll know it and it could make him uncomfortable. Just talk and keep the conversation going. Once you two start really talking, you'll feel a lot more relaxed and can enjoy the rest of the night. Good luck! :]
Don't panic.
He probably feels the same way.
Don't worry about embarrassing yourself, you most likely will!
That can be so funny and ice breaking on a first date.
Have fun! By being you. Anyone can fall in love with that.
Just be open and honest with him. Honestly is always the best policy. I've had a couple ';life experiences'; and regret not telling my boyfriend until we were farther along in out relationship.
AWW ! how cutie ! lol lol .. its always scary on the first date but once you get to know the guy it will be more easy and he is just as nervous as you i garanteee HAHA good luck champ lol
Aw lol your cute :o.
Just relax, I'm sure he'll love you, you seem awesome.
My day sucks.
I'm sick.
):
be nice, try to talk an equal amount, and don't rush anything let it all happen on it's own.
I know I should just be myself and all that swell stuff, but I'm just asking for some general advice. Like, I'm almost in anxiety attack mode, lol. So any advice or experiences you've had would be helpful.
Oh, and just to be polite, how was your day? :]First date, advice anybody? lol?
Okay...been there, done that...try this... About ten minutes before you're supposed to meet...take ten slow, deep breaths...then let each one out slowly but comfortably...try to think of something calming, like watching snow fall...or of a pleasant summers day in the park with a stream flowing gently by... If you still feel stressed...repeat as necessary... When you finally come face to face...say something like, ';I'm so glad to see you';...it will release 'your anxiety' and make him feel comfortable at the same time... You're going to do fine...you have the wings of an angel, my dear...First date, advice anybody? lol?
I'm also going to a play tonight
with a girl so it's not as exciting as yours.
I'm pretty jealous actually I haven't been on a date with a guy before.
I think that if it shows you're nervous then he'll think that it's cute.
I would be the same way as you though.
My day was ok it wen't super fast and was pretty boring and very cold.
Good luck and have fun.
The best thing your can do when you're with him is show him that you love him, But don't go crazy on the 1st date with funny business. This way he way notice you really like him.
Hey It's funny, that I know about a lot of the do's and don't of dating, But%26lt; I just can't find someone to date.
The joys of shyness
Aww sounds nice :) Just relax and enjoy yourself, and yes 'be yourself' he obviously likes you already if he's going on a date with you. If you do do something embarrassing laugh at yourself.
Enjoy the play :)
My day sucked by the way, but there's only an hour until its over so hurrah :)
Don't sweat it :) Trust me, if you're nervous, he'll know it and it could make him uncomfortable. Just talk and keep the conversation going. Once you two start really talking, you'll feel a lot more relaxed and can enjoy the rest of the night. Good luck! :]
Don't panic.
He probably feels the same way.
Don't worry about embarrassing yourself, you most likely will!
That can be so funny and ice breaking on a first date.
Have fun! By being you. Anyone can fall in love with that.
Just be open and honest with him. Honestly is always the best policy. I've had a couple ';life experiences'; and regret not telling my boyfriend until we were farther along in out relationship.
AWW ! how cutie ! lol lol .. its always scary on the first date but once you get to know the guy it will be more easy and he is just as nervous as you i garanteee HAHA good luck champ lol
Aw lol your cute :o.
Just relax, I'm sure he'll love you, you seem awesome.
My day sucks.
I'm sick.
):
be nice, try to talk an equal amount, and don't rush anything let it all happen on it's own.
Prom date advice! help!?
so i asked this guy i know outside of school to my school's prom, i don't know him that well, but i like him and we're friends. he said sure, but he said he had to check his plans first.
he called back and said he cant go b/c he has to help move out his sister from college, but i kind of think that if he really wanted to go, he could. but he's definitely not lying since i heard him talking to his mom in the background.
I want to convince him to come, but i dont want to sound too desperate or anything b/c theyre moving her out in 2 weekends and plus his parents can help her. its only one night.
what should i do?? b/c he should be able to go, should i call him and try to convince him to come? should i suggest that he can bring a friend with him too, so its not awkward??Prom date advice! help!?
Well.. maybe he really can't go.. if his sister is going to college out of state then he would have to catch a plane to get there w/ his parents.. so don't jump to conclusionsProm date advice! help!?
You're just going to annoy him if you keep asking.
If you're that desparate for a date, hire someone.
Otherwise, just find a group of friends to go with, or ask someone else.
i thought people only move during the day...mostly anyways. i don't think he wants to go with you. move on and find another fish. plenty out there. don't ask again, i think it will sound like you're begging. have fun at prom...
well, mabes he doesnt want to go? i think you can ask him again if you want, but don't be fully dependant on him coming coz if he doesn't you don't want to turn up by your self! so keep your options open :)
if he cant go then i wouldnt suggest asking him more then a couple of times (like 3). He could get irritated and just get mad at you for not understanding.
if hes got plans already then dont push it....but after prom or w.e u might wanna start hangout w/him and try to get something going between u 2
I don't think you should call him.
