Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Date Advice......GIRLS ONLY!?

So I just started dating and well...I need help! I need some advice! Anything will help! But please give me REAL advice! Thanks!Date Advice......GIRLS ONLY!?
Hmmm... This is hard to answer without specific questions. Always act relaxed and be yourself. Get an idea of where you want to go or what you want to do beforehand. It really annoys people when they ask where you want to go and you say ';I don't know'; or ';I don't care';. Let's be honest: a date is an interview for a relationship. You are really just trying to get to know the person. You aren't required to do something physical with them or go to a certain base. It's spending time with someone to decide if you want to be in a relationship.





Make sure you are having fun and doing something. There's nothing more annoying than a guy who wants to date by ';renting a movie';. Renting a movie is ok but not when they pretty much only want to make passes at you the whole time and see how far they can get you to go which is the case a lot of times. Lesson: have something you want to go and do. It can be cheesy even. Bowling, a movie in a theater, arcade, water park, theme park, shopping, going out to eat, board games, parties, sports events, or whatever.





Most importantly be fun! If you want someone to like you, try to be exciting. Pick something to do that neither of you has done before. A girl who makes decisions is a relief to guys who always feel responsible if the restaurant isn't good or the movie sucked. You pick.





Don't try too hard. It is like a neon sign that says ';I'm really, really, really excited about our date and I'm not at all hard to get.'; when you overdo your makeup, hair, or outfit for a date. Unless the event calls for it, be casual but attractive. Spending time making makeup look good is better than just wearing a lot of it.





Ask them questions and act honestly interested in learning about them. Likes/dislikes etc. Sometimes you can tell whether or not a guy really likes you by how he talks to you and whether or not he opens up. If he's just using you or seeing if he can use you, he'll only be interested in certain topics. wink wink.





Always brush AND floss AND listerine before a date. Popping mints can sometimes be too obvious you want to kiss them. Just having good breath beforehand is probably your best bet.





Oh and NEVER pay for anything ';forget'; your wallet if you have to. It is not your job to pay. Let him learn that now. Date Advice......GIRLS ONLY!?
You should show the guy you are dating that you are not like any girl he knows or has been with. Don't be stuck up or b!tchy because it will just make him not want you anymore. Don't kiss his ace either because if you do that he will use that to the advantage and in worse cases, he will use you. Don't call or text all the time, people need their space especially guys. Once you get to know him and know what he's like and what he likes it will be much easier so you just go along with the flow.
your question is pretty vague, but I'll see what I can do....


Be yourself, don't change for him. Figure out what your looking for and hold the guy to it, don't change your standards for him. i.e. you want a guy who isn't into partying and you find yourself at parties every weekend. Don't sacrafice who you are for anyone. Oh, and don't do the three strikes(If he messes up he gets chance after chance), eventually the three strikes turns to four, turns to twenty, next thing you know your in a terrible relationship. If it doesn't make you happy, don't do it. You'll be just fine, honey. It all tends to be instinctive, for the most part. You'll learn as you go.
I agree with the person who said confidence. Good communication and trust is key (that way, you'll feel comfortable talking about anything). You should both be comfortable around each other and have fun. Just be yourself-and if it doesn't work out, find out why and what to avoid next time. I think part of dating is trying to find someone who really works with you.
dating is always fun. just remember to keep your self-respect. Some guys will try things to see if you'll let them. Don't or you'll be easy. Sorry, dating is like a game in some ways. I hope you're dating nice boys. And yeah, just be yourself and have fun.
well one, dont be diffrent around the boy and your friends, becasue then you can just be comfortable. And dont be nervous a lot, just let things flow but if things get weird. Tell him to stop. Or something like that.
ok i dont no wat situation your in but go to the movies and face him kinda if you no wat i mean and make sure you talk and it will go great o and dont kiss to early bad mistake but dont wait to long
just be your self , but not all at once, show him the best of you so when he sees a bad side of you he will be ok with it. and don't be a slut
The best advice I can give is to be yourself. Don't let your nerves get to you and stay confident. Confidence is key in any situation in life.
just act as if your hanging out with your usual friends,just not too freaky be your self,an self confidence is the key



Don't you have any specific questions?
you probably hear this all the time but be your self!
That's too broad of an question, try narrowing it down?
I've never known a girl to be dumped for going down on her boyfriend too often!
about what?


sex


kissing


activities


you need to put more info out

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