Ok so Homecoming is November 7. And ive been seriously debating asking this guy i really like (He doesnt go to school with us but his homecoming is on the same day). I was waiting because i was hoping he would ask me, but i guess if u want something done u have to do it yourself. So anyhow i was thinking of asking him next weekend. But im worried either he has asked someone from his school or he would say no. He lives in my neighborhood so i was thinking of doing it like this.... ';Hey im walking outside if you wanna come?'; and then being like ';So what ur plans for homecoming?'; ';You asking anyone'; and then be like ';Well you want to come to come with me to mine?'; How do you guys think this sounds, or should i be like ';come with me?'; I really have no clue. I went to this dude's football game last friday to show my support. Anyhow ANY OTHER SUGGESTIONS OR DOES MY PLAN SEEM TO BE OK. DO YOU GUYS THINK I WOULD SCARE HIM OR FREAK HIM OUT BY ASKING?!?! NEED SOME ADVICE, PLZ HELP!!!!HOMECOMING?!?!?! HELP....DATE ADVICE?!?! PLZ PLZ PLZ?
If he has already asked someone else, it wont be a big deal.. He will just tell you hes already asked someone.
It may be awkard for a few minutes, but it wont last, I promise.
And if he wants to go to his, after you ask him to go with you, he may explain he wants to go to his and invite you.
Just go ahead and do it.
Dont think about it too much, it makes everything worse.
Nothing too bad can happen.
Good luck!HOMECOMING?!?!?! HELP....DATE ADVICE?!?! PLZ PLZ PLZ?
How about you tell him to walk you somewhere that you wanna grab a bite or some hot chocolate. Ask him about his day.... Then just ask him straight forward if he wants to go to the dance with you. (DONT ASK IF HES GOING TO THE DANCE IN HIS SCHOOL, AND DONT ASK HIM IF HE HAS SOMEONE....you will only give hime more time for an excuse if any, catch him off guard)
DONT TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM (he will in be charge of the game if u do so)
DONT MAKE IT OBVIOUS YOU LIKE HIM
when you do ask him, make sure you have a big smile on your face :)
Text him? Or walk up to him and say ';Do u wanna go to homecoming with me?'; and say it calmly. He probably wants to go to his homecoming. If he goes with somebody else, shake it off and find somebody else or just hang out with ur friends.
I think your plan is a good idea. He'll probably get the hint when you start asking him questions, and even if he doesn't have a date, if he isn't interested he'll probably say he's going with someone else so it won't be as harsh as saying ';NO!'; Or if you know some of his friends you could ask one if he's going to homecoming with anyone.
Look at it this way, if he doesn't make a move you could either make a move and ask him yourself. You have a 50/50 chance of him saying yes. And what if you don't make a move, you would 1. end up going to homecoming alone. 2. never knowing if he would've said yes. And the longer you wait, the more of a chance there is he could ask another girl or another girl could ask him. So just do it!
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