If he said he can't go chances are he's telling the truth.
no so srry that he cant but find some one else
ask him if he really has to
he called back and said he cant go b/c he has to help move out his sister from college, but i kind of think that if he really wanted to go, he could. but he's definitely not lying since i heard him talking to his mom in the background.
I want to convince him to come, but i dont want to sound too desperate or anything b/c theyre moving her out in 2 weekends and plus his parents can help her. its only one night.
what should i do?? b/c he should be able to go, should i call him and try to convince him to come? should i suggest that he can bring a friend with him too, so its not awkward??Prom date advice! help!?
Well.. maybe he really can't go.. if his sister is going to college out of state then he would have to catch a plane to get there w/ his parents.. so don't jump to conclusionsProm date advice! help!?
You're just going to annoy him if you keep asking.
If you're that desparate for a date, hire someone.
Otherwise, just find a group of friends to go with, or ask someone else.
i thought people only move during the day...mostly anyways. i don't think he wants to go with you. move on and find another fish. plenty out there. don't ask again, i think it will sound like you're begging. have fun at prom...
well, mabes he doesnt want to go? i think you can ask him again if you want, but don't be fully dependant on him coming coz if he doesn't you don't want to turn up by your self! so keep your options open :)
if he cant go then i wouldnt suggest asking him more then a couple of times (like 3). He could get irritated and just get mad at you for not understanding.
if hes got plans already then dont push it....but after prom or w.e u might wanna start hangout w/him and try to get something going between u 2
I don't think you should call him.
If he said he can't go chances are he's telling the truth.
no so srry that he cant but find some one else
ask him if he really has to
Second date? Advice PLEASE?
I went on a date yesterday. We had chips and salsa a frozen cocktail, and talked for two hours. Afterwards we took a nature walk and went to the river and skipped rocks and talked for another hour. Well, he asked me out again tonight. We work like 5 minutes apart and he wanted to pick me up... go get some dinner and go to his house and watch a movie.
My question is... Do you think this is bad second date idea? He didn't make any moves yesterday, and he seems very gentlemen like. I dont plan on getting physical with him yet!!!Second date? Advice PLEASE?
then that's good he is being a gentlemen.. I would hold onto him, there aren't many left. If you feel like he starts to move faster then you want, then just let him know. It sounds like a good second date! Especially if you want to go slowSecond date? Advice PLEASE?
the decision lies in your hands, but if it where me i would just be honest with him it 's ok to take that second date with him but it he is asking you to his house afterward you can guess where he wants it to go from there. it would say go on the date then go to the movies. be honest with him you want to take it slow. it's ok to take things slow. if he likes you to then he with honor your wished to. good luck on the date....
This all depends on how you met him if you met him online be careful, sometimes they seem one way then they just want sex, but if you met him through a friend then talk to your friend about it, I have done it and it went well, but if you have that feeling in your gut maybe its not right for you maybe even ask if he wouldn't mind if a few of your friends did a double date and you all went back to his place to watch a movie, how about that, that way u wont get into a situation that may be unsafe and you would be more comfortable
a lot of guys now want to go back to their home because of the economy and renting a movie and eating at home is cheaper than going out..if you have any doubts though and you think its too soon i would wait ...good luck
i don't think its necessarily a bad idea
as long as he doesn't make any moves on you that you're not comfortable with.
seems ok. if he trys to put the moves on you, tell him its to soon, im sure if hes gentlemen like hed be fine.
Hey, Ask Alexis on this one. She's awesome at this stuff. She can give you good advice! just go to askforadvicefromalexis.yolasite.com She'll answer you that very day!
My question is... Do you think this is bad second date idea? He didn't make any moves yesterday, and he seems very gentlemen like. I dont plan on getting physical with him yet!!!Second date? Advice PLEASE?
then that's good he is being a gentlemen.. I would hold onto him, there aren't many left. If you feel like he starts to move faster then you want, then just let him know. It sounds like a good second date! Especially if you want to go slowSecond date? Advice PLEASE?
the decision lies in your hands, but if it where me i would just be honest with him it 's ok to take that second date with him but it he is asking you to his house afterward you can guess where he wants it to go from there. it would say go on the date then go to the movies. be honest with him you want to take it slow. it's ok to take things slow. if he likes you to then he with honor your wished to. good luck on the date....
This all depends on how you met him if you met him online be careful, sometimes they seem one way then they just want sex, but if you met him through a friend then talk to your friend about it, I have done it and it went well, but if you have that feeling in your gut maybe its not right for you maybe even ask if he wouldn't mind if a few of your friends did a double date and you all went back to his place to watch a movie, how about that, that way u wont get into a situation that may be unsafe and you would be more comfortable
a lot of guys now want to go back to their home because of the economy and renting a movie and eating at home is cheaper than going out..if you have any doubts though and you think its too soon i would wait ...good luck
i don't think its necessarily a bad idea
as long as he doesn't make any moves on you that you're not comfortable with.
seems ok. if he trys to put the moves on you, tell him its to soon, im sure if hes gentlemen like hed be fine.
Hey, Ask Alexis on this one. She's awesome at this stuff. She can give you good advice! just go to askforadvicefromalexis.yolasite.com She'll answer you that very day!
FIRST DATE/ADVICE! Help?
