Tuesday, July 27, 2010

PLEASE give me first ever date advice!!!Thank you!?

Ok so im 12 and im going with a 13 year old guy, were going to go see prom night and this is my first ever date. We are going with a couple other people and i was just wondering if anyone had any advice on what to do or what to expect. Maybe like kissing advice or clothes or what he might do. And please dont give me like just do what comes natrually kinda thingPLEASE give me first ever date advice!!!Thank you!?
Well, it's your first date, so that's pretty exciting! Just relax and enjoy it. As for what to wear, if you're just going to a movie you don't really need to dress up, but boys tend to like it if you wear a very casual dress or skirt instead of jeans, just nothing too short. Boys like girls who look more natural, so don't wear very much makeup, just enough to bring out your features, and keep some makeup in your purse to touch it up in the bathroom when the movie is over, because he probably won't say anything if your makeup gets messed up. A kiss on the first date, especially at such a young age, should be short and simple (if it happens at all, which it's perfectly fine not to if either of you doesn't feel ready or it doesn't feel right). Just hold his hands or place one of your arms around his back and give him a light kiss on the cheek or lips, it really will feel pretty natural and it's nothing to stress about. I'd recommend using Chapstick, especially the medicated kind, for a couple days before your date to make your lips softer if they're chapped, it works really well. Make sure you brush your teeth well before you go, but don't chew gum on your date because some people find that annoying and/or gross. Since I've heard this movie is pretty scary and intense, he will probably want to put his arms around you, and if he does, just relax and put your head on his shoulder or chest, whatever feels more comfortable. Sometimes, in the movie chairs, this feels a bit awkward and may make your back feel sore, so if at any point you aren't comfortable, don't be afraid to move. Outside the movie, just smile a lot and be yourself; if you're in a group it shouldn't be hard to keep a conversation flowing. When he takes you home, he'll walk you to your door if he's a gentleman, so just thank him for taking you out and tell him that you had fun. This would also be a good time to kiss him, if you would like to.





All these run-on sentences being said, just relax and enjoy your time with this boy. I tried to be as thorough as possible, so please don't let my long answer intimidate you because everything should come pretty naturally. Good luck and I hope you have fun! =)PLEASE give me first ever date advice!!!Thank you!?
You don't need to pretend to be someone else, if he asked you out, he likes you for you, just be yourself, dress how you normally dress, act how you normally act, maybe a bit more flirty, you're 12 and he's 13 don't expect much. Maybe during the movie reach under the armrest and hold his hand, or rest your head on his shoulder, you could always look up and kiss him on the cheek, and if he wants to kiss you, he will. But don't just assume because it's a date you have to kiss. Just hang out and have a good time, stay close to him, but not clingy, talk to him, but not an annoying amount, during the movie, like I said hold his hand etc. if you two don't kiss, hug him goodbye because then maybe he will kiss you after.


I hope you have fun :)

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