Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Girls i need ';1st date'; dating advice?

this boy asked me out....i dont know what to do ......





HELP ME!Girls i need ';1st date'; dating advice?
be yourself and just have funGirls i need ';1st date'; dating advice?
if you like him, say yes! Don't be nervous. If anything, yall should be in ur comfort zone around each other
OOOH!! So Exciting!!!


You should plan everything out (what 2 wear/makeup %26amp; everything) a few days b4. Make sure you have a ride to and from.......


and JUST HAVE FUN!!!


Remember, ALWAYS be yourself......if it's not good enough for him, then he's not good enough 4 you!!! Never settle for less!!





Best Wishes %26amp; I hope you have a GREAT time!! :-)
Dates are easy if you know how to be yourself. Make sure you get dressed up a bit, that you are clean and smell good (don't wear too much perfume or body spray) and that you tell someone where you will be and with who.





Other rules of dating:


You can't listen and talk and the same time. Be a good listener and don't interrupt.


Be yourself


Don't tell too much about yourself at first. Keep the conversation light. Getting to know someone takes time, like peeling an onion, layer by layer.


There should be no talk of sex on the first date. Change the course of the conversation if it drifts that way.


Don't overstay the time. A few hours for a first date is great. Leave him wanting more of you.
Do something different then the old pictures, dinner thing why not go to a theme park or do something a bit different that way you get to hang out chat and have a laugh. Oh and dress in something that makes you feel comfortable so your not stressing about your clothes and don't show to much flesh keep him guessing don't reveal all and breath. have fun
be yourself, nothing is more attractive than being yourself. Also be confident and if your shy, use it to your advantage. If I were you, I wouldn't let him uhhh.... DO anything. Except for maybe holding hands and maybe a goodnight kiss (no tongue) Look as cute as possible. Good luck PEACE and LOVE
well first thing to do is go out on the date(if you want to), second be a little more specific on what you need help with!
i dont get it, you like him or not? you sound scared outta ur mind. but i take it you like him. just be yourself around him, thats who he asked out and he probably doesnt wanna see you be like anyone else.
pretty easy answer, if u like him say yes but if you feel like you cant handle a relation ship right now then say no r sumthin.
go on girl! go ahead if you like him only if you like him because its not very much fun if you dont like or even think he's attractive and you go on a date with him but yeah wear something nice make sure your breath smells good your hair is nice dont trip down the stairs if you go down any lol j/k good luck ;)
Ok...relax...I suppose you like him!


I know you go crazy if you think about him but...try to relax and pretend you haven't been waiting for this date for months! This will help you to have the right attitude in front of him...boys like the fact you are not 'dying' for them...apart from this, just be yourself, he likes you...this is a fact...so whatever you will say he will like you the same and more! Wear a pair of jeans and a nice, coloured, tight shirt. A smart pair of earrings, a touch of parfume and...here you are...now smile....ok, you can go down now, he's downstairs...


*good luck and...have fun!*


J
try a casual setting, maybe like the mall, then let him lead always
Its never as difficult as we make it seem for ourselves. Wear an outfit that you feel comfortable in, that you like. You don't have to try to be impressive, because if you feel like you look good and you feel comfortable, then that will show thru your confidence and THAT is what will impress him.





Don't try to flirt, just be friendly. When we try too hard, that can often distort the signals we think we're sending out..and its often not too attractive anyway when someone is flirting too much. Just be friendly, smile, be happy, talk and listen.








I think those are 2 key things I mentioned. Just relax, be comfortable, and don't worry about it..its a 1st date, he is probably a bit nervous as well... 1st dates are never completely smooth and care free, but if you both get through it and want to date again, it'll soon be a 2nd and 3rd date and with each one your nerves will settle and you won't be worrying as much. Just have a good time
If you like him, accept!





If you don't, tell him you are not interested.

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