Thank you for checking this out. I have a couple questions, all respectful and legit advice is welcomed. Heres my story.
So i have been talking to this girl through texting and online chat for a couple weeks now. I flirt with her and to me it seems like she flirts back but im not sure. (She says 'thats cute' to things i say, and her and i talk back alot with smiley faces) She is very shy at school but I usually go up to her and we have little chats between passing period and what not. But our big ones are online/text.
So when we were talking online once we some how ended up talking about going to the movies together. I offered to pay for her, and everything and she said sure. The thing that confuses me is I dont know if she thinks its a date. Im thinking of not bringing that question up to her and just going with the flow. But the reason im asking if i should is because if its a date, i want to be able to hold her hand and have a good time in that fashion.
Second, when we are on the 'date', i want to tell her how i feel about her and let her know i like her a lot. And I wanna know how she feels. But I dont know if thats a good idea? Im just a little confused.
Also, what should we talk about, and how do I deal with awkward silence? x)
Please help me with my questions. Thanks. =)FIRST DATE/ADVICE! Help?
okay well, i think you shouldnt ask if its a date or not, and take things slow. i wouldnt tell her how u feel quite yet, i mean, if it goes well, you'll have more ';dates'; with her, so you could always tell her how you feel on ur next date. just see how she acts on this first one you guys go on, and if she seems comfortable, go from there. good luck!FIRST DATE/ADVICE! Help?
you dont need to tell her that your paying just pay
you should go on the date and do a little of you no what im kidding make her feel comfortale to you and then out of nowhere give her complaments about her and you will see what happends.gloss
So i have been talking to this girl through texting and online chat for a couple weeks now. I flirt with her and to me it seems like she flirts back but im not sure. (She says 'thats cute' to things i say, and her and i talk back alot with smiley faces) She is very shy at school but I usually go up to her and we have little chats between passing period and what not. But our big ones are online/text.
So when we were talking online once we some how ended up talking about going to the movies together. I offered to pay for her, and everything and she said sure. The thing that confuses me is I dont know if she thinks its a date. Im thinking of not bringing that question up to her and just going with the flow. But the reason im asking if i should is because if its a date, i want to be able to hold her hand and have a good time in that fashion.
Second, when we are on the 'date', i want to tell her how i feel about her and let her know i like her a lot. And I wanna know how she feels. But I dont know if thats a good idea? Im just a little confused.
Also, what should we talk about, and how do I deal with awkward silence? x)
Please help me with my questions. Thanks. =)FIRST DATE/ADVICE! Help?
okay well, i think you shouldnt ask if its a date or not, and take things slow. i wouldnt tell her how u feel quite yet, i mean, if it goes well, you'll have more ';dates'; with her, so you could always tell her how you feel on ur next date. just see how she acts on this first one you guys go on, and if she seems comfortable, go from there. good luck!FIRST DATE/ADVICE! Help?
you dont need to tell her that your paying just pay
you should go on the date and do a little of you no what im kidding make her feel comfortale to you and then out of nowhere give her complaments about her and you will see what happends.
Prom Date Advice?!?!?
Hey guys,
I'm a senior in high school right now, with no girlfriend/date to prom (which is in about a month and two weeks). Sadly, most of the girls I had a chance with either have been asked really early, or began going out with someone and are now in a relationship. I dont have many options and I was wondering if I can get some advice.
Obviously, the sophomores cant go unless they are asked by a senior or junior, and there are a couple of sophomores that I know and talk to, but there is one major problem. They're big hoes, and I would not be surprised if they have already been asked. What would be a good way to find out if they are going with someone already? None of my friends talk to them or their friends, and I just dont know how to find out if they have a date or not.Prom Date Advice?!?!?
well you said you talked to them right? Next time you are talking just say i can't wait to go to prom, are you going. If she say's yes that means she has a date. If she says no then ask herProm Date Advice?!?!?
if i were you, i'd just ask them
just casually bring up prom and be like,
';sooo has anyone asked you to go?';
(:
Super casual conversation ';Are you going to prom?';
If she says yes and wants to know why you asked say that you were just wondering.
Hope this helps!
I'm a senior in high school right now, with no girlfriend/date to prom (which is in about a month and two weeks). Sadly, most of the girls I had a chance with either have been asked really early, or began going out with someone and are now in a relationship. I dont have many options and I was wondering if I can get some advice.
Obviously, the sophomores cant go unless they are asked by a senior or junior, and there are a couple of sophomores that I know and talk to, but there is one major problem. They're big hoes, and I would not be surprised if they have already been asked. What would be a good way to find out if they are going with someone already? None of my friends talk to them or their friends, and I just dont know how to find out if they have a date or not.Prom Date Advice?!?!?
well you said you talked to them right? Next time you are talking just say i can't wait to go to prom, are you going. If she say's yes that means she has a date. If she says no then ask herProm Date Advice?!?!?
if i were you, i'd just ask them
just casually bring up prom and be like,
';sooo has anyone asked you to go?';
(:
Super casual conversation ';Are you going to prom?';
If she says yes and wants to know why you asked say that you were just wondering.
Hope this helps!
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