Tuesday, July 27, 2010

I Need Date Advice (women 23-28, only please)?

I am taking a woman out tomorrow night for the third time. The first time wasn't really a ';date';, we were meeting for the first time at Friday's for drinks. We had a great time, I kissed her when I left. We went out last weekend to Olive Garden, then back to her place for Robin Williams Live on Broadway. We laughed our asses off! We made out, and she said she was crushing on me. We are going out again tomorrow night, and I am taking her to dinner at about 7:30pm, the only problem is I'm not sure where else to take, what else to do. She is like any other 26 yr old woman she goes out for drinks with her girlfriends on the weekends, etc. I just don't want her to be bored! I want her to have a fun time with me, I want her to enjoy my company. Any suggestions for after dinner activities, ladies? Thanks!I Need Date Advice (women 23-28, only please)?
I would say get to KNOW the person before you make out with them x.x and that take a lot longer than 2 or 3 dates, it can take a year or more. She may only be trying you out, and as dating goes, she can and will get bored because the most important aspects of a relationship are lacking. You two are strangers to each other. Here's my tips for a prosperous relationship:





Everytime I hear the saying ';opposites attract'; I cringe because that couldn't be any farther from the truth. For people to be in a relationship with you, both of you should be totally insync with each other on most levels, sure we're not all the same, but the person you love should be your best friend. Yes you heard me say it, BEST FRIEND, as in someone you can trust completely, talk to about ANYTHING and everything, RELY upon, and share common interests. Someone who will always be there for you and accept you no matter what circumstances occur, good, bad, or indifferent. You should also know everything about that person's life, and understand their personality, flaws, good traits, ect. Remember, communication, communication, communication! Know your partner!





All of this takes a lot of TIME to create, a lot of talking and getting to know the person before leaping on them, making out, having sex, ect. This is why most people FAIL at relationships, because they are total strangers trying to make up for a lifetime of not knowing the person they are with, therefore there is no base for trust. Hence, friendship 1st is absolutely crucial.





I speak from personal experience because I am in a loving relationship that is all of those things and more.I Need Date Advice (women 23-28, only please)?
Well I'd take her to a more themed restaurant first. Like some place that's really cool like one of those Japanese Steak houses where they cook it in front of you??





Then see how she feels about taking in a movie or hitting the mall for some last minute shopping.
A movie or If you want to go someplace quiet to really get to know each other then a coffee shop or get some coffee/cocoa from Dunkin Dounuts and park at the Airport. Remember...she goes out for drinks every weekend because she is single...she may need a break from that so a club may not be the best idea.
wow..a guy that is into his girl..good for you..go to dinner..maybe outback steak house...then..I dont know..or you can shoot pool then go to outback steak house for dinner..I wish you the best no matter what you do..always remember to tell her she looks nice in what she is wearing..
OLIVE GARDEN- YUCK


try to find somewhere trendy that has good food... how about sushi bar or something little more mature. Olive garden is a nice date for kids in high school or college.
what about seeing plays, casino, movies, poetry clubs, nightclub, or even rent movies and stay at home. or a live concert. In fact every major city has newspapers that tell you the happening places to be at. whether a local band is playing at a bar, or new comedian. to have fun, take her to a carnival or theme park, or even haunted house
go back to your place and have some rose petals on the bed and the floor, have some wine in something that can hold the bottle and some ice if you don't have an ice bucket. some grapes.....etc and cheese and do the WILD THING. you know what i'm going to do that for my husband tonite. or yall can catch a moive.